Why do certain women not realize if all they have to offer is sex the only men they will attract is men with only one thing on their mind?

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Like. Men who aren’t totally sex crazed. Here is what we think…

You want a man whose rich, you want a man in good shape, you want a man to initiate everything, you don’t want to do all the house work, but you want him to pay for everything.

You’re not rich and you don’t want to be a homemaker/housewife/stay at home mom.

You want a man to jump through all these hoops for you. But you’re not willing to sacrifice or try to improve on yourself. You want a man to solve all your problems but you’re not there for him.

You expect chivalry and everything but you also don’t want to cook or do the dishes.

I mean that’s just what guys think. Men who are sex crazed. I’m coming for you next…. Because there’s a reason decent women don’t want to date you either

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

because women have been sold this fairy-tail about men. They think that they all qualify for the best of the best and that one day one of us is going to ride in like prince charming and give them the world. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. The best men have loads of options and the lesser men are completely looked over.

Average women should be going with their average male counter parts and not sleeping around with high caliber men that aren't ever going to settle for them. Women who only have sex to offer will continue to get fucked again and again by men and sit there wondering what's wrong with me? why is it there is no wedding ring coming? i'm getting sex, i must be on their level and all men therefore must suck. All the while their sexual value is plummeting.

There is a deal going on in relationships and these attractive, financially secure men who have proven themselves in the world want something for their success. They don't want damaged women, they don't want old women, they don't want to take care of other men's children, they don't want to deal with drama whatsoever, and they don't want to come second to a woman who is career minded. They want to be a king at home the way they're a king in their social circle.

Woman hit their peak early and have the best opportunity to land the highest level of man they can get while they are at their most beautiful and most unused. As they age and become independent women their sexual value does not improve. They get accustomed to a higher standard of living, they earn themselves into better career positions but their true sexual value on the market place hasn't changed. So they find themselves not getting what they think they deserve based on their achievements. You see a lot of lawyers and doctors and female high achievers struggling to date b/c they feel like they're this high value woman. They have essentially out earned their male counterparts and the pool of men that they can date from is exceedingly small.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I believe it’s a lack of awareness.

This is seen on both the male and female side.

There are women, who all they have to offer is sex, and they want to be with the top 1% of men in the dating pool.

Sure, they may manage to have sex. But, marriage? Commitment? No.

The top 1% of men in the dating pool are going to require much more than sex for them to want to marry a girl.

It’s stats right? How many other women can also offer sex? Everyone. So it’s not a huge selling point.

Then on the men’s side, there are men that want to have the perfect girlfriend, while they are jobless and unhygienic and lack social skills and the qualities of a good boyfriend.

If a woman wants a prince, she should strive to be a princess.

If a man wants a lady, he should learn to be a gentleman.

If a woman wants a man to be the sole/main breadwinner, she should strive to be supportive and help out in non-monetary ways.

If a man wants a woman to follow his lead, he better have his sh*t together and be a damn good leader.

Every type of man or woman a person wants, has its corresponding counterpart.

If one wants a certain type of man or woman, they should strive to become the counterpart.

MaddyAsks · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me like you are chasing the wrong type of woman. You want the hottie that works on body, hair, makeup all the time. The one that spends 100's of dollars every two weeks getting her nails done perfectly, extension in her hair, that new outfit that she has to have picture in. Sounds you, sir, are chasing the insta model.

If you want a wholesome woman with values, with gender roles. A woman that understands there is quick makeup and hair and then there is "he taking me to the ball makeup and hair". One that knows her nails can wait 3 weeks (once a month will still keep them looking fabulous). One that helps her mother in the kitchen (and yours) and learns to cook and clean from her home life.

Stop trying to always have the insta model and find the shy one of us to love, support and protect and we will give you all the love you need. There is a saying, give a woman some and she will multiple it and give back to you. Give an insta model attention and she will multiple that attention and give it back to backing for more attention. Give a true woman love and she will multiple it and give you back that love in a strong caring manner. Give a that woman groceries and she will cook you a meal. Give that woman your (sp%$m) and she will bake it for about 9 months and give you a beautiful child. You need to find a different woman, a more natural woman that can look like those insta models but chooses to look like your girlfriend/wife.

Just my opinion, hope it helps.

annabananna · Accepted Answer

I think it’s because no one think that’s all they have to offer whether a man think that true about them or not. If someone actually thinks that’s all they have to offer that’s a person with a very low self esteem.

Genie23 · Answer

Because that's just not what they have to offer. My best guess is some women sleep with guys early even if they are looking for a long term, it's because they want sex too OR they believe if they do not the guy will lose interest as sexual compatibility matters to many people before getting into relationship. So, They know have some good qualities and other things too but they believe once they have sex, the guy will also get as emotionally attached as most women get after sex (unless they're into hookups), so they believe the guy will start showing more interest on other things too. Like their personality, their hard work, achievements, etc.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

10-4, brother! You've got to ask yourself: "Why would someone else want to be with me for the rest of their life?" And if you must stop and think about the answer, you've got a lot of work to do!

Rosexøxø · Answer

Yeah, this was a good read.

devilish-cutie · Answer

women give birth to kids, they also earn their own money and support their man emotinally, all this is enough to compeste what men bring to the relationship. Housworks do both, men are expected to initiate but its a dance, women do their own part as well, same in sex

LazerBean · Answer

The same reason some men want to engage in whore activities with women and then get mad when their women turn out to be worthless: They're stupid and had no parenting.

Unit1 · Answer

It's the typical pedestal effect a certain type of girls usually experience.

So long they're young and beautiful it is inevitable, that hordes of "men" throw themselves at these girls. I mean there is a reason why OnlyFans and Fansly are profitable businesses.

And these girls start to think they are qualified for relationships just like that and get to dictate what partner they shall have (like it's ordering from a menu).

Well. Tough luck because of the endless supply of "men", who throw themselves at women's feet.

AlexisDiani · Answer

I think if all you bring to a relationship is sex then there’s not much of a future there. Short term only.

Anonymous · Answer

bro this is not the 1950's lmao get with the times. women don't have to be a homemaker... we solve our own damn problems. we don't wait on men anymore. we're getting promoted left and right. we pay for our own shit, like... grown PEOPLE do their own cooking and dishes. i know, so hard to believe. what rock are you living under? must be cozy under there.

Starlove4 · Answer

What is it that men want women to offer? because I’ve heard a man say that having a wife that cooks and clean is useless because he could pay someone to do those things. So that leaves me to wonder wtf do y’all want? U don’t like it when women are too independent and u don’t like it when she does nothing. I guess Sex , cooking , and cleaning is also useless. I don’t need a guy that makes 6 figures ! He could work at Burger King ! I just need him to not cheat on me and beat on me.

imawfulatusernames · Answer

Perhaps when all you have to offer is disrespect and basic things we can do for ourselves you’re not gonna get women that have anything to give because neither do you.

Malwi93 · Answer

I dont care. As long as rejection happens while I’m bad, it’s ok

grega239 · Answer

Speaking for myself.

Sex us basically the only thing id need a woman for. I can do everything else myself.

Anf even sex is almost worthless because im pretty sure hiring a prostitute is cheaper than a long term girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they're not quality women plain and simple. All women know that they have the ability of feminine wiles. But trash women use those feminine wiles, that's the difference. Good women know it's thier body, mind and soul that makes her valuable. Trash women know her body is all she has. Which is why she doubles and triples down on it. It's also why these women lose thier s*** when it fails them. Because they know they have no other weapon in thier arsenal.

Exterminatore · Answer

That’s all most of them actually have to offer. Have you not noticed the throngs of superficial women who lack character and substance of character literally everywhere in society.

Anonymous · Answer

Truth is a high quality man is hard to get. Most women can get any average loser.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sometimes, they think sex will win him over or that sex IS love.

Reorx · Answer

Certain people in general, both men & women are simply nothing more than slaves to their biology. Takes awareness & a will to overcome this.

Rangers · Answer

Asking people to look in a mirror is useless these days

Anonymous · Answer

I think life is crazy enough that we don't need to fight siiiigggghhhhh

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