What do you think about jobless men dating women?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I might be biased because I'm trying to figure out my life currently. But I do think that love doesn't distinguish based on money. I'm not exactly just staying still when it comes to my life and trying to freeload off my mom. I'm trying to start a business and learning the skills I need to do so. I'm tired of working for others. I want the freedom to be able to work for myself. I have goals and dreams I'm trying to achieve.

I know you need money to be able to have any standard of life, but most people used to live in poverty and were okay finding partners and falling in love back in the day. Women are too pampered in Western society and they all expect you to have everything figured out before dating, especially around my age. But I will always say if a girl can't take me at my low, she doesn't deserve me when I'm at my best.

HardInBama · Accepted Answer

Hopefuly your not relying a dude without a job ever. Its cool if he hustle. The real question is what he does with his money. Like me for example. I got a job, job pays said earnings for my labor. Last but not least... money burns in my pocket. Causes my life choices to become regrets of life.. lol long story short. Obsrve his level of responsibility. Not his level of opportunity.🙏 Men miss out by chance and luck sometimes. Not always choice. Dont go for the peice of shit like me, that makes the wrong choice bc its fun💔

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

That is pretty general tho. What is he is "jobless" because he made millions and doesn't have to work? What if he had a large inheritance? Those people can be jobless too and be in perfect financial position. I think you mean your average Joe that doesn't have a job and isn't sitting on a pile of cash. In that case I think there are more important things to focus on than getting a girl. Ideally you want to be financially stable and have your life in order before jumping into a relationship and adding all the things that come with it.

LittleMelissa9614 · Accepted Answer

Been there, done that. Not doing that again only because that ex took some money from me. The next man I meet, he should at least have a job even if it's a minimum wage job I wouldn't care. As long as he's financially stable.

AviatorTom · Answer

Most people are jobless temporarily, as in they recently quit or got laid off and are "between jobs". That's no reason to not date.

Summeroflove · Answer

There’s nothing wrong with dating. If you don’t want to date someone. You don’t have to. It just depends on his situation and what both people are looking for.

Kokoroho · Answer

Dating us to get know me. Not my financial issue, not my bank, not my wallet. If it's a turn off then speaks volumes about her and I dodged a bullet as I see she's not there for me at my lowest. But I could out a job or quit or have back up but never told her. 🤔

gayesblog · Answer

I think jobless men dating women is totally fine. Love isn't about job status and being jobless can be temporary. I believe that love is about connection, respect, and support. Being jobless doesn't define a person's worth or ability to be a great partner. It's all about the chemistry!

sawno · Answer

Job first girl second is probably a better strategy, but you can always try your luck.
When I met my ex trough a chance encounter I was jobless as well, it was the corona lockdown beginning there were no suitable jobs in my area at the time. A few months into dating her that stabilized and I got a job again that I still hold, she didn't mind as it was always obvious I would get the job again once things calmed down. I had plenty of savings to carry me over.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's really cicumstantial.

Maybe he did well for himself and then quit to just enjoy life and so is then jobless.

Maybe he quit as he wants to do something else or go for his dream job or the company was just not the right fit. Maybe the company hit rough times and he lost his job.

Those aren't really reasons to not date as long as in the second example they are looking for employment.

The only times I'd say it's an issue is if they aren't looking for a job. Or if there behaviour is the reason that they lost their job.

Billlewis · Answer

I've served several women who at least occasionally dated guys who weren't working at the time, and I paid for her dates with them whenever necessary.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of women choose those guys. At least in the U. S. they do. In many places, they're revered as almost on par with rap stars. They're called low level dope dealer/weed smoker baby daddies on back child support they've never paid. They don't all have multiple baby mommas because females found them repulsive.😉

Simslover92 · Answer

As long as they are working towards getting a job, I see no problem with it.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

If he isn't dating for a place to stay I don't see it as an issue. As long as he can make his own way and is planing to get a job.

EmmaMary · Answer

It would greatly depend on the reasons and circumstances as to why he was jobless.

WEIXIN · Answer

I honestly just wanted to see if people date for companionship, and how important is status in peoples daily lives

serious · Answer

If they are jobless then they should not date. First earning money and career is important followed by other things.

RebelinSteel · Answer

What like someone at university not being allowed to date, bit draconian and would kill a lot of professionals meeting anyone.

rigmarole · Answer

Sounds like a good test of a women's character. If it doesn't bother her, then she's probably a half way decent person on some level.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Since when is there anything wrong with that?

Yannae · Answer

Date. By all means. I was jobless for a couple of months when I was dating. She knew about it too and I have a job again and she's still with me now.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't approach when jobless, and believe they should not date. Especially those who have been jobless for half a year or more. Less than that depends. But in general, no.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have no problem with that. My husband was unemployed when I first met him.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Eh, I was jobless for almost a year but I don't feel like that should bar someone from dating.

Anonymous · Answer

I realized the hard way that once they get a job, they want a different woman. Not the one who held them down while they were down and out

Unit1 · Answer

How about "Jobless people can date if they want to" ?

laly520 · Answer

I think they need to find a job or else it would be an extra weight on the girl

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe they would depend on the woman to pay for everything. Gives them more reason to not look for a job.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Probably a good way to test whether she actually loves him for him or his money.

Jackblue · Answer

I am not jobless, but I have trouble supporting myself right now as a result I am not in the dating market, it just doesn't feel right.

serious_miss419 · Answer

It’s that individuals own choice with the other person. Not our call to say so. None of our business

systemsareyo · Answer

They're luckier than when I was unemployed lol 😂 I guess

Djaay · Answer

Well a man will take in a broke ass woman , but a woman won't even look at broke man let along take him in.

zagor · Answer

If they can afford it, sure. Some guys retire in their 30's.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's none of my business. That's between the two people involved.

Aegithalos · Answer

Men have to work whether they want to or not. If men doesn't want to work, who will take care of the family?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't date unemployed women, only women who are medical students.

AngryCarl · Answer

Life doesn't stop because you don't have a job.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Jobless men shouldn't be jobless period. Dating or not.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If he has money then fine but if not then he shouldn't. It's embarrassing..

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Unemployed men should know better than to date unless they are a Chad, Pookie, or Ray Ray.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I MEAN THINGS HAPPEN... IM OUT OF WORK RIGHT NOW THROUGH NO FAULT OF MY OWN

Anonymous · Answer

The same think i think about jobless women dating men.

Anonymous · Answer

Well my question would be why is she chasing jobless men?

Anonymous · Answer

Jobless men should not be allowed to date, only if they have money.

MemeSupreme · Answer

unless they got a good reason itzaaa no

Kaneki05 · Answer

Love is not about money so obviously okay.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

In general, no, but depends on the context,

Pohjolan · Answer

Welp so much for college romances.

dolemite58 · Answer

Women don’t want no scrubs

Apple1996 · Answer

Sure why not

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you care? He’s not your sugar daddy

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