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Polls: Dating

Haven't heard from the guy I'm seeing in a couple days, what is up?

I've been dating this guy who I knew from high school for a couple weeks. Just casual nothing serious but all my friends say when we hang out we act like a couple he's always holding me and we kiss when we greet each...
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I've been dating this guy who I knew from high school for a couple weeks. Just casual nothing serious but all my friends say when we hang out we act like a couple he's always holding Show More
Text him
Wait for him to text you
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Semi-successful first date. Mostly walking around. What to do for second date?

We mostly just walked around on our first date last night. What should we do for our second date? Food often gets stuck in my teeth so I'm not eager to go to dinner or something with her. Plus that can get expensive....
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We mostly just walked around on our first date last night. What should we do for our second date? Food often gets stuck in my teeth so I'm not eager to go to dinner or something with Show More
Coffee
Bubble tea
Other
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If a guy texts you for hours, do you think he likes you as more than a friend?

A co-worker texted me to say "have a nice trip" --- since I was going on vacation. The conversation carried on for about 6 hours (on and off of course) well into his work shift but he continued to talk to me About 50...
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A co-worker texted me to say "have a nice trip" --- since I was going on vacation. The conversation carried on for about 6 hours (on and off of course) well into his work shift but he Show More
Yes
No
Maybe
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Older women with younger men.

Women, would you marry a younger man? Men, would you marry an older woman?
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Women, would you marry a younger man? Men, would you marry an older woman? Show More
I'm a woman, and I would marry a younger man.
I'm a woman, and I wouldn't marry a younger man.
I'm a man, and I would marry an older woman.
I'm a man, and I wouldn't marry an older woman.
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If a girl ask you, "What are you doing tomorrow?"

Does it usually mean that she want to hang out? Because girl this girl asked me that and she told me that she is going out with her family that is coming in town.
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Does it usually mean that she want to hang out? Because girl this girl asked me that and she told me that she is going out with her family that is coming in town.
Yes
No
Maybe
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Would you date a tourist or an international student?

Would you date a tourist? Lets say they are in the city for up to 4 months.
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Would you date a tourist? Lets say they are in the city for up to 4 months. Show More
Yes
No
Maybe
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How far in advance should you organize a date?

One that doesn't require a reservation or anything, that is. How far in advance should you invite the other person? The morning of, the afternoon of, 24 hours before, 36 hours before, two days before, etc... So, this is...
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One that doesn't require a reservation or anything, that is. How far in advance should you invite the other person? The morning of, the afternoon of, 24 hours before, 36 hours before, Show More
Ask them the day of
Ask them the night before and clarify the details at the same time
Ask them the night before and clarify the details the next day
Ask them earlier than the night before
Other / see answers because I'm too lame to answer :(
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What do you think of bowling as a first date? Yay or nay?

You could just answer the poll if you want, but an explanation would be appreciated as well :). Just for added clarification, I guess there'd be two cases: one, where the people don't know each other well, and the other,...
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You could just answer the poll if you want, but an explanation would be appreciated as well :). Just for added clarification, I guess there'd be two cases: one, where the people don't Show More
Given we don't really know each other very well at all, I'm totally up for a bowling first date
Given we don't really know each other very well at all, I'm not really into a bowling first date
I'm indifferent
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Do most guys like or dislike giving women foot massages?

Do most guys like or dislike giving women foot massages? I was just wondering, cause personally I don't really care for feet; they're good for walking, but other than that I don't like feet that much. I do like having my...
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Do most guys like or dislike giving women foot massages? I was just wondering, cause personally I don't really care for feet; they're good for walking, but other than that I don't Show More
I like it
I dislike it
Other(tell in comments)
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How long would you wait for a date to show up?

How long would you wait for a person to show up to a first date before you consider yourself stood up? (Please be sure to use the poll to answer the question.)
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How long would you wait for a person to show up to a first date before you consider yourself stood up? (Please be sure to use the poll to answer the question.)
5-10 minutes (+ a call/txt)
10-15 minutes (after a call/txt explaining the delay)
15-20 minutes (+ a good excuse)
30 minutes (You actually sat around that long?)
More than 30 minutes (only in an emergency)
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Kissing a girl in your car? or on her porch?

So the date comes to an end and what is better to do: kiss a girl in your car and tell her goodnight or walk her to her porch and kiss her there. And what if she still lives with her parents?
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So the date comes to an end and what is better to do: kiss a girl in your car and tell her goodnight or walk her to her porch and kiss her there. And what if she still lives with her Show More
Kiss her in your car
Kiss her on her porch
Kiss her in your car then walk her to her porch
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Guys: you get that cute girl's number. How long do you wait before calling/texting her?

You meet a cute girl and really hit it off. She gives you her number when you ask and you both go your separate ways. How long until you contact her?
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You meet a cute girl and really hit it off. She gives you her number when you ask and you both go your separate ways. How long until you contact her?
The next day
A few days later
Other
I want to see the results
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How would you date someone who is going travelling soon?

I've met a few guys recently whom I've really hit it off with, but they are leaving soon for 3-6 month travel expeditions in Europe or Asia. How would you date someone like this? Would you? Why or why not?
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I've met a few guys recently whom I've really hit it off with, but they are leaving soon for 3-6 month travel expeditions in Europe or Asia. How would you date someone like this? Show More
Yes I would.
No I would not.
Maybe / it depends.
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My girlfriend still has her Okcupid profile still up?

I've been dating this girl since February and made it official earlier this month (4/8). So today I was bored and wondered to myself if she is still on okcupid. I disabled my account months ago. I found that she is but...
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I've been dating this girl since February and made it official earlier this month (4/8). So today I was bored and wondered to myself if she is still on okcupid. I disabled my account Show More
That's f***ed. Dump her.
It's not a big deal. She wants friends.
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If a girl asks who you are going to prom with, does that mean she wants to go with you?

I wanna know if I should ask her, she asked who if I'm going to prom with anyone
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I wanna know if I should ask her, she asked who if I'm going to prom with anyone
Yes
No
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Does a spin the bottle kiss count as a first kiss?

This is a bit of an awkward situation, but my guy friend claims his first kiss was from spin the bottle. Does that even count? I know he's kissed other girls since then. I was the first date, girl he liked kiss. Idk, it...
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This is a bit of an awkward situation, but my guy friend claims his first kiss was from spin the bottle. Does that even count? I know he's kissed other girls since then. I was the Show More
Yes
No
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Sending a crush a blank text message?

Guys if you got a blank text from a girl, and you responded with something like, "Why did you send me a blank text?" And the response was something like..."Hmm, I don't think I did, sounds like a lame excuse to text me...
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Guys if you got a blank text from a girl, and you responded with something like, "Why did you send me a blank text?" And the response was something like..."Hmm, I don't think I did, Show More
I'd be completely oblivious it was done on purpose
I'd know she did it on purpose, and think it was lame
I'd know she did it on purpose, but find it cute
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Are you a serial dater? If so, why?

Guys and gals, are you a serial dater? Assuming you go on dates to screen for long-term relationship potential, why are you going on so many dates instead of picking out a partner? Do you actually enjoy meeting new people...
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Guys and gals, are you a serial dater? Assuming you go on dates to screen for long-term relationship potential, why are you going on so many dates instead of picking out a partner? Do Show More
I am a serial dater who's a girl.
I am a serial dater who's a guy.
I am not a serial dater, who's a girl.
I am not a serial dater, who's a guy.
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Is it too soon to have dinner with family after only 2 months of dating?

i'm not the one with the date , just wondering . my sister meet this guy online 2 months ago , now he is supposedly coming over for Easter dinner . I'm not really sure this is a good idea and it all seems a bit rushed ....
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i'm not the one with the date , just wondering . my sister meet this guy online 2 months ago , now he is supposedly coming over for Easter dinner . I'm not really sure this is a good Show More
Yes
It depends on relationship but explain why
No
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Do you think the feelings developed in online relationships are more intense than real life ones?

Recent web article I saw said that the feelings developed between people engaged in online/cyber relationships are typically more intense and heart-felt than real life ones of the same length of time because, due to...
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Recent web article I saw said that the feelings developed between people engaged in online/cyber relationships are typically more intense and heart-felt than real life ones of the same Show More
Online relationship feelings are more intense
Online relationship feelings are less intense
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