Is she being passive aggressive or is she right (coworker edition)?

[Anonymous]

So I’m an art teacher and we are celebrating Hispanic heritage month and of course my students have art work for Hispanic heritage month up… this coworker asked if I was decorating the stage and I thought about it because I really didn’t think about it… we have a committee for things like that and I help out or do extra things.

so she says “I’ll take that as a no. At my other school the art teacher always does the stage” “ are you a first year teacher “ … I tell her no.. and I say if she wants to collab or do something with the stage with me I’m open she says no that’s all you…

Then the next day she asked me for a staple gun and I said yes but I can’t find the correct staples for it but I haven’t really had to use it for my new school.

she said “Do better “

am I imagining things?

[HollyK21]

I’d wait to see if she makes a comment like that again, because it could’ve just been a joke but because you don’t know her very well you weren’t able to pick up on it. Time will tell I suppose.

[Asker]

But she said “do better “….

[HollyK21]

Maybe it was the delivery, and it didn’t come out sounding more sarcastic than intended. Only time will tell if she’s intentionally being rude or has an issue with you.

[AI Opinion]

Your coworker's comments seem to carry a passive-aggressive tone, as they can be interpreted as subtle criticisms. The statement about the previous art teacher and the "Do better" comment appear to undermine your efforts and experience. It's important to trust your instincts. If you feel comfortable, consider addressing the issue directly by expressing how their remarks made you feel and setting clear boundaries. Open communication can often resolve misunderstandings and create a more positive working relationship. Make sure you continue to focus on your contributions and the positive impact you have on your students.

[DonaldDarko]

Fuck her she's a piece of shit.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I guess it's possible.

[Tangxiaoxue]

It could be a joke