Polls: Dating

I have always been curious about this, as I rarely get attracted to people. I just find people more or less interesting than attractive. I have, however, had people say my qualities are very attractive, but I do not know what they imply? I have watched some guys that my friends were interested in saying they found them attractive but nothing was done, or sometimes something happened, but there might be a third party influence in this.

Can someone be attracted to you romantically, or can people be attracted as friends too? I thought through friends, it was "compelling" or "felt drawn to", but that might be the same thing as attraction?

Sorry guy, it's your fault.

Here's why:

1. Men have placed so much emphasis on sex that now majority of women are brainless, no personality, no self respect and no morals are all that's left. All they bring to the table is looks.

2. Women who have beauty and brains have been criticized by men because they're career oriented and selective when choosing a male companion. Men often refer to them as getting old and will be lonely forever.

3. Men just won't stfu. They're hypocritical. They say they want a sexy woman yet call her a hoe for being sent. If she's covered up and has morals she's boring.

4. They just never stop complaining nothing is ever good enough for them.

5. Women got tired of men's games. Now men want to settle down after decades of games. Women aren't interest sorry

If you ask a girl out on a date and she refuses for a long time and you keep insisting until finally she says yes, you take her to a restaurant but when it comes time to order, you order a cheesecake.

you invited her to a dinner date but you order a cheesecake? Does this mean something?

of course after he ordered a cheese cake I felt weird ordering an actual plate so I ordered a cheesecake as well lol. Wtf? I was kind of happy I didn’t order first that would have been too awkward.

p. s. I had never been on a first date ever so I don't know if people on first dates are scared to eat real food or if this has a different meaning like he insisted so much but wants to end the date as soon as it starts because cheesecake will be served almost instantly and finish it just as fast?

Link to convo for context: https://imgur.com/a/INr5ETI

We spoke for maybe 2 weeks back in December on Hinge, I thought it was fine until out of the blue his convo disappears & I assume he unmatched. Last week, I get a notification he liked my prompt & decided to match with him yesterday b/c I was curious to hear his stance, as to why he unmatched the first time around. Now he sends this message shortly after & seems like he deleted his account that first time. So if you “enjoyed” talking with me, why didn’t you take the initiative to keep the convo going outside of the app if you knew you were going to delete it? I remember him mentioning he wasn’t on social media & I wasn’t comfortable with sharing my #…still I feel like there could’ve been more effort if you actually care.