So when I came back from town from going to my mom’s memorial, not one person acknowledged me. They looked at me and just ignored me. My boss told me welcome back and get me things to work on. I guess that help me to keep busy. My coworkers I work with didn’t say anything. No condolences, no welcome back, NOTHING! I’ve known them since 2022. Even before when I announced my mom had passed, a few said “My condolences” but not a lot of people said anything and avoid me. Some didn’t even wanna be around me.
I got ignored and put to work right away. When I said good morning when I came back, they ignored it and said, “We need copies and staples. No time to waste. We are very busy today!” I when I was doing it, I broke down crying. In my mind I just wanted my mom back. Two female coworkers said behind my back, “Oh god. Here’s miss moody bitch here.” And another said, “I hope we don’t have to hear her cry for the rest of the work time.” My boss said to get it together and get to work. He said he already gave me two weeks off and I’ve grieved enough. The assistant boss doesn’t really say good morning to me anymore ever since she heard the news about it my mom and she did not ONCE gave her condolences! She’s only worked here for a couple months but still. She did for someone else that lost their dad.
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Do you think it’s rude that my coworkers didn’t give any condolences to me when my mom died?
