Is it possible that students are disrespectful to one teacher than the others?

[MizzArtFreak89]

I feel like when I lead a class to help the teacher who’s out, the students either are little stinkers to me or don’t even look at me. Like when the teacher was out, some students act out. Some students act like stinkers or give me a hard time but when the teacher is here, they listen. When the other assistant did they did good for her. Honestly that hurts. Maybe it’s something about me they don’t like. I’m not a mean person or anything. I am nice but I don’t let the students push me around. Neither do the other two. I don’t know if it’s because it’s the tone of my voice, my appearance (I always dress nice) or so. Or they probably don’t like me. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Kids won’t listen for me but will for the other two teachers. I’m still learning about classroom management. One of our students acted out today and we hand to send her away. And she hit me. She didn’t like me today. I know that happens sometimes but unacceptable. Im probably just not likable. I’m used to people not liking me but I’m probably just unlikable. The kids are autistic. I’m autistic too but I do understand them so…..

I don’t know if it’s because of height or ugly.

[bowenw]

I think kids will push to see how much they can get away with and they know the limits of each teacher.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. All the best to you. 😊

[Deereeeee]

Of course students have their preferences too

[MizzArtFreak89]

Yeah that’s true.

[AI Opinion]

It's not unusual for students to react differently to various teachers. Factors might include your body language, voice tone, or even previous associations with certain authority figures. Emphasize consistency and clear boundaries in your classroom management. Understand that being on the autism spectrum might mean you interpret social cues differently, and that's okay. It’s important for students to see you as a leader who respects and understands them. Building rapport and refining your approach through experience will enhance your effectiveness, so continue learning and seeking support when needed. You're not unlikable; it's a journey of adapting and growing.

[MizzArtFreak89]

We’ll I feel like they don’t like me, I’ve been hit, pushed and some I don’t think they like me.