Polls: Dating

Any girl 20-30 is asking for a perfect guy. 101 boxes to tick. It makes sense for women to be picky but it gets to a weird point where girls are just happy to be single and childless. I don’t know anyone my age that is married with kids. Men are low priority to them and only to be considered if they are like perfect, if they 3X their life.

It doesn’t make sense when you can look at a whole gender and be like wtf are you all doing? Women think travelling is more important and fulfilling then love and family how broken is society.

hm? you denied you were meant to be!

Is it good to date a stunning girl and do 50/50? Guy earns a lot of money and from wealth.

It allows you to see their true colours and if they really like you that is proof, it won’t be an issue.

Assuming the girl earns decent money, isn’t struggling financially. Just doing normal dates, nothing fancy. You’re not married yet so no need to be a provider

It seems like they don't want their ego hurt but are more than happy to turn men down

A girl that wants to just be provided for and live a soft life.

Is there any point in dating that person? Life can be difficult and you need someone that can go through difficulty with you and still be with you. Women that wanna be just taken care of what would happen if you were to encounter financial trouble? Is she gone?
If you make her life all easy paying for her Ofc she will like you but how real is that?

Like entitled. Like let’s say you get into a relationship and oh for all the dates what if you get used? What if she’s just using you because it’s free entertainment?

I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong to her. I feel like I was good to her. She broke up with me. I missed her and tried to reach out she ignored and I sent her flowers (I really shouldn’t have). There was no message of who they were from.

After the first message she sends me a message weeks later, very business like and cold. Whereas initially I reached out saying how are you I hope you and your family are well to which she ignored. No hi or anything in her message. After we broke up I did unfollow her on insta which she may have not liked.

Anyway I’m not replying, this is the last straw. Fair enough I should have put a message / not sent them - but her whole response is just cold and mean. Even when we broke up she gave me a bunch of reasons saying I’m untrustworthy and a player when I have no idea how she could reach such assumptions. We all make small mistakes but I feel I was a good boyfriend to her.

A girl that is 10/10 pretty, unique features with beautiful light eyes, good body. A stunner

Or

A guy that is a combination of tall, fit, good looking, educated and from a very wealthy family. The full package essentially.

What I am trying to ask is, is it rarer to be a stunning girl or a guy that’s the full package on paper. Obviously before getting to know them etc…

If you look at modern dating advice for men it’s like - you are not good enough and you need to build yourself financially/physically to be ‘good enough.’

Whereas for women: You are special, perfect and you deserve a man that is xyz

This is what people are absorbing on apps like instagram.

Men are being told we are not good enough and creating narcissistic women. This is a disaster? Girls look at social media and see this ‘soft life’ and this life where a women is just receiving flowers and being spoiled and just living an easy life. They think this is a realistic marriage etc..

I sent my ex flowers. I didn’t think it would work but it was my last gesture to try win her back. She left me. I didn’t do anything inherently wrong in the relationship.
Originally she said, hi, did you send me flowers. Didn’t even say my name

I also don’t understand why she wouldn’t block me as we had broken up.

I don’t know the ins and out of this story. However I feel like many if not most women would leave their boyfriend for a top tier famous guy.