Because high value men make enough to provide. High value men also like their women to be feminine and nurturing. They want to be prioritized. They typically don’t want a woman working for another man, and is too exhausted to even make you dinner or put out at the end of the day. They also want their children to be raised by their mother.
In my experience (and I worked at a football club for a number of years where the players earned far in excess of the average salary and for an insurance company that has plenty of people who earn high salaries) almost exclusively the men have encouraged there wives/partners to pursue there own work ambitions/dreams so that's not a stereotype that I recognise.
Guys all women want is your money and only white men don't receive Affirmative Action in universities and the workplace, so they don't earn their place. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows and women lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty and file 75% of divorces.
A man of very high value wants to feel like the king of his castle - he will have a need to feel that he is the provider, the protector. To be the "man of the house" requires confidence that not all men have. A women will - subconsciously - comply with a man of high value and so he can pull it off.
I doubt they're high value. What i usually see is that these "men" are looking for a slave and a maid they can drill whenever the hell they please and control their every move. Sounds toxic to me like carbon monoxide.
I think most women who are with a very well off man who go piddle around to make 30k are well retarded. I wouldn't bust my ass for no damn reason and i dont think i could respect a woman who did either.
Id be more into a woman who volunteered, was an expert at her hobbies, and was well read. Not someone who worked 20 hours a week at $25 an hour, lame asf and waste of time.
There are two reasons for 2 different guys : First guy is to control her and have power over her and that would make her a weak wife and can’t support herself in any way.
Second guy is because he love her and doesn’t want her to waster her time and energy when she doesn’t actually need anything and could use that time doing something useful at home.
I could be right or wrong on this but this is how it usually go.
you can't take care of our kids if you're working. housewives have a higher birth rate and more time to spend with us. and more time to do the things we don't want to do, like cooking and cleaning
after the kids are 6 or so and are out of the house all day I'd be fine with her picking her career back up so it isn't really that big of a difference
Because men NEED to be responsible for something. For a long time the responsibility that most men had was to their family before women entered the workforce, pay was way higher in a relative sense and living in a single income was to be expected. Once women entered the workforce, relative pay dropped for everyone. Women that work are also much more likely to cheat due to opportunity, so they tend to cheat because they can.
Well for me, personally, I strive to do better and make more money so my wife doesn’t have to work. I want her to be able to pursue her passions and hobbies without the stress of working a shitty job. Like I’m still gonna put my daughter in daycare. So I guess I don’t want a house wife more than I would love to see her have the freedom to do what she wants and to see her happy/ less stressed, not being constrained by a 9-5
Because they don't want two tired people coming home in the end of the day. They want the woman to nurture them and give them the attention and relaxation they need when they get home. That way the relationship, and it's stability stays solid.
"Men of higher value"? WTF is that, when you ask about a 'housewife'? Is she, somehow less valuable, less important, as a woman? How is that now, that men are still valued more?
i mean if you had the choice as a mother: would you rather put your child in some kindergarden or would you rather take care of it yourself? i think most women would rather take care, cause that's what mother instincts do :D
A housewife? I remember my grandfather telling me stories about them when I was little. I’ve been looking my entire life, but I’m pretty sure they are extinct here in CA.
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Because high value men make enough to provide. High value men also like their women to be feminine and nurturing. They want to be prioritized. They typically don’t want a woman working for another man, and is too exhausted to even make you dinner or put out at the end of the day. They also want their children to be raised by their mother.
In my experience (and I worked at a football club for a number of years where the players earned far in excess of the average salary and for an insurance company that has plenty of people who earn high salaries) almost exclusively the men have encouraged there wives/partners to pursue there own work ambitions/dreams so that's not a stereotype that I recognise.
Guys all women want is your money and only white men don't receive Affirmative Action in universities and the workplace, so they don't earn their place. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows and women lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty and file 75% of divorces.
A man of very high value wants to feel like the king of his castle - he will have a need to feel that he is the provider, the protector. To be the "man of the house" requires confidence that not all men have. A women will - subconsciously - comply with a man of high value and so he can pull it off.
I doubt they're high value. What i usually see is that these "men" are looking for a slave and a maid they can drill whenever the hell they please and control their every move. Sounds toxic to me like carbon monoxide.
I think most women who are with a very well off man who go piddle around to make 30k are well retarded. I wouldn't bust my ass for no damn reason and i dont think i could respect a woman who did either.
Id be more into a woman who volunteered, was an expert at her hobbies, and was well read. Not someone who worked 20 hours a week at $25 an hour, lame asf and waste of time.
There are two reasons for 2 different guys :
First guy is to control her and have power over her and that would make her a weak wife and can’t support herself in any way.
Second guy is because he love her and doesn’t want her to waster her time and energy when she doesn’t actually need anything and could use that time doing something useful at home.
I could be right or wrong on this but this is how it usually go.
you can't take care of our kids if you're working. housewives have a higher birth rate and more time to spend with us. and more time to do the things we don't want to do, like cooking and cleaning
after the kids are 6 or so and are out of the house all day I'd be fine with her picking her career back up so it isn't really that big of a difference
Because men NEED to be responsible for something. For a long time the responsibility that most men had was to their family before women entered the workforce, pay was way higher in a relative sense and living in a single income was to be expected. Once women entered the workforce, relative pay dropped for everyone. Women that work are also much more likely to cheat due to opportunity, so they tend to cheat because they can.
No man wants competition at home. He usually gets more than enough at work.
Fair enough
Because men like women for who they are, women like men for what they can provide.
No but anyway
Why are women so concerned with a man's job, status, and strength?
Becaues men are protectors and providers silly
So that proves my point, men are useful for what they can do, not who they are as people
I think ideally they would want both, at least ones that have a bit of matter between their 2 ears. Nit all men are like that though.
I don’t believe your accusation at all. My wife is a house wife sahm and she loves it and I only love it because she is so happy with doing it.
My wife and I both have full time jobs and it works out just fine. We share all other duties.
Well for me, personally, I strive to do better and make more money so my wife doesn’t have to work. I want her to be able to pursue her passions and hobbies without the stress of working a shitty job. Like I’m still gonna put my daughter in daycare. So I guess I don’t want a house wife more than I would love to see her have the freedom to do what she wants and to see her happy/ less stressed, not being constrained by a 9-5
Because they don't want two tired people coming home in the end of the day. They want the woman to nurture them and give them the attention and relaxation they need when they get home. That way the relationship, and it's stability stays solid.
"Men of higher value"? WTF is that, when you ask about a 'housewife'? Is she, somehow less valuable, less important, as a woman? How is that now, that men are still valued more?
because men enjoy feeling like they are taking care of shit. i mean that's pretty much the definition of "manliness" and so that's what men want xD
Thank you
i mean if you had the choice as a mother: would you rather put your child in some kindergarden or would you rather take care of it yourself? i think most women would rather take care, cause that's what mother instincts do :D
Of course be home with child
exaclty. and men want women to be able to do that ;) we don't live in a misandrist patriarchy after all :D
See told ya😏
:D i wish feminists would quit claiming that.
A housewife? I remember my grandfather telling me stories about them when I was little. I’ve been looking my entire life, but I’m pretty sure they are extinct here in CA.
In CA yeah.. sorry man
I don’t think that’s the case anymore, and hasn’t been for a long time either. They also want a high status/high value woman.