Why do women think having a good career or being a boss babe will help them find a HV Man?

[Vegasrunner]

[Hagar88]

The only ones I've seen that think that way are usually ones with bullshit degrees, multi coloured hair and made up genders.

Generally from what I've seen is that high value women, that is young attractive women will keep a low body count, work hard at school, graduate from college with a real degree, keep themselves in shape, work in their field of study for a few years, marry before 30, have their kids before or around 30 and go back to work when the kids are school age or pick a job in a lighter less demanding career.

These women have a plan they follow and they check it off box by box. Like the lawyer who represented me in a property dispute a few yeaes back. Absolutely stunning woman, she was 27 at the time and getting married in a few months. Won the case easy, very sharp woman. Ex high school and college athlete, I looked her up some of her competitions and I can see what her husband sees in her lol. Anyway she's the kind of woman any man would want around him. Spoke to her a while back, met her with her husband and me with my wife. They married with a kid and another on the way and she's at home playing homemaker baking, cooking and enjoying herself. she's not sure she even wants to go back.

[Vegasrunner]

@hagar88 Really. What was the lawyers name?

[Hagar88]

Perhaps you'd like my address too lol.
youtube.com/shorts/qu3F-EB7JWQ?si=AoRRWAL3U7qRGmnY

[Vegasrunner]

@hagar88 No just the name of the lawyer you referenced.

[Hagar88]

Why would I do that?

[Vegasrunner]

@hagar88 Typically what honest people do when citing a source, but no worries I now understand she is another made up idea.

[Hagar88]

Nothing made up about it. I just live in the world. I dont need to cite a source this is litteraly what most high quality women do, espicially white women and Asian women. They've a plan, they've even planned out their weddings.

[Vegasrunner]

@hagar88 I got you. I thought the Lawyer was real.

[capriVib]

Maybe it’s because they’re looking at it through their own lens. Since they want high-value, strong men, they assume that men’s desires mirror their own.

[Anonymous]

lol the reason women do all that is to never want a man 😂😂😂😂.

[AI Opinion]

Advisor Smith here.

Many women don’t actually think “career = get a high‑value man.” They’re usually aiming for:

1. Security and options
A strong career reduces dependence and allows them to leave bad relationships. That independence is attractive to many high‑value men.

2. Like attracts like
Driven people often want partners who understand ambition, long hours, and big goals.

3. Self‑respect first
Being proud of their own life often leads to healthier standards in choosing a partner.

The healthiest framing: build a great life for yourself, then choose someone who genuinely fits it.

[Anonymous]

Very true. While I've known one or two women with a solid career who had attractive qualities, the vast majority of career-focused women are very unappealing because their priorities are inconsistent with what a good man wants in a good woman.

Men need a good woman in their lives, not a man with a uterus.

[Opinion Owner]

And the whole "boss babe" thing is just repulsive.

[MrChinaski]

Shit works. There's a whole literature on 'assortative mating'. Google it. Those that have marry those that have and make little babies that have. It's a major source of rising inequality.