Polls: Dating

You really like a person and they reveal they have been single for years or even a decade or more. is that something that would matter to you?

https://medium.com/@unveiling9/is-being-single-too-long-a-red-flag-a97c09c738b6

"Hi, good to meet Mitsy you after the matchup and 2 texts..."

"It's a lovely day.. tea please (to the hostess)... so whats up"

"I want in your space, up your crotch at times.. it's a hormonal thing and only path to the future, and I want someone to love me like my momma.. thoughts?"

"my crotch makes offspring, so I need a 40 year commitment. All that, I want to be happy and truly loved, like when I was a little girl and I'd play in the sand and my dad would play and comfort me when hurt. Dealing with all those headaches, you have no idea, give me what I want and support me when I have my moods. Maybe a sports car and some travel". What else do you want, is that it?

"Can you be more explicit what I need to provide.. how many kids ya think... dang things are a bit of work, whats this mood thing?". Thanks for asking, I want to just hang out and play with my guy friends, do motor bikes and football and tinker in the garage.

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Kinda robotic, but direct eh? To be honest, I had several discussions and a date kinda like that long ago. Right to the point. When not prepared, it's too much. Was young and unexperienced. In the right setting and person, might have worked.

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Also... is laughter the best medicine for relationships? I'm thinking if ya can't laugh, you're toast...

I’ve been in relationships and these are my findings

Girls want all the benefits of a modern relationship freedom and independence as well as all the benefits of a traditional man - providing/protection.

The man is always in the wrong. A girl can literally cheat on you and it’s still your fault can you believe that? ‘He wasn’t there for me emotionally.’

You have every gift a guy can have and treat a girl well and still it is not enough to keep a girl happy. I’ve been there, be seen how suddenly a girl went from being infatuated to just losing feelings and treating me like I don’t exist. Women can just lose feelings for no reason, they have no issues leaving a good man.

My ex used to be paranoid because she would randomly recieve reels on her phone, signs you’re dating a cheater, signs you’re dating a manipulator. Even the algorithms don’t want men and women together.

Because women make their own money they only want to date a guy if he makes her life 10x better. Not realising that that’s not how it works and relationships are hard, require self sacrifice and compromise.

Women view a man’s money as ‘ours’ and her money as her’s. Not to mention women want a unicorn 🦄, even then there’s no way to make a girl happy. You could be the best guy out there. There’s no way to make women happy.

One that will actually stick it out with you.

It seems women are only encouraged by society to put their happiness, their independence, freedom over everything and everyone. The risks in marriage are too high for the man. If a woman divorces him he is wrecked and women don’t show the signs of being able to compromise with you, stand by you when things get tough.

Our mothers had husband’s that would treat them poorly sometimes and still stick by them. Now women can’t tolerate anything. They don’t have realistic standards.

They expect a perfect unicorn 🦄 man and a relationship that doesn’t exist.

I don’t mean contact but do they from time to time check up on their profile picture stalk their linked in, see if there’s any info on them.

If women earn a lot of money that is her new minimum she will disregard all men because of what she earns. Women disregard men based on height and looks as a million billion things out of their control. They love a man who gives them status and provides for them because it’s all about money and looks.

How can you make women happy when all they view on social media is a life/relationship that doesn’t even exist?

All women hold is negative beliefs about men and hold so much resentment when men are the ones that have given women the world. But how dare that be recognised?

Only men can love.

Every girl has a million options you can’t blame them for viewing us as replaceable.

The ‘bare minimum’ is rare, a guy that is loyal and has good intention. Women take this for granted, they have no problems leaving a good man because of their ‘feelings’ no girl can promise you loyalty

Women want two things at once, freedom and independence yet for the man to be leading her, in charge and the provider. You can’t have both!

Divorce is a female sport. Marriage is a bad agreement for men. Women can leave you for no reason, take your kids and take everything you built, run off with a new man and you’re still paying her dividends. Peak devastation and humiliation.

Social media programs women into thinking ultra rare men are common and attainable. Unrealistic standards. Women even think if a guy loves you he should spend a lot of money on you.

Only men aren’t good enough and have to self improve not women. It’s everywhere on social media, that men are useless whereas women are perfect as they are and deserve the world. You can’t have it where only one gender has to work on themselves, it’s so one sided.

Lastly, peace is nicer. I think both genders are agreeing that it’s just better to keep your peace. You want companionship, but realise many girls all run on this propaganda machine