Polls: Dating

I find it baffling if they’re a woman & still stay single, as it’s known women have it easier. The most I do being a 29F is go on dating apps on and off, I’ve been single for several years. It seems like being in a relationship with a man is not possible for me, I get the attention you’d expect as a woman on the app but it doesn’t go anywhere for a multitude of reasons. Which is why I have to ask myself if I’m actually attractive or if everyone in my life is lying to me. In person, I have yet to be approached by a guy I’d actually want to date. I’m not that unapproachable , if supermodels can find love then I feel it’s an excuse when people tell me I’m “intimidating”

For me it is a No and the guy cheer leaders are Hot! 🔥

There is something about the sport that just brings out the worst in people and makes it grow!

3 of my friends in highschool went from wonderful sweet and friendly to rude aggressive mean girls to any one but those on Thier cheer team.

Our cheer team was terrible too! Always lost Thier competitions.

Im so insecure to wear crop tops because I have a bit belly fat. Im not fat and my bmi is 22. I have curves plus the little belly fat. Do guys only like flat stomachs?

For context, I moved out at 24 & owned a condo for 3 years. Moved back in last yr & decided to go that route bc of the housing market & just wanting to save up. I have a bit of a nest egg from selling my old place but it’s locked away in a cd & trying to be smart. I feel like I should have some more shame/be more down with my life (how society would see it) but maybe I know I would’ve felt worse if I was still living with them & have NEVER lived on my own. Or am I lying to myself?

Imagine you meet two equally beautiful men or women. One has average teeth and one has perfect white teeth. Would both have the same chances with you?

29F, have been told I’m pretty/attractive, have a younger face which is how I could be deemed as cute instead. When I tell you I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually want to date, I get attention from guys in person but it’s usually the questionable ones. I’ve been told on and off in the past that a guy I found attractive would look at me/found me attractive but never did anything about it (I’m too shy to also). I don’t have any in person friends as I work remote & sadly only rely on dating apps. The guys I match with I find attractive but not sure if I’m just unlucky (likely the case) or it’s dating apps as a whole but for some reason it doesn’t work out for a multitude of reasons. If those guys actually noticed me in person I would feel a little bit more secure. My thing is I’m pretty old in my opinion, as most people my age are married & have kids. I only have a str under my belt from a few years ago when I was in my early twenties & have been single since. I have this mindset that if I was actually attractive, I would’ve had quality guys lined up by now. Since that str, I’m very selective & am even quicker to stop something in its tracks if the guy does something that turns me off/isn’t what I’m fully looking for. I think dating has treated me very unfairly as “pretty girls” don’t deal with this, unless I’m missing something. And I’ll add this even though it shouldn’t matter that much in the very early talking stages: I don’t care about sex much at all, maybe overthinking it but unsure if that vibe is picked up on being so reserved.

TLDR: would you also think you’re unattractive if you’re almost thirty & don’t ever get attention from guys you’d actually consider dating?