Questions: Dating

I was having this discussion with my friends and we agreed that nowadays we just have to have it all.

The guys that get the girls are tall, good looking, in amazing shape, have a good social media following and status, have money and a career. It’s like the top 3% of men. If you’re missing things you have to settle for way less, and little interest.

Also this is just to score a pretty broke girl.

I'm not her chef, but sometimes she works for me. Very determined, self confident, attractive woman. She accepted the invitations for lunch break with spontaneity and we had very nice lunches. I asked her out and she agreed, but that day she told me she canceled because she told she was sick. Was it a mistake to ask her out so quickly?