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The loneliness of today's young men is one of the most frequently talked about topics. I've noticed that the manosphere seems to pretend that society is the sole reason why young men are lonely, but, as a woman, I totally and wholeheartedly disagree.
I've rejected dozens of young men. Do you want to know why I reject young men? Not looks, not social status, not money, I keep rejecting young men because of their emotional immaturity and their lack of emotional and social intelligence.
Do you want to know what I find hilarious? Young men keep listening to other men. ''Ask the fisherman, not the fish'', they say. However, since most men are either single or in low quality relationships; I can confidently say other men's advice doesn't seem to be effective. Maybe men should start realising they should listen to women more.
I don't even feel empathy towards young men, not even when I hear about the psychological issues that their loneliness causes. They keep not listening to women, they keep causing their own problem, then they complain about loneliness and wOmEn'S hIgH sTaNdArDs.
They keep thinking that going to the gym and making money is enough to attract women, then they cry when they realise it isn't.
I, for example, am about to become a software engineer and I'm already working as a coder. Why would I need a man's money? Having a career is not enough to attract me. Sure, I can enjoy receiving a Valentine's Day present, but that's different from being attracted to a man just because he has a career.
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Because young men think with their dicks over anything else , and that’s why they don’t understand why girls Aren’t falling for them. I was a young guy before and I will admit I really didn’t listen to a girl the way I should of , I had girlfriends’ and sex buddies but they didn’t last, because I chose not to listen to them and assumed she was just being a bitch for being upset over things that I didn’t think she should be upset about , I was all about just having fun and having sex , it wasn’t until I got a little bit older and realized to myself what I was doing was wrong , I was dating 7 girls’ at one time because my one ex broke my heart and I decided to no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , I assumed time will tell when the right girl comes along , When I was dating those 7 girls’ I was honest with all of them that I wasn’t looking for a relationship right away , and that I am just having fun and that I enjoy dating. And hanging out and socializing. Giving her a choice on whether she wanted to continue seeing me or not , they all decided to continue dating me. At that time I felt like I was this pimp by getting all these girls’ interested in me 😂 Until I realized what I was doing was wrong , because it hit me that I was practically stringing these girls’ along even though I gave them a choice , when my phone was blowing off the hook with these girls’ that were trying to make plans with me , it became so much to the point I didn’t know what day and time I was doing what with what girl, so I would call them back and say wait a second we need to change the day and time because I forgot I am busy that day. That’s when it hit me that I had to stop doing this. So out of those 7 girls’ the one I chose became my wife of 20 some years. Our relationship lasted because we listened to each other and understood each other for a long time , until it ended between us , now we don’t listen to each other 😂 Some of the younger girls’ that showed interest in me all told me that they love that I listen to them and that I make them feel like an actual human being when I asked her why she was interested in me. She said guys’ her age are assholes and only think about themselves and their dicks. So now that I am single again , I been open to meeting a younger girl because of the chemistry and connection and attraction we share for each other. Her age doesn’t really matter to me , it’s the connection and chemistry that matters 😊
If you want to be an independent woman, go be one. Men won't stop you. Knock yourself out. Men just don't want to be in a relationship with such women, because those characteristics aren't attractive to men.
Women love to believe that they are so emotionally intelligent, but these same women are the ones most likely to be on psychiatric meds, and most likely to have constant emotional breakdowns and post "crying in their car" videos on the Internet. The women I know who are actually emotionally stable never talk about emotional intelligence because they aren't emotionally fragile and on the razor's edge all the time.
Because you lie. Women aren’t telling men what they need to know to find happiness. You’re telling them what you want them to know to provide YOUR happiness. Literally MILLIONS of men have been used and abused because they took dating advice from women. The jig is up.
When you were younger, did you listen to your parents and heed their admonitions?
So was your plan to live in separate homes and only meet during the day, a reaction to immature men or is it still the end goal? ㅤ
"They keep thinking that going to the gym and making money is enough to attract women, then they cry when they realise it isn't." - But that is the problem, for two reasons:
1. The men should be doing this - for *themselves* and for their own good. If they happen to attract a lady? Well, that is incidental.
2. And today, so many women, the younger ones under 35 anyway, are just *impossible* to please, so they should not bother.
With age, a more realistic appraisal *finally* starts to appear among all too many of them, but by then, family formation is over. And by then, some of them have become insufferable, as a hilarious TikTok video illustrates:
https://www.tiktok.com/@exit_stage_left_/video/7609628336196734226
"Maybe men should start realising they should listen to women more." - oh really now? All too many of you are contradictory and what you say that what you want doesn't match what you actually do, not at all.
Careful there girl. A woman with her own money and not dependent on a man is what these guys fear most in life. 🤣 You're gonna scare the crap out of them.
Your point is valid though. If you want to know why you're failing with women, go ask women, not your fellow whining failure Incel buddies. But realize that not every woman is going to have the introspective thought or the communication skills to deliver truly meaningful honest answers. And some guys have figured it out. It's not really that hard. Maybe go ask some guys who are not utter failures with women.
Here's the secret in a nutshell. Be a healthy adult personality with confidence and empathy for women. Have some self respect and show respect for other people generally. Take care of yourself, fitness, grooming, clothes, and your mind. And always try to do the right thing.
Women like that don't scare men, they just aren't attractive.
If I made you a sandwich full of garden slugs, and you refused to eat it, is that because you were afraid or intimidated by the slugs? I doubt it - you probably just had no desire to eat slugs for lunch because that's not an attractive meal.
The majority of women who talk about being strong and independent are man-haters and think they are superior to men, and that makes them undesirable to men. Men aren't intimidated or afraid of them - men are perfectly happy to let them be independent and go about their lives, we just have no desire to be involved with them.
There ARE women - not all that many, but some - who know that they need a man and would not be happy without one. Most of these women want children and they prioritize having a family. That's the kind of woman that most men are attracted to. The others are only good for one thing, and for many men, they aren't even worth that.
This cope that men are AFRAID is just delusion.
No most men shouldn’t listen to women these days. You think we should listen to women when there’s thousands of women who support Lindsay Clancy? A number of women are on antidepressant pills, unstable and unhappier more than ever. Maybe you’re not right now, but just give it time. As you age things change. Most women are no more mature than most men. Maybe men don’t need to mature as fast as women’s men aren’t on a timeline like women biologically. Most women don’t even know what emotional intelligence means. It’s just a set of words they like to throw around to try to put down men, but in reality a lot of women aren’t emotionally intelligent as well.
omg this! Men sooo need to listen to more women. I've not seen much of the advice from the Manosphere, but from what I've seen, it's really bad.
I cannot date a man who doesn't care about feelings. Look, I get it, most men aren't as emotional. That's fine, but there is a difference between being less emotional and the only emotion you feel is anger.
I think it's rooted in misogyny. Women=Dumb so Women advice = Dumb.
Your points are fair.
And... to a close approximation there are as many single women as there are single men. In Italy, the average person leaves their parent's home when they are 30, the fertility rate is close to 1 meaning the population is on track to halve every generation, etc.
The system is broken. If you want to fix it, be the change. Criticising men, even though it is warranted, isn't solving the problem.
"I've rejected dozens of young men" LOL good girl, bloody them up good so they stop being simps.
The problem is 'social and emotional intelligence' is subjective in many circumstances. Also, this is far from a gendered problem.
I think some lonely young men ignore women’s advice because accepting it would mean acknowledging that their current beliefs or behaviors might be part of the problem. Some become defensive because they interpret advice as criticism or rejection rather than an opportunity to grow. Others prefer advice that confirms what they already believe, especially when online communities reinforce their frustrations and blame women for their loneliness.
Men are just looking for people to agree with them. Give them some cold hard truths, and they spit the dummy.
Because the thought that they might need to change their behavior is too painful. They would rather be lonely than admit that their inability to attract a partner could be a result of their behavior.
If men follow women's advice they soon find out it doesn't work.
The notion that women are emotional and naive feeds the men this ignorance. Their ego supersedes everything.
The reality is women in general get more emotionally mature than men at a young age.
THIS is why
https://www.youtube.com/embed/QarSgk3na7QAre you mortisha from the Adams family 😂😂
Men have always obsessed over the wrong traits.