Questions: Dating

Consider an average boy (Mr Average) born somewhere between 1990 and 2005.

May have a post-high school degree (college or even bachelors degree).

Does not have a car or bicycle.

Works full time. Makes somewhere between above minimum wage to close to average.

Money expends completely towards housing and food.

And since the fun stuff aren't free (e. g. jetski, firing range, trampolines, rock climbing or aquaparks), he resorts to playing video games (e. g. fortnite, minecraft, age of empires, dead by daylight) and mas tur bating to po rn and watching disney+/netflix. Like literally every day.

May or may not smoke weed/vape.

Never went to vacation outside the country. He's too broke for anything!

May speak 2 languages. May be of another origin (e. g. from Europe/Asia/America)

Since food prices went up, he resorts to cooking at home in bulk simple dishes, so that he eats the same meal over the course of 2-3 days.

Stays inside mostly because he's too broke to afford the fun activities outside.

Tends to skip barber appointments sometimes (or just lets his hair grow long but might limit grooming it properly).

Doesn't go to parties because he can't really bring anything nor afford meetup fee's.

Doesn't bother going to nightclubs.

Doesn't go to the gym. He can't afford it.

So how is Mr Average today supposed to get girls and stop being a loser? Work 2 jobs? Hardly possible.

I am both races, and a lot of times, it seems like Caucasians are often considered the most attractive race, and a lot of non-racist caucasians, prefer their own race, but there's always been the dumb narratives that African American women are mean, and ghetto, native American aren't all that (looks wise), that African American men have big groins, but aren't really marriage material, Native American men have multiple wives, small groins, etc. I know some always has to keep something going, but what is your opinion? Would you date someone, who's Native American, or African American.

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and you turn down the request, what is the reason most often? (If your answer is not one of the seven options below, please leave a comment and explain.)

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and you turn down the request, what is the reason most often? (If your answer is not one of the seven options below, please leave a comment and explain.)

There’s so many pretty women that I’ve matched and messaged and they just ignore me. Like I’m trash.

The only girls that are really nice to me on apps usually are mehh or fat/uglier

I am meant to be a good looking guy and tall, I think pretty girls are now looking for something so obscenely rare. They’ve lost touch with reality.

I’ve had a 100 matches on hinge but tinder and the rest have been garbage.