Questions: Dating

A girl that wants to just be provided for and live a soft life.

Is there any point in dating that person? Life can be difficult and you need someone that can go through difficulty with you and still be with you. Women that wanna be just taken care of what would happen if you were to encounter financial trouble? Is she gone?
If you make her life all easy paying for her Ofc she will like you but how real is that?

Like entitled. Like let’s say you get into a relationship and oh for all the dates what if you get used? What if she’s just using you because it’s free entertainment?

I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong to her. I feel like I was good to her. She broke up with me. I missed her and tried to reach out she ignored and I sent her flowers (I really shouldn’t have). There was no message of who they were from.

After the first message she sends me a message weeks later, very business like and cold. Whereas initially I reached out saying how are you I hope you and your family are well to which she ignored. No hi or anything in her message. After we broke up I did unfollow her on insta which she may have not liked.

Anyway I’m not replying, this is the last straw. Fair enough I should have put a message / not sent them - but her whole response is just cold and mean. Even when we broke up she gave me a bunch of reasons saying I’m untrustworthy and a player when I have no idea how she could reach such assumptions. We all make small mistakes but I feel I was a good boyfriend to her.

A girl that is 10/10 pretty, unique features with beautiful light eyes, good body. A stunner

Or

A guy that is a combination of tall, fit, good looking, educated and from a very wealthy family. The full package essentially.

What I am trying to ask is, is it rarer to be a stunning girl or a guy that’s the full package on paper. Obviously before getting to know them etc…