Polls: Dating

My Ex left me and the main reason was that I didn’t make her feel special. We did 50/50, she said she is used to guys paying for the majority and that I didn’t gift and buy her flowers.

One thing is that I do make a lot of money and my family is really rich.

Our relationship was very intense 4 months long and met the parents and talked a lot about marriage. I did gift her but not expensive stuff. she was very special to me and very beautiful.

Did I make a big mistake there? She isn’t poor, makes okay money.

For Gen Zs, let’s say a guy earns a lot but the girl also has her career too. Is it unusual for the guy to pay for the majority

I met my ex while we were sitting across from each other. She said that I was actually pretty handsome, but that my height was too short. I’m 174 cm and she was 160 cm. When I asked what she had expected, she said she would have wanted someone around 185 cm. Actually, this criterion reflects Turkish girls in general. Is it the same for you too?

Men are valued on how much money they have (how successful they are).
Most would argue women don’t owe men anything. Women are empowered to leave men

Once a guy gets married a woman has that hold on his financial assets and everything that man has had to go through hell to acquire.

Is that fair?

In a divorce no woman is fighting for half his love, just his money.

Women are independent financially so most of them think why do I need a man? So was that the real reason why we were even ‘loved?’

I live in Europe and most men are unmarried at 30. So many girls I know are single or very quick to leave a good guy.

When you look around it’s generally like wtf happened. What the point in getting married old when your girl is old too?

R

You can be a perfect guy and good to your girl and she can just one day randomly leave you: You do nothing bad or anything just argue a bit and that’s it she just pulls the plug.

That is scary. I’ve had it happen to me while thinking I was in such a good relationship and I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get over that fear.

Are women actually monogamous in how they are programmed, like are they genuinely just seeking one guy in their whole life who’s just right for them, even s*xually

Bit of a weird question I know, as most probably would say first, just generally curious if people say second.

Should you really give your heart to a girl

A 28 year old girl who has been in 3 relationships and had another 3 relationships that were only short like a couple months. Had s*x with 3 guys and done some s*xual things with the others.

Is that normal or quite a lot of history?