A man offered to pay me $3,000 if I sleep with him?

[Anonymous]

A man offered to pay me $3,000 to sleep with him. Out of the blue. I haven’t said anything. I could use the money, but I’ve never considered sex work as a job. I don’t much like the idea.

I’d be considered quite attractive by a lot of people, which is probably why he’s asked me. On the other hand, I’m really strapped for cash. But my thoughts are that I shouldn’t be that desperate for money. I do get a pay check fortnightly.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a really heavy and messed up situation you're in. I totally get why you're feeling so conflicted about it - that's a huge amount of money, but it's also a really sketchy and uncomfortable proposition.

On one hand, I can see why the money might be really tempting, especially if you're strapped for cash. $3,000 is a ton of cash, and could really help you out a lot. But on the other hand, this guy is basically trying to buy your body, and that's just not cool at all.

You're right to be super wary of this. Even though you're attractive and he's probably into you, this isn't normal dating or a relationship - this is straight-up sex work, and that's not something you should feel pressured into, no matter how much he's offering.

My advice would be to shut this down hard. Don't even entertain the idea, no matter how tempting the money might be. This guy is trying to take advantage of you, and that's not okay. You deserve so much better than that.

I know money's tight and it's really stressful, but there are way better ways to earn it than selling your body. Your self-worth and safety are way more important than any amount of cash.

Be really firm with this guy and make it clear that this is completely off the table. If he keeps pushing it, block him and stay far away. You're worth so much more than that. Hang in there, girl - you've got this.

[Lliam]

Taking advantage? LOL
The only concern is STDs.

[Anonymous]

Totally up to you, but keep in mind that you will always know in your heart that you were a whore.

[Asker]

Yeah, that’s why I blocked him.

[Daniela1982]

If you take the money that makes you a prostitute. Is that how you want to be known as? You have to at least get $5,000. 💲💲💲 🤑🤑

[Asker]

Good point

[alice55]

Just 3000 to destroy your reputation for life? That's not a lot...

[AI Opinion]

Facing such a proposition can be challenging. It's essential to align your decisions with your values and comfort, rather than financial pressure alone. Consider exploring other avenues for financial support, such as part-time work or community resources. Reflect on how this decision could impact your emotional well-being and self-respect. Remember, there are many ways to overcome financial difficulties that do not compromise your personal principles. If needed, seek professional advice or support from trusted individuals to navigate your options. Prioritize your dignity and peace of mind in your decision-making process.

[Tarifa]

That's an awkward situation to be in. There's a difference between liking somebody, which could possibly lead to an intimate relation -- even if it's not meant to last -- and obsessing with somebody to the point where this guy would pay you to have sex.

It borders obsession and is sort of creepy.

[Benlovegs]

How is this a career? if you agree to such a setup where you receive money for a service you provide and it’s known and approved by both parties. If I decide tomorrow to sell a service as a side hustle is that my career now?

[Asker]

I see your point 😊👍

[Benlovegs]

You went to an extreme in my opinion, but sometimes I feel that marriage is no difference from what you described only it’s more acceptable 😉 it’s would be cheaper for me to have a setup like your were offered 🤪

[alice55]

Prostitution is not a services that's destroying your worth your reputation etc...

[Fireguy17]

well, if you do decide to accept his offer we know what you are, now you are just negotiating the price.

[Kaneki05]

I so wish I was a woman, easy money. And one is a fool not to take it.

[Nikki1989]

Sex work is a job just like anything else. It works for some people.

[ProbablyClueless]

Well... if you do decide to take the money; insist on an STD test and don't take referral business.

[ThebestIndian]

If you think the guy is good and does not actually tell anyone and spoil your name, I would say go for it.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well, what are you gonna do? Lol

[Asker]

Probably nothing.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You know what they say, the good choice for the most part is always the hardest

[zombiewoof]

Can your conscience handle it

[zombiewoof]

It is never about what others think, only you, i am fine with it

[Asker]

I decided I wasn’t, so I blocked him.

[Abbycado]

How’s being a whore let you post under education and career?

[Asker]

It’s a career; and I haven’t agreed to do it. I was just asked, out of the blue.

[MannMitAntworten]

Don’t do it. Keep your integrity.

[jahaims]

Have some self respect

[In_Trance]

So what's your actual question