I am both races, and a lot of times, it seems like Caucasians are often considered the most attractive race, and a lot of non-racist caucasians, prefer their own race, but there's always been the dumb narratives that African American women are mean, and ghetto, native American aren't all that (looks wise), that African American men have big groins, but aren't really marriage material, Native American men have multiple wives, small groins, etc. I know some always has to keep something going, but what is your opinion? Would you date someone, who's Native American, or African American.
My first long-term girlfriend in the US was a black American woman (classmate from university). She was very lovely. I actually wanted to marry her but it turned into an LDR after we graduated and fizzled out.
I never really had any racial preferences since every individual in a racial category can be so different from one another. I also always found at least some beauties in each one.
That said, I never tried online dating. The idea was always very unappealing to me since I want to meet and get to know a woman first before going on a date, not get to know a woman over the dating process.
If I tried online dating, I might have a racial bias favoring Asians, most specifically Japanese, since I am from Japan and we have that cultural background in common. It seems like the safest bet if I'm to date women I don't even know.
Outside of online dating though, I never had such a racial or ethnic preference when I was a bachelor since I was into meeting all sorts of people and didn't have to gamble like I suspect I would if I tried online dating. So if I was clicking with an attractive woman of any race through the process of getting to know her, I'd ask her out.
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Sure doesn't look like it to me!! Look at how many mixed race couples there are, today!! I nearly married an Indian chick! I can think of at least 2 or 3 black chicks I could've easily fallen madly into bed with. I MEAN... love!
"and a lot of non-racist caucasians, prefer their own race," No, they're racist. That's just an excuse they had to try to cover up their racism.
How can someone be attracted to someone that looked like them? Makes absolutely no sense to me. The point is trying to diversify your genes lol, not "keep it in the family" like the Royal Family of Medival Past! Lol.
Why do you think lots of Asian women go for White guys? Especially if they can? ! People (both men and women) are hypergamous by nature. They will date whatever they can get away with dating.
I tell you if the world was backwards and it was BLACK people that were in power and had all the POWERFUL positions in politics and the T. V. and news Media, THEY would be the ones getting more pussy than other races! They'd have more choice in who they were to date instead of sticking to their dark chocolate counterparts. THEY would be the ones with no qualms about dumping women over stupid things, because they got more choice! Who WOULDN'T develop such a mentality with that those kinds of odds! I tell you, white men are SPOILED! They're loved by their own women, as well as the minorities!
I am half Native American and white (french) but I look completely white. I am basically my dads mini me lol I have personally dated black, white, Native and South Asian/Indian. I personally don't really have a preference, but I have dated more black guys then other races.
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I don’t give a rats arse what skin colour or ethnic background a person has, however meeting anyone you describe is so incredibly low there is no chance of it occurring.
I think they usually make a big deal out of nothing. For instance not being desired or being appealing to the opposite sex is not disrespectful unless prefaced with mad shit talk. Don't play the race card little anon.
No, it's not disrespect to not desire or date someone.
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