A Fascinating Look At How Some Of The Most Sought After Women Do What They Do Best -- Reject Guys?

[Billlewis]

Rejection Is A Vital Part Of Every Guy's Life And Well Being

Rejection Sucks, And Should Be Reserved Only For Cucks

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Many of you have doubtless passed through an area that is clearly intended for use by hundreds of people at a time. The subway station, or the main entrance at Disney World, etc. Now, try to envision this same engineering applied to the dating segment of the population. Imagine being so attractive, so maddeningly beautiful, that you must develop a system for processing the unending procession of guys who want to date you!
Girls, do you have a go-to technique for rejecting guys? ↗

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Call me crazy, but the process by which a beautiful woman rids herself of the frustrated males who yearn for an intimate lovemaking sessions with her fascinate me unendingly. I never grow weary of reading the stories about the ingenuity women use to dump guys, and if I'm fortunate, she'll reveal who the lucky guy for whom she jettisoned the hapless wuss for.

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Here's another article about the dynamic of beautiful women rejecting sex starved guys, and apparently taking great pleasure in doing so;)
medium.com/.../why-women-are-bitches-and-reject-good-men-195a6c0694dc

[Jayde21]

I feel like guys are much simpeler overall than women if its about dating. Nowadays its getting even harder because of social media and stuff. Women knows exactly what they want and also want deeper connections and stuff and guys overall are more focused on the looks and personality but deep connections is just difficult for them. Also communication is hard nowadays, cuz everyone rather leaves than sit and make things work.

And rejecting is normal you get that in also friendships and relationships. Both women and men does that. Doesn’t mean it cannot hurt i mean it does and i believe especially after all these social media stuff standards are getting higher. Plus everything is about appearances now and what the problem is both women and men get unrealistic expectations and standards for in a partner and appearances. Its never enough. Guys need to be bigger and a jawline and all and girls need bigger boobs and asses with small waists and stuff but no one looks at the personality.

And i think we need to do that more, normalize just being who you are and give people chances to show what they are inside cuz thats what it will make you live with each other in the end. Beauty fades but a good heart stays.

[Crimsyjo]

Well put and lovely to read @Jayde21.

[steveusna]

I had five long relationships with women in my life. (long means greater than one year) I have had girlfriends who had perfect bodies and were incredibly beautiful. I have had girlfriends who were BBW. I have girlfriend who had average bodies and were plain looking. Did looks have any impact on the quality of our relationship? 100% No. In the first four weeks, it may have mattered because sex was primarily about attraction then. If a relationship is going to be serious, sex becomes more about love so looks matter much less.

[Madkeyra00]

All women reject guys they aren’t interested in. Most sort out women may reject more guys because more guys are seeking them out.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I agree wholeheartedly with you. I'm going to go out on a limb here, and guess that because you are obviously substantially more attractive than most people, male or female, you probably have a general idea of how, specifically, you're going to reject the long line of men who wish to date you.

[Dr_CEI]

Everyone gets rejected at some point, it's a right of passage. No one is the ideal partner for all. Though I must confess the thought of rejection being reserved for cuckold very appealing. That's a world I would relish living in. Constant humiliation while seeing others accepted all around me would be a new low

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Getting rejected, whether it's dating or from someone you're in a long-term relationship with, will happen. It's important to learn from that event, perhaps a chance to self evaluate your shortcomings, and what you might be doing to negatively contribute to the relationship.

[Beckybooboo]

Most people have been rejected at some time in their life, I guess it is just a part of growing pains. What really hurts, is being in a long term relationship and being the one to end it! For a long time it’s torture, because you always look back at the good times when you were in love and wonder what went wrong and still having love for that person makes it even tougher. I appreciate every boyfriend I ever had, because they all made me who I am today, in some way.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Deciding to end a relationship is hard, if you're a decent person. Sometimes others make it easy, based on the stupidity of their actions.

[steveusna]

My first girlfriend was in my freshman year of college. We dated for a year exclusively. I was still a virgin and asked her if we could make sex a part of our relationship. She said she didn't want that so I stood up and immediately broke up with her. We were still friends. Even after all the years, I am still so grateful for our relationship. She was a really important person in my life.

[IslaTheWitch]

Being rejected is part of the game, right? There would be no fun without the risk...

[Billlewis]

Oh, most definitely -- and if the guy has submissive leanings, like me, the initial rejection can even be switched over to a more subservient type of arrangement.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I wonder how an actuary looks at dating?

[sage2021]

@IslaTheWitch
I never looked at relationships as a "game".
There are no guarantees with any relationship, but being rejected and hurt is not "fun" either in my opinion. I would never intentionally hurt someone's feelings, but they sure don't mind hurting mine.

[IslaTheWitch]

@sage2021 I didn't hurt anyone, I was hurt as hell. Life. Can't control it.

But if you were sure you would always succeed, would you put so much effort into the early stages of the relationship? Would you still have the butterflies in your stomach?

[Wallythewalrus2]

I wouldn’t know anything about that, I’ve never been rejected.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

All hail, the mighty walrus!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XVk_e31dnlE

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Here is the correct video
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hAFuD-S-e_E

[Billlewis]

No, Sir, that's common knowledge these days... lol
getyarn.io/.../58a05f99-58ec-4863-b861-b9aceebb372f

[Billlewis]

@MiddleAgedClimbee Awesome, thanks very much!

[Wallythewalrus2]

If I know you, Bill, I would think your ultimate fantasy, is to have the woman’s boyfriend break up with you but only after you bought them dinner and “serviced” them.

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, I'm sure that's one of many possible configurations of an arrangement like this.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@wallythewalrus2 are you trying to angle for a free dinner? Courtesy of Bill?

[Wallythewalrus2]

@MiddleAgedClimbee Bill couldn’t afford me, I’m a high class whore!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@wallythewalrus2 how do you feel about green eggs and ham? Would you could you with a fox? Would you could you in a box?

[Nikki1989]

For the strong, rejection will just make them stronger, while the weak will crumble at the very thought of it. It is a part of life.

[boobliker]

I think there is to much rejection in dating that that is why most kids don't leave home till they are over 32. both guys and girls have had too much fun before getting wed that why they end in the big (D)

[love_conquers_lust]

I speculate you were full mast reading that thread.

Rejection does suck. I know this post is meant for levity, but it must be taken in stride. I remember this gorgeous woman who was flooded with replies on a social media page criticizing her for something and she was driven to suicide because of it.

It helps us grow, but it’s important to remember our successes as well.

[LadyKitty]

Rejection happens, Will it hurt? Yes but there is more fish in the sea.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I remember this time I was rejected. Didn't actually suck all that much. A bit of a surprise, actually, but I thought oh well, on to the next. Are people really traumatized by being rejected or something?

[Billlewis]

Oh, no, I'm not suggesting that the shame of being rejected is harmful, or even overly painful, but I find it so fascinating, even erotic at times.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It was a Wednesday if I remember correctly. It was super cold because we had such a late winter push that rolled through in April of that year. Got snow on the sixth. This would have been the Wednesday after that. Wednesday was the night the wine bar ran specials, which is where I went instead of out with the lady who rejected me. Met an absolutely charming young lady there and had a rather whirlwind relationship up until my next deployment in autumn. Hope life has been kind to her.

[RedInnocent68]

While we thank all applicants for their interest, only successful candidates will be contacted.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I remember seeing that phrase a time or two in my younger years!

[RedInnocent68]

I get casting a wide net, the magic of thinking big, stretch goals, and all that, but often it’s just no, whatever could you possibly have been thinking? I know a lot of girls must feel that way all the time, like with rando, unsolicited dick pics… 🤦‍♂️

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I would imagine sending unsolicited private photos would be a very easy way to get rejected or removed from particular dating pool🤣🤣

[RedInnocent68]

You would think. And yet, we know it happens all the time..,

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Thank goodness walking into that restaurant 22 years ago in tighty whiteys worked for me🤣🤣

[RedInnocent68]

Chapeau!

[Quigly]

The Soviet Union said it best.

America is all about abandonment.

[Zestyassmf1997]

I sort of agree with both. Rejection sucks…and experiencing it and learning how to handle it is an important part of life.

[cth2188]

I can't answer this question as a gay woman who doesn't date men

[Anonymous]

It's not fascinating. Just a troll question. She asking it to women knowing guys will see it and she's just trying to antagonize.

[KrakenAttackin]

Men do learn a lot by rejection.