Polls: Dating

Im normal weight (size 6) and this dude I slept with and wanted to see me desperately the next day said he couldn’t go on pursuing me because I’m too big for him and he needed someone skinnier so he would look dominant since he himself is quite slim (but at 6 foot 4 also quite tall). I was really upset about this and when I looked through his Instagram followings I noticed he followed many really young looking women with pubescent bodies (many borderline anorexic) that don’t follow him back. His best friend disclosed that while he is a friendly guy he tends to be manipulative and exhibits stalker tendencies with women. He still watches all my insta stories and keeps glancing and staring at me when he sees me in public despite rejecting me. The dude is 26 and refers to women as girls. Is that normal? Am I overreacting?

At first I wasn't upset but then I thought he could've told me he was going out eat. Especially since he's been lacking on communication lately , even if it's a coworker or he's out with his guy friends, I'm feeling like maybe I'm not that important to him

Girls, would you have a one night stand with a guy who is tall (6'3) but has average face and other features just because he is tall?

This is what my guy best friend told me to cheer me up when I was crying about my crush who for some reason rejected me even though all the signs of him liking me were there. Is this true or is this just a myth? Do men really shy away from their crush but date other women because they feel like they are not enough for her at that time?

You met someone you really like and you start dating they become your boyfriend/girlfriend and then one day finally you go into their room and you find yourself in this hoarder room

What do you do?
they don’t know you went in there to see.

They forgot something and you figured you’d go get it and you just go in and find this ⬆️ 👆

What do you do?
be honest.

Can someone please give me advice. I matched with a guy on a dating app and we are in two different countries. We have stated that we are exclusively getting to know each other and to let the other person knows if that changes. I made us take the attachment test and we found out that he’s secure and I’m anxious. Because of the time differences we aren’t able to speak for that long however during the day we don’t have that much communication (which is bothering me). They message me in the morning and I message them back and I don’t hear from them until 11pm their time, which is when they are about to go to sleep. I’ve mentioned that I don’t like their communication style and they say they’ll work on it but it’s gotten worse tbh. I know they are busy and have a lot on their plate, so I’m trying to be understanding but it’s getting to me. I like is it a me issue or we just aren’t compatible. How am i suppose to get to know someone if we aren’t in communication… I don't know or am I being childish? I’ve always been huge on communication but I’m like is it bc I truly care about it or is it my attachment style playing a part in it. Also, we’ve only known each other for 3 months so it’s fairly new. Am I putting too much expectation on it? I don’t want to keep bringing it up because I have like 4 times. Should I end it because of communication issue. I do like him, his morals etc, there are something I don’t agree with him (which I think is normal bc it’s not everything you’ll agree with someone on) & I’d like to continue knowing him but I don’t know if I should. Someone please advise & thank you.