They want someone to be able to come home to. If both partners are constantly working then where is the time for love?
I know my hubby loves that I stay home with the kids and dont work. It's easier that way since we are all here whenever he gets home so we can have time together.
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Because they'd really like highly personalized maids for themselves. Period
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Look it's simple. I lead in every aspect of my life including relationships. However I also want to find my RIDE or DIE and build and empire TOGETHER. So no I don't want a housewife because we are too busy... steaks and wine are delivered!
Define high value. High value to whom? How are you defining high value?
The men who are top earning lawyers, doctors, engineers, executives, etc. often date women in similar jobs or professionals of other fields here. Most don't end up with housewives in major cities. Aside from the fact that many like women with careers and status (you'll even see many who have gone to Ivy Leagues here only wanting women who have also gone to Ivies - the status is real), the cost of living is also extremely high. Even among the men who earn far more than average (aside from the extremely wealthy - talking millionaires and billionaires), two incomes is still better than one for school districts, housing, etc. Plus they have to consider what image and education she can pass onto their children. And most highly educated career women aren't going to ditch everything to become housewives, but it does happen sometimes. Generally, I think that's a more conservative lifestyle that might be highly preferred in more conservative areas/cultures.
Not saying it doesn't happen, but I haven't noticed it to be a majority in the cities I have lived in.Depends on what you mean by "higher value".
Being decently good looking, rather intelligent, and with a high level of self-respect & who dresses modestly I attract the attention of some VERY affluent and/or successful men. As in men who drive BMWs, Mercedes, etc. and/or own multiple properties and/or multiple businesses and/or are involved with the government/businesses have government only contracts. So definitely higher value (wealthy) men.
Do they expect a "housewife". No because they respect me - I am well educated/do very well in my professional with my boss who is no slouch in the up & up side of things treating me like a peer - and to be blunt I wouldn't put up with anything less than respect.
Does that mean I won't do chores, look after the kids, etc. No. I would. Or well hire someone (except the kids, that'd be my to do). But if someone were to expect me to sit at home and do nothing... they'd be better off marrying a whiny do nothing anyway dimbo.Define "high value men"? There's over a dozen definitions of high value men by various people.
And a man having great riches doesn't make him high value when he's pure trash character wise.
Moreover, full time house is a concept created by deeply insecure pricks who often desire such women in that role to take advantage of the woman since the woman can't house, feed, nor clothes her without waiting for her man to give her money just to eat.
If you look throughout history dating as far back as you want, women always worked in society, as nannies, house keeping for the king or rich people, cooks, selling clothes or food in the streets etc.
Another thing, a full time house is for men for make a good salary.
Men who don't make a good salary can't possibly afford a full-time house wife and take care and provide for himself plus kids.
Its difficult in first world economic countries to have a good paying job with steady rising income to combat inflation to provide a good living for yourself with decent housing, healthcare cost, car, clothes, phone bill etc, now imagine throwing in 3 more people into the mix on top of yourself or men living in under develope economic poor countries who are lucky if they can buy full groceries that last 5 days let alone have a decent standard of living for additional 4 or more people in a household who don't work nor help out financially.
My advice to women or anyone is to never depend on anyone to feed you, put a roof under your head, clothe you etc as an adult because you can almost guarantee that person in this case a man will exploit that situation fully to his advantage one way or another since you can't take care of yourself as a grown adult.Because it feels good to have someone focused on creating a home. If I can make enough for both of us, if I am the one who will deal with the craziness, then let me handle that part of the relationship. It gives me a responsibility. But I can't do what most women can do. And I don't want to.
I don't want to focus on decorating the house, making it look nice and open/inviting. I don't want to go out to buy curtains or get a nice rug for the front. I don't want to buy chimes for the door. Or make sure we have nice linens for the bed. Most times, I do not want to cook. I will do it sometimes. I will even vaccuum the floor or mop as part of my list of responsibilities.
But when it comes to that home, if it is left up to me, it will be cold and empty.Very simple, a REAL MAN needs to feel that he's giving somthing in a relationship, something special, he likes to feel that he can be dependent on and that his wife needs him, it's a special feeling for a man...
Feminism wants to take everything from a man and add it to girls, it's like sending a message to men that we can do everything and anything and you aren't needed, we can take you and dump you anytime we want, your useless and surely STUPID to accept giving us all your privileges while we keep ours... etcMen and women arenât attracted by the same things. Men are drawn in initially by sexual attraction. Women are drawn in by how a man makes them âfeelâ initially. A man doesnât get sexually turned on by a womanâs profession unless sheâs a model or pornstar. Having five degrees and a business isnât going to make a man want to have sex with you.
A man of high status will choose the sexy bank teller over the 6 figure making woman whoâs physically a 7. If the man has enough money to where he doesnât âneedâ a working spouse to support him, then logically heâd go for the sexy woman whoâd be a better asset with taking care of the home and children. Men also usually want to feel depended on. It makes them feel masculine when a woman relies on them.Well simply put we want to have kids, we want loyalty, we want a woman who is a little bit younger, we want a woman in her most attractive sexual prime (16-30), we want a woman who is going to raise the kids rather than pawn them off on strangers to raise them.
High value men seem prefer women who are less career oriented, work is not a problem but a big reason it appears so is because a high value man finds himself able to pick and choose so naturally he picks the 20 something year old whos in great shape rather than the 35 year old career woman who's stressed out, putting on weight, lives for her job and can't devout all that much time to a relationship with a high quality man.Because they view her desirability and allure to the Peers as a 'trophy wife' as a status prestige.
Went to my first Wife's employer's home for a Christmas party and came time for handing out the bonuses.
His 'glamouried' stunning Missus, brought out a 'throne-like' high-backed kitchen chair to the center of their living room, whereupon he took up his rightful place. And, instead of his wife occupying any other seat in the room, she demurely knelt down and sat Japanese-style, on their carpet beside his left side, like a sleek, cherished Lioness awaiting petting~
ANY there, with "eyes any but enough to see" realized this had been choreographed!
Needlessly unspoken:
"I am Alpha here and this stunning woman is MY Dom/Sub Concubine" ~
... Tis GOOD indeed to BE the King!
Her submissiveness enhanced BOTH their prestige!Basically the rules of nature ie of yin and yang. The more extremity of either, the more one is attracted to one's extreme. Those who are worldly or imbalanced towards the extreme yang (active) are often attracted to the extremely yin (and often nurturing) (passive) other side. The counteract each other and balance each other out. Not withstanding the subjective definition of high value :)
Because thats what we have been taught and seen that men always lead and women always follow. I see the pro and con from both sides as a woman, and i would rather choose to do both, I can be a housewife while I work, BUT, he has to take some part and help me out too. He can't just sit and wait for food to be serve on the table after work then be gone by the time that he is full. Its not how relationship nowadays work anymore.
I know if i took both positions, my life would be hard and over work, but i think i would be happy doing things for my love one tbh, at the same time i won't risk my passion and work over it, if something ever happen (we broke up, he lost his job, or one of us got hospitalized) I still am able to stand by my own feet.First men of higher value work hard and want someone to meet their needs each day. Second housewives are some of the hardest working people on the planet. Third any man who forces a woman to stay at home when she has a successful career outside the house is a damn fool. And forth men of high value want a woman of high value.. once they meet they plan their life together.
Why would they want to commit to someone they're not going to see as much?
I don't need a bigger bank account, I need someone to fill in the gaps in my social life not someone who's going to be off doing other stuff when I'm done with work.
Being "busy" is an unattractive quality, I see too many girl emphasizing it.Because they expect to be taken care of... It's strange but even my uncle is this way.. It's just natural to him.. Maybe traditional... I don't know 🤔
Money want to be taken care of? No drama from her end? Lol I don't know I'm a house wife and I'm fine with it.
Where did you get that? Who are these "Men of higher value wanting a housewife?" I work with a lot of high-earning professional mostly they have married professional women.
If the man is rich there is no need for the woman to make money and it's better if she takes care of the home and kids. Seems like a good and equal deal to me to be honest.
Also men who are career focused might not want their spouses to be career focused, that might create competition within the relationship. You don't want competition in your home when you already have plenty of it in your career, you probably want someone more submissive.I noticed the opposite actually. Usually high value men say I can do whatever I decide to do. Low value men want me to stay home so they can control me lol.
Their wives are accessories to them just like their cars and houses plus they take care of things around the house like cooking and cleaning instead of needing to hire a maid and they have more time to pamper themselves for their husbands pleasure and amusement. They see women as items not people
Because some men believe they need to dominate by being the "man" of the relationship. Apart of that mindset is based around traditional beliefs that the man works and the woman stays at home. Another part of that traditional belief is being the one who earns money for the family. Or, simply, the man would feel guilty if their spouse had to work. They love them enough so to want to provide for them.
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