When you date a guy or see him at the beach or whatever.
What is attracting you more and WHY?
I guess abs are better to look at (mostly) and to touch and scratch, kiss and stuff like that.
But dad bods are better to cuddle with maybe?
Let me know what you are into and why :)
I don’t randomly check men out, but I’ve never been specifically attracted to dad bods.
I’m usually just attracted to whatever the guy I like has.
I do like men with abs though and they can be great at cuddling.
I can't stand dad bods. Most people lie when they say they prefer them. Or they have a different idea in their minds of what a dad bod is and confuse them. But my preference isn't necessarily sixpack abs.
neither... I'm attracted to the mind... the body just follows... :D
Abs, because it shows that he cares about his physical health and makes time for it. But personality makes a difference too. I mean, if he's a Gaston-type narcissist who is obsessed with his body, that's a huge turn-off. But I just couldn't feel comfortable with a dad-bod guy, because I would feel like he was... my dad.
In between. I'm fit and appreciate men who work out and know what it's like to feel when in peak fitness. But for me the obsessed chiseled look isn't as attractive as a mix. Personal choice.
both are nice to look at but you know that kind of in between, where you're muscular but not entirely defined? that's also nice lol - and honestly the personality and rest of the body also matter too
I prefer a Guy with some fluff, but still where you can see he works out.
Like this fanart
https://x. com/NGreentail/status/1778167241151856928
I was gonna say a mix. Right in between the two but then I saw your pic and was like "yea, abs..."
Both are nice. I find overly defined abs as unattractive
Dadbods, because sixpacks are fake, artificial, not natural. It's the male equivalent to wearing too much makeup, or getting cosmetic surgery to enhance one's butt.
I don't like men that look like aliens. Dad bods are best.
To be honest, I melt for abs.
