After putting up with a woman you described for 2-1/2 years I finally confronted her with our supervisor present. I just couldn't deal with her anymore. She even admitted she thought I wanted her job - which I did not! That was in her head! She would walk by my desk and throw pieces of paper at me. I picked them and put them in her mail folder. She called me a bitch in front of everyone in a meeting one day; people lost respect for her for doing that. She thought I was her age and was shocked when I told her I was old enough to be her mother. She replied "I sure hope I look as good as you do when I'm your age". She always answered her phone when I had to call her by saying "WHAT?" She was very envious of me and to this day I do not know why. She made my life hell and I ended up very sick and had to quit because I couldn't even get out of bed. Her stressing me out everyday actually disabled me. I pray God saw every minute of it too!
you stay the hell away from them and only talk to them when necessary and maintain a cordial demeanor. You can even try the grey rock social method with them to implement this.
I can't stand people who talk about other behind their back. You know once you leave they are talking about you. I don't say anything that I wouldn't say to the person's face. Honestly I look like I'm listening but I ignore it. I've given advice to make it better but they just come back bitching about the same shit not fixing it. Makes no sense.
Befriend the Narcissist or Jealous through work. Serve them... offer to assist in some way... make more of them than is deserved. No personal or lunch... Business only. "Team player" is what I do
I don't engage with them. I don't speak with them unless it is necessary for work. And I don't give them any personal details about my life. Also, I don't care what they think about anything.
You basically have to cut that person off and definitely don't look their way and don't look at them. Just basically pretend like they're not even there.
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