Polls: Dating

Generally people say that unattractive guys have a good heart and handsome guys are cheaters. But I oppose it. Because I seen most of the guys who are handsome as loyal guys and the guys who tend to be unattractive cheats on their girlfriends frequently, breaks the heart of their beautiful girlfriend who settled for less with them by mistaking that they are good guys who doesn't cheat on them but in reality I seen those beautiful girls getting treated like shit by their unattractive boyfriends. I seem more girls in loyal relationships when they have handsome boyfriend and not simply by that but personally I seen such handsome guys who are greatly loyal to their girlfriends. Do you agree with the fact that unattractive guys mostly are also unattractive by their hearts?

Like, should i just go ahead and date someone even if there's things about them I dont like?

I was diagnosed with seven mental disorders, including one personality disorder (BPD). There's a lot of stigmatization around mental disorders, especially around Cluster B personality disorders. From what I've seen online, people often regard people with BPD as manipulative, abusive, and violent. I'm scared to tell potential partners because I don't want them to think I'm a horrible person because of my disorders. Anytime I have, they didn't take me seriously and left when symptoms appeared. Some even insulted me. I'm not sure it's immoral to not tell potential partners about my medical information, but I find the risks to greatly outweigh the benefits.

I believe self respect is not worth losing for an egoistic guy who only cares for himself and can't be there for his girl whenever she needs and always expects her to make the first move. I believe guys should make a first move not girls always. There are girls who simply wants to be nice so they make first move without ego but these egoistic guys treat them with no respect. It's always better for a girl to be with a guy who makes the first move and is ready to sacrifice anything for her rather than an egoistic guy who simply uses her as much as he wants and throws her away when he loses interest, blocks her, treats her like shit, can't see her moving on with other guy, don't let her move on with other guy, manipulates her, does all the narcissistic things to her, only cares about himself and not her, chases other girls shamelessly in front of her. Who wants to be with this kind of egoistic guy? I know some girls get attracted to these kind of guys but eventually they make their way to their greatest heartbreaks, unfulfilled life they get. They can never be truly content and always suffers with these second type of guys. Do you agree?

this is for both guys and girl, if say, your boyfriend/girlfriend is feeling bad and insecure about your opposite gendered bestfriend, and asks you to choose? what would you do?
you have been bestfriends for about 2-3 years and they (the opposite gender) has gotten close to your and your heart (platonically only). They too do not see you as anything other than a good close friend.
you have been dating your partner for about a little lesser time time but yeah, you get the point.

what do you think is supposed to be done here? and why?

Last year I moved to a new city and starting hanging out with an acquaintance and her friends group. In this group there was the cutest boy and there was quite a spark, from his behavior I would have guessed it was mutual. However the group dynamic was very heavy, it turned out that many girls in the group were after him and in particular my acquaintance was obsessed with him. One day I noticed she overheard us talking about going for a drink just the two of us and after that she never invited me again to join the group for months. At the same time, he became very cold with me and eventually stopped replying to my messages, and I now suspect it was her who told him lies about me. Lately I had an enlightening talk with her best friend who told me that she was behaving completely crazy with him and that she was literally stalking him (picking him up at work etc) and that he was so mad at her that he left the group and ghosted everyone in it to cut ties with her completely.

I had moved on as I really thought he had stopped talking to me because I was annoying him. Recently I met a cute boy but since he’s in my life, all my brain is able to do is comparing him with this other boy and think that he was the right one. I don’t know if I should try to get back in contact with him.