Do men only want a housewife?

[Anonymous]

Do men only want a housewife? I'M NOT AGAINT IT AT ALL IF OTHER WOMEN WANT TO BE A HOUSEWIFE. But for me personally, I don't want to be a housewife. I can't handle the thought of me having to financially depend on anyone. What if the relationship doesn't work out, then how will I support myself? And what if he decides to use that against me like, "I make the money around here so what I say goes!" And my biggest fear is that he'll financially abuse me by not giving me any money at all. This scares me because this has happened to me before. I see myself as a very good humble women. Will men really just toss me away if I'm good in so many other ways but I just want to work? Is a woman wanting to work a deal breaker?

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If I have children yes I will stay home until they are old enough to go to school. And then I will be home when they get off of school. I'll never put a job over my famiy.

[VanillaSalt]

I like traditional roles myself. However a woman that is willing to work isn't a bad thing as long as her first priority is the family. Im not interested in dating or marrying someone thats never there, or coming home from a 72 hr work week and doing the house work, or leaving the kids with an unknown baby sitter all week. I want a woman that will always put me, the family, and our home first. But if she's able to do that and work ide be fine with her working.

My brother has an amazing wife. She works 40 hrs a week, cleans the home, takes care of their daughter... It used to be better that she worked for family and was able to take off early or come in late as she needed but he wanted her to bring in more income after a decision (he regrets this decision). he's not a bad man either. He grills every weekend and helps with things around the house and does the handyman stuff. They have extended family that help with my niece as needed, and he works right now 40 hrs a week after his promotion. Bastard finally surpassed what i was making now with his promotion he's bringing in $27/ hr and home for 3 days ever weekend. Its a life most men want. Gonna be amusing watching him struggle through his 2 months straight of 80+ hr work weeks when they start... the paychecks but the effort...

I think the most important thing for a woman is making your man feel important and needed and comfortable. If a woman can do that a man will value her more often then not. Also just cause your an amazing woman dont mean every man wants you or thinks your beautiful or is willing to treat you right. Its about finding a compatible partner and treating them right.

[Asker]

Of course I'll put my famiy first. No question about that. It's nice to answers from men like you.

[UniquelyBasic]

Well men in general dont care about a womans career or lack of one. As long as you take care of what you have to and contribute to the relationship, men couldn't care less if you have a typical job or not. Theirs multiple ways to contribute to a relationship and you'll have to discuss who does what and what you both want out of the relationship with your partner.

[crmoore]

I do but I'm sure plenty of men want or prefer a working woman.

[Anonymous]

Not exactly, need some help with the bills too but not need to work as long as we do so you can do things we don’t have time for at home

[Iron_Man]

Some do some don’t

[In_Trance]

Some do some don't