So for a long time I have been thinking everyone everywhere I go is looking at me and admiring my impressive body and how pretty I am facially. Especially if I caught someone looking at me for even a moment. I would get self conscious and nervous.
But lately I have been going to stores to try on new work clothes and I am realizing I dont look as special as I thought. People aren't staring at me and admiring my beauty lol. People might look at me but they are likely thinking about something else and not me at all.
On the other hand, I mean I could get attention on myself if I wore the right clothes that emphasized certain assets and features and hid others. I think that's actually a big part of what stunning beauty is. Whether on instagram women Photoshop or use certain angles and filters to make themselves look more stunning and eye catching or just how women use certain makeup or buy certain clothes to change how they look... It shows me that how stunning or amazing you look is all down to clothing and tricks like that. Its not usually an absolute thing. So yeah you can have a fit body but if you always wear loose frumpy clothes, nobody will double takes and be impressed by your body LOL. However if you find the specific right tank tops in the right cut, in the right size, and shorts that fit a certain way, etc etc you get the drift... You can look amazing to everyone around. Thats probably why women usually spend so much time and mental effort paying attention to the details of clothes and beauty because thats how they enhance their looks. Nobody is going to do that for you. You have to pay close attention and meditate on what will make certain body parts stand out and hide the other parts you dont want the focus on. That "perfect girl" probably just has on the right clothes!
All that said we are all wonderful, seeing as God made us!!
But lately I have been going to stores to try on new work clothes and I am realizing I dont look as special as I thought. People aren't staring at me and admiring my beauty lol. People might look at me but they are likely thinking about something else and not me at all.
On the other hand, I mean I could get attention on myself if I wore the right clothes that emphasized certain assets and features and hid others. I think that's actually a big part of what stunning beauty is. Whether on instagram women Photoshop or use certain angles and filters to make themselves look more stunning and eye catching or just how women use certain makeup or buy certain clothes to change how they look... It shows me that how stunning or amazing you look is all down to clothing and tricks like that. Its not usually an absolute thing. So yeah you can have a fit body but if you always wear loose frumpy clothes, nobody will double takes and be impressed by your body LOL. However if you find the specific right tank tops in the right cut, in the right size, and shorts that fit a certain way, etc etc you get the drift... You can look amazing to everyone around. Thats probably why women usually spend so much time and mental effort paying attention to the details of clothes and beauty because thats how they enhance their looks. Nobody is going to do that for you. You have to pay close attention and meditate on what will make certain body parts stand out and hide the other parts you dont want the focus on. That "perfect girl" probably just has on the right clothes!
All that said we are all wonderful, seeing as God made us!!
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If some of my post sounds like stuff you already knew, well, it took me a while to figure it out naturally.
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