Why is it that when we’re kids, we act so foolish?

[Anonymous]

I’m one of those people whose mind matured very late. Throughout my school years, I hardly ever studied properly. I hated classes, teachers, and school itself. Sure, part of it was because of the violence and bullying I went through. But I also sabotaged my own future.

After I turned 18, I became extremely hardworking. I learned English almost like a native, learned programming languages, read scientific books, watched documentaries. I even graduated from university through distance education. But can the maturity that comes after 20 ever be the same as studying diligently since age 7? Regret never helps in the end. I’ve always felt like I’ve lived life 20 years behind — both in what I know, and in what I never had the chance to officially document or prove.

I still don’t understand how my mind was always empty and focused on nonsense throughout primary and high school. How does one not think about their future at that age? Some people mature late. Some are hardworking since childhood. Some stay lazy their whole lives. Which one are you?

To those who were hardworking as kids — I have questions. How come you were so mature back then? Did your parents or elders guide you well?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you gained maturity early, it’s only because your innocence was taken away from you. Every child who’s “so mature for their age” has dealt with something that’s told them they are not allowed to be loved unless they meet specific conditions.

[Asker]

At the age of 33, i sound like 55. Because of past bullying

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Your throat was damaged?

[Anonymous]

Not all of us do, and not always, but it's common, children usually don't know anything about this world.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[AI Opinion]

Reflecting on your transformation, I see that our early years are often filled with exploration and trial. Maturity develops at unique paces and isn't linear; experiences shape us. Many factors influence early behaviors, including environment, support systems, and personal struggles like bullying. Your natural curiosity and efforts post-18 showcase resilience. Though childhood diligence is beneficial, the maturity you've reached holds deep value. Personal growth isn't bound by a timeline. My own diligence was fueled by encouragement and the passion to learn. Youthful folly drives questioning and learning, eventually guiding us to a purposeful path. Maturity after 20 is uniquely impactful.

[jahaims]

Foolish question. You might still be a fool

[Asker]

I wouldn't be and i was never a fool. I was a very smart kid