Girls, do you care if the guy your dating/talking to is in debt?

[Anonymous]

For my sake no. Cause everyone is in debt.

[Anonymous]

Sure everyone may have some debt but not everyone’s debt is the same. Especially when it comes to school. Statistics show that women hold the most debt when it comes to school. I can see why you’d say you don’t mind because you’re in debt yourself so you don’t want to be knocked out of the dating scene so you make it acceptable on your part. I think you’d feel different if you weren’t in all that debt. The only thing I’m in debt for is my car, other than bills that are a monthly thing like electricity, water. So no I don’t want a partner who is in debt up to her ears, because eventually if we get married her debt becomes mine. She may say well you don’t have to pay for it but financially I will suffer as would anyone else. Because instead of building a financial future together to purchase a home or something, maybe a luxurious vacation, a majority of her money is going to her debt. So in essence it’s really only one income that’s contributing to that dream you’re both hoping for.

[DannyUk2017]

Well if you wouldn't care, you wouldn't ask the question or ask for opinions...🤷‍♂️
And he is in debt now so its fine, but if he gets in relationship/marriage with you... You not going to be OK with it anymore, and you'll start complaining, moaning that he doesn't work, or if it does he doesn't earn enough, blah, blah, blah...
So yeah i'm sure you Will care if he is/will be in debt!

[Asker]

Wrong. I'm in debt by a lot with hospital bills and debt collectors and no they haven't been paid. So to me it really dosen't matter anymore.

[LazerBean]

Depends on what kind of debt and how much. If it's a mortgage, then I don't care. If it's something stupid like credit cards or a dumb degree, then yeah I would see it as a red flag.

[virtualwasp]

anyone with a mortgage is in debt.

[Anonymous]

Yeah because I'm debt-free

I'm not dating an over-spender who can't live within their means