Would you respond to someone who took four days to reply back to your text after going on a few dates?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Summeroflove]

Unless it was a genuine reason. Like someone in their family is dying or something. If someone isn’t willing to talk to you. Let it go…

Now. If you’re texting someone at work or during the middle of the night and they don’t reply for a while. That’s legitimate. Someone can’t always respond in 5 minutes. Bur FOUR DAYS? Just assume they really aren’t that interested in you.

[MisterWack]

Yes.
One, could’ve been something besides just the dates like work, time off, family drama, etc.

Two, just because she went on dates with other guys doesn’t mean you were her last pick. If she messaged you like “hey cutie ;)” then ghosted you for a week then you would have a point to not date her.

Three, you are going on different dates just as she is so that would mean by that logic she shouldn’t choose you.

I don't know just my opinion, do what makes you happy.

[DishLady]

It depends on the situation. Some people are just busy. Plus if the connection is very new sometimes the guy/girl takes a little time for the next date if they’re not 100% sure about you.


So… if you don’t like that about him, you have a choice not to answer.

[WhitneySnow]

I might respond but I would not be happy and I would probably tell them I’m going to be ghosting them from now on

[AviatorTom]

Sure why not? I sent a text expecting a reply... and got one. I don't understand why so many people expect an instant reply to their text... people have lives!

[OlderAndWiser]

After one date, I expect a woman and I to talk and not text. Texting is for scared little children.

[Avicenna]

If I really was interested in her, yes. But short of that, probably not.

[ProbablyClueless]

I might... I have a lot going on in life, so I really don't notice when people don't respond to me quickly. Texting just isn't that serious to me.

I feel like women have a much different intention about texting though. Maybe I need to up my game a little bit in that regard.

[Flatmanlewis]

Probably but it consider their lack of response as a indication of their overall character when I’m deciding how this is going to proceed.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes, only it would take me longer than 4 days. I'm the world's worst for texting people back!

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I'm quite forgetful. In four days, I'd probably even forget that we're dating. 🤭😂

[bobalife]

Nope….. but only exception if it’s a legitimate reason than just “I’m busy” which is an excuse

[Nikki1989]

I am not so backward to text anyone. I prefer people who can actually talk to each other.

[Kit_Kat88]

They need a good reason like they were in the hospital or had a death in the family

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I responded to a woman who took 6 months to reply to me. Granted I responded back to her six months after the six she took to respond to me.😆😜

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I might but by that point I would have lost interest because it's clear they aren't interested in me.

[Iron_Man]

That’s called ghosting I wouldn’t bother after I give them a piece of my mind

[strateguy632]

i wouldn't because ghosted

[OtterMan68]

yes, I don't know what's going in their life

[Med_guy1978]

I agree! Who knows why it took so long, could be a good reason but could be not to seem too eager. I'd go along with it, play it cool... No games... If the pieces come together then good, if they are playing you and go cold... Let them be, their loss. Someone in life will appreciate you!

[Starrrboy]

Nah that's too much..

[KittygosMeoWW]

No….