Feminists; why are you destroying all women's image?

[Anonymous]

I am 22 years old and I am extremely old fashioned. As a woman I feel that it is my duty to please my man at the end of the day. I feel it is my job to do the house work, look after the children and cook my husband big meals to feed him after his long day at work. I feel it is my job to agree with my husband and let him make decisions because at the end of the day, even if I believe his decisions are wrong, it makes him happy to know that I will stand beside him through his decisions. I work full time and so does my husband. If my husband had it his way, I would be as stay at home mom. But given that today is so financially hard on everyone, I have to work. Don't get me wrong, I love working. My social life is while I am working. And no, this isn't because of my husband. This is because I would rather sit at home with my husband, rubbing his back, watching a movie with him and sucking his dick than have nights out on the town with random "girl friends" that these days will destroy you for the simple sake of saying they can. The money I make is OUR money. We don't have separate bank accounts. There's no need for it.
I have been asked on numerous occasions why I believe this way and upon telling people why I do, they will say things like "This is 2015 you know. You shouldn't be doing anything for your husband. You're not his mom." Or the men will say "He's a bitch. No man will do anything for a woman these days if they knew any better. After all, women will only fuck you over." Is this really the image that men get about ALL women because of the radical, ignorant feminists? If my husband and I want to go about our lives in an old fashioned manner then why can't people just shut up and allow us to live our lives? I don't bash on the men who sit there with their tails tucked between their legs whom have become more feminine than half of the female population. I don't sit there and ridicule the women who have completely destroyed their lives and the lives of many men on the simple fact that they think they are far more superior than them!
Is it really so hard to accept that not everyone follows the beliefs of today's society? Honestly?

Updates

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Just to clear things up, my coworkers are feminists who do a lot of man hating and nothing else. This is what I am going off of in my post. Where they are the only people I am socialized with, though its for work purposes.

[Zebbor]

I don't think it's just feminists to blame for making women look bad, and of course, it's not all feminists, but many feminists yes. I oppose a lot of modern feminism because it's largely contradictory and I don't think it's good for women or men. It tells women they're strong and equal to men, but then we get all these initiatives to help women, and only women, from pushing them into science to making it so they don't even have to tell a man on the subway "Excuse me. Your legs are taking up too much space and I'd like to sit here". Then there's these charities for women only where men suffer the same problems. It treats women like children, and when you do this too much, they start to act like children. This isn't an insult to anyone here so don't take offence. I don't know you.

I'm all for equal rights as I'm sure you are. I don't think it's your duty to serve your man, but if that's what you feel and it fulfils you then great. It's a well working system where someone works and someone looks after the house and children. Something that can't be said for our current system after the whole "sexual revolution" where men and women can sleep around all they like with little immediate consequence. and there's this idea that fathers aren't necessary etc. Men and women are being driven further apart from what I can see. Perhaps some will feel differently and that's fine. I respect that.

You sound like a good pair. It might not work for everyone and shouldn't be forced on anyone, just as nothing should be forced on you.

[Mesonfielde]

Feminism gave you the right to have the CHOICE to choose to do what you are doing now.

As long as what you're doing works for you and you do it because it is the right thing to do that works best for you two, then I don't see why you should stop doing it.

[Thor696]

I don't think she's talking about "first wave feminism" - which is what led to the choice.

She's talking about the current, radical wave - which enforces certain beliefs on women for the benefit of the whole and actually REMOVES choice.

[Asker]

@Thor696 you are 100% right. The new age radical feminists are the ones who give you two choices. Follow them and be praised or go against them and be ridiculed. There's no inbetween with them.

[coconutelixir]

This should be MHO.

[Mesonfielde]

@coconutelixir And apparently it was :p

Glad you found that helpful! :)

[Anonymous]

I'm so sick of everyone putting man-haters and feminists in the same boat. We're not the same. Man-haters hate men and claim to be "feminist", but they're NOT. Feminists just want equality between the sexes. Anyone who claims to be a feminists but hates men is a liar. That's not a feminist! Real feminists don't care if you choose to have an old fashioned relationship. If you choose to cook, clean, and raise children, or whatever else you CHOOSE to do that's YOUR decision. Feminists aren't against old fashioned ideas or the people who choose to live with them. We just want you to have the ability to CHOOSE. There was once a time when women were expected to only cook, clean, and raise children. We just want women to have the option to do me more than that. We just want women to have the same options as men. We want you to be able to choose if you want to work, or be a housewife, and everything in between. I'm sick of fake feminists twisting feminism into something ugly. Feminism is not about hating men or women who choose to live with old fashioned values. It's not about hate.

[Asker]

I agree but there is such a fine line these days that I truly don't know who's who anymore! Take this post for instance. Just scroll through the women's comments for a minute. Almost every single woman claimed to be a feminist and for equality and then turned around in that same sentence and bashed my "submissive" lifestyle.

[Opinion Owner]

If you want to be "submissive" then that's your choice. Just be happy with your life and and ignore everyone else. Just please remember that not everyone who claims to be a feminist is an actual feminist. They give feminism such a bad reputation. Just live your life however you want to.

[Asker]

They really do! Its the feminists like you who are only for equality that I respect. You're not judgmental, you don't hate men and you believe women should have a choice in how they live! Its the man hating, judgmental, women who say one thing and do another that give feminists a bad name. The ones who say "women should have a choice" but then turn around and bash another women if they CHOOSE not to follow them that I can not get over.

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely see where you're coming from. Some people pretend to understand and support what feminism stands for when they just want to spread hate. Ignore them. Just keep living your life how you want to. I wish you the best of luck!

[FakeName123]

They are not real feminists is a logical fallacy:

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[Opinion Owner]

@FakeName123 Well then let me correct myself. People who claim to be feminists who spread hate are extremists who don't understand the meaning of feminism.

[Asker]

Agreed

[Asker]

The women who use feminism as a mask to bash women are the problem in today's society. Not the ones fighting for equality.

[mistixs]

" it is my duty to please my man at the end of the day"
The only reason this *wouldn't* be sexist is if you also believe that your man has a "duty" to please his woman also.

"I feel it is my job to agree with my husband and let him make decisions because at the end of the day, even if I believe his decisions are wrong, it makes him happy to know that I will stand beside him through his decisions."
Yes so if he makes a stupid decision, you'll just let him make it?

And why are YOU the one who has to make meals, do housework, & look after children, if you also have a job? The only way that wouldn't be sexist is if you work less hours.

[Asker]

I work 20 hours to his 56. And no, this isn't sexist. Me having a life style that I want is not sexist. Me pleasing my man is not sexist. Me cooking dinner and doing house work is not sexist.
And I refuse to let any new age single woman tell me any different.

[mistixs]

Well, do you also believe that it's a man's job to please his woman, just as much as vice versa?
If yes, then that's not sexist.
If no, then that's internalized sexism.

[Lynzlindsey]

It's horrible. Femimism is about equality. Now it is its own thing? I feel like it's too dramatic. A friend of mine felt it was rude for a man to open the door for her.. Or pay for food because it showed she was incapable of doing those things herself. Like are you kidding me? I have dated jerk after jerk who'd make me go Dutch and let the door swing back in my face. The guys she's picking up she's putting them down for being a gentleman? Sooner or later they all might stop treating us like ladies. Oh cosmopolitan on snapchat is the biggest double standard EVER.

[Asker]

Exactly!! I 100% agree with you!! This is the exact thing I am talking about and for some reason people (women especially) think I'm ignorant for even speaking out against their "perfect movement".

[Lynzlindsey]

You are literally preaching to the choir. How can men take women seriously about equality when we are getting on them about every little thing it seems like. Cosmopolitan is the worst, written by Extreme feminists.. How cheating men are pigs, and how women can cheat and get away with it. It's starting to get one sided. I support equality for all. I'm not a feminist

[Asker]

Thank the friggen Lord that there is another woman who feels the same way I do! I am not a feminist, even though I support equality because their movement has become completely hypocritical and one sided! Its hard to take them seriously!

[Lynzlindsey]

You should follow and or message me there aren't many of us.. So we have to stick together

[Asker]

I will right now.

[AnnaLeighMarie]

The only thing "feminism" is destroying is itself.

[DogEatsCat1973]

First of all thank you to all of the supportive and kind women! Second of all to all of the feminazis that spend 24 hours a day thinking of ways to torture men to death with the most pain possible, we all started off the same until one day in the womb the blueprints called for us men to get given testosterone then our ovaries traveled to our outside and got a skin sac then our clits grew giant sized to become penises, and every male has some estrogen too, so we are still in a way like you so it makes no sense why you want to eradicate us, also keep in mind I never asked to be born a hated male. Now I would like to share how feminazis actually can hurt women too: If a woman, unlike the lesbian feminazis, is in a relationship with a guy and you try to destroy him emotionally he may act shitty to his loving woman also because you made him feel women hate him! Maybe we could send the manists to mars and the feminazis to venus and those two groups can dwindle to nothing while us breeders who inter mingle genders will thrive!

[DogEatsCat1973]

Also quit digging on this sweet lady about sucking her mans dick because I love licking pussy and probably get more pleasure out of it than she does even when I get her to cum. So maybe she is the same way and gets personal pleasure from giving and why would you want to destroy a woman's right to take pleasure in giving? So lay off of her and go vent your frustrations to your wives!

[Thor696]

Well... hmmm...

My wife is an "anti-feminist" too - but she doesn't feel the need to agree with every decision I make. She'll even refuse to go along with something she feels passionate about.

You can be "antifeminist" and be total "equal rights". Anti-feminism just means you REJECT the position of feminists that says that what is good for one woman is good for all. Antifeminism means YOU RETAIN the right to decide for yourself what is good for you.

Now, for you - you choose total subservience to your man. That's fine if it works for you. Again YOU and YOU ALONE should decide how your relationship is structured when it comes to your part in it.

But... why are you concerned with what feminists think? Be your own girl... tell 'em to fuck off cuz you don't buy into their "group think".

[Conflustered]

Well said

[Bookwik]

MHO this guy

[skullly]

That's ridiculous.

I am not a feminist. but If I decide to please my man, it's not because I see it as a chore as you say it is "your job"... for me it would be something I WANT to do. Something that PLEASES me... rather than see it as a chore. That's awful. I feel sorry for you if you see that as a job rather than something you enjoy. haha. That's not being against feminism, it's more of a stupid thing to do if it's done as obligatory.

Love what you do, and do what you love. Rather than i do it cause it's my "job". Ridiculous women who think that way.

[Goldie757]

This 👏

[Asker]

You misinterupted that 100%, actually. Maybe I should have elaborated further. Or perhaps you should have simply assumed where you feel the same way as I. However, that was lack of wording on my part.

[Anonymous]

They're not destroying our image. As you know, there are a lot more types of women now, who don't try to hide who they are or how they want to live their lives. Some men are dealing with this change in a mature way (acknowledging that there are different types of women), while a few other men don't seem to get the concept that not all women are the same, and therefore they lump us all together in a heap of "not what I was taught women were supposed to be." The men who generalize us all are not the majority, I believe, so don't worry too much about it.

And some people can't handle the concept that not everyone wants to live the same way they do. That's definitely not unique to feminists, it's in all groups (but because of your lifestyle, you're going to experience it more from them, of course). Ignore those people, too. You do you.

[sammy67]

girl it's not a few that don't get it it's most men that don't get it

[Asker]

I have found that in 90% of cases, its not the men who have a problem. Its the women who think men should give up their masculinity and ways of living to suit women's needs.

[Opinion Owner]

@sammy67
Even on the internet, I usually see more guys who do get it. The ones who don't are the ones who rant the most, but they still seem outnumbered. Just what I see, though!

[Opinion Owner]

Asker, I really hope you don't mean women's *rights*, haha. We shouldn't have to settle for being treated as second class just because a guy might feel emasculated when his boss is a woman, for example. Anyway, if a guy thinks ALL women are one way, just because he had a negative experience with a certain group, that really is his problem. That's not a mature or healthy way to react to the situation, and he needs to grow up.

[GirlsLie]

I really hope you're a troll, for the sake of my sanity.

Can't you be a feminist and still do all of those things as well? That's kind of the point of it. The fact that you have the option/right to live your life how you want to.

You say you don't "bash men who have become feminine" then you proceed with bashing them. You bash them in your own head, you just don't do it out loud. You're really no different than the people who bash you for living your life the way you do, the only difference is you're more quiet about it.

[lumos]

I'm a feminist and believe that everyone should have the choice to live their own lives, whether it's a traditional lifestyle or a more modern one, as long as they don't force others to live like them. Or judge those who don't. And quite frankly you do generalize and try to shame those who don't live like you.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to shame anyone or judge them. However, I've had enough today. I work with 3 feminists and one man. These feminists have completely bashed my way of living and this man just sticks to himself in the corner of the room and doesn't defend himself. Good for you for sticking to real feminism and equality rather than going with everyone elses (or feminazis) views.

[lumos]

You keep saying that feminists have destroyed the world and that men are weak. I'm p sure that counts as shaming and generalizing.

[Asker]

That was a very good attempt at putting words in my mouth. Never once said men were weak. Never once said feminists destroyed the world. A+ for effort though.

[lumos]

"I don't bash on the men who sit there with their tails tucked between their legs whom have become more feminine than half of the female population"

[Asker]

And why exactly do men do this? Why exactly do women do this to men? Answer me that before you sit their and try to judge my way of thinking. Considering you have given me nothing to show for any statement I've made throughout this entire post.

[lumos]

Why do men do what? Sit back? Has it ever crossed your mind that that's the kind of lifestyle a lot of them prefer? Who said all men have to be the aggressive leader-type who always takes action? What if these men prefer to be submissive and more feminine? Who the fuck are you to say it's wrong, if that's what they want to do and who they want to be?

[Asker]

I'm not saying its wrong. What I am saying is wrong is the simple fact that there are men out there who won't even approach women these days because women are so quick to automatically assume the poor guy is going to fucking rape or assault them. There are plenty of men out there (I hang out with quite a lot of them) who are afraid to even ask for a date because women are so "independent" these days and will bash any man who even shows interest in them because she's "a strong willed girl and can ask a man out herself if she is interested." Do you not see any of this happening or have you gone blind to such things?

[lumos]

I always hear people say BS like that but I've never seen it happen IRL or heard stories about it happening from my friends or acquaintances. Maybe that's an issue mainly in the US? And from what I can tell, a lot of guys approach girls by catcalling them. And then they're surprised when the girl flips them off... serves them right tbh. Other than that, if a girl freaks out for getting approached, then all guys can do is stay away from girls like that. Hardly the majority of girls are like that and I just feel like most men are worried over nothing. Stories like that always get a lot of attention on social media but how often does it REALLY happen?

[Asker]

I've seen it first hand and yes I am from the US. Maybe it is a bigger issue here rather than else where.

[CityBoy773]

Lady, do yourself a favor. Chill out and chose when to not give a fuck. You're whole post is you whining about feminists that don't really concern you. Just get over it. Your coworkers can bitch and moan all they want, they're coworkers and not friends for a reason.

You're question at the end could be easily directed back at you, by the way. Is it really so hard for YOU to accept that not everyone follows YOUR beliefs? Honestly?

Just get over it, sit with your husband, watch TV, and do whatever. Or at least obtain a damn social life. Nobody should just be sitting around being submissive as hell to their partner and not doing anything. You're still young, girl, go out and actually be social.

[Lynzlindsey]

Geez could you of sounded anymore like an asshole? If you agree don't put someone down or just answer the question

[CityBoy773]

I'm an asshole I admit that much
@Lynzlindsey

[tayoker]

Feminism is jealousy. But at the end of the day everybody is free to say what they need to say, choose what they need to choose. As they accept each other's opinions, whoever they are also not trying only to integrate in the society but to show their ability to make some contributions in it to prove their points. It's easy to accept your own vision but it's not easy to accept others opinions that we live in a time where being easily accepted isn't easy at all... very good point of yours, i like it.

[ImHere22]

Today's society is not yesterday's world, yet your generation, my generation, are routinely forced to deal with every. single. mistake. misstep. horrendous miscalculation as well as those actions and behaviors that people of older generations had full understanding and knowledge of when implementing said decisions.

Everything you've mentioned above is reminiscent of what was once the steadfast, common belief one, two, three generations ago, and even then, movements were increasing to overturn such hindrances. The world in which you're hoping to exist is rapidly disintegrating. And I believe it's all for the better. You can attempt to continue on living with bleak hope in that you'll find life-enduring community with people holding the same values and mindset as you. But personally, I hope you never find said community. Instead, I hope you realize that at the age of 22, you have a lot, a lot to learn and much growth and understanding to allow.

[nalaa]

right, because you feel that way, means everyone has to live that way. Talk about ignorance

Feminism is about being able to choose your own path. You can choose whatever the hell you want, but that's the point, that's your choice. Don't force your choices on others, just be happy you can make them.
"If my husband and I want to go about our lives in an old fashioned manner then why can't people just shut up and allow us to live our lives" they do. From the outside you look like a 100% average couple, people won't even know anything about your relationship until you go parade it around. And even then, no one is stopping you. But no one is forced to agree with you either

[Goldie757]

Why the fuck do give a shit what people think.

This questions isn't even about feminism. Its about people telling you how to live your life. Tell them to mind their own business.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Exuse us for believing we have a right to be as happy as a man without facing oppression and discrimination? That's what an actual feminist believes, and we don't push it onto people...

[Asker]

Well then you are not the type of woman I am referring to. Kudos to you.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Thanks ma'am, best of luck with the extreme crazy feminists.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Riverock]

*Sees the word feminist*

*Prepares for misunderstandings and name calling*

[Lynzlindsey]

I laughed so hard at this

[Riverock]

@Lynzlindsey Thanks. :)

Within my first month or so on this site, I answered a feminist question the same but with a sarcastic gif. Now I don't even bother to find the gif.

I simply observe.

(Screw it. Gifs are always good)

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[FrenchEmma]

Do you really think feminists destroy all women's image? That is nonsense, everybody should be feminist because it's the equality of genders and if you don't think that a woman is equal to men well I think you're dumb. I don't know if you think that it's only your job or every women's job to do the housework and the cooking because in the first case well it concerns you but in the other case YOU are destroying all women's image.

Just imagine I'm a black girl and I say that yes I think it's my role to be a slave and being considered as an object. Do you think that's normal? I don't, but what you think is comparable to that.

[FrenchEmma]

Can the people who dislike my opinion tell me where they disagree with? I really would like to know their opinion.

[Asker]

You're comment about "everyone should be a feminist" is what people disagree with. And your whole comparison to black women (not Black's as a whole but black women) and slavery was just an ignorant irrelevant comment. You're the pure definition as to why everyone thinks that feminists are sexist.

[FrenchEmma]

It's because my English is bad... But yes I consider that if you're not feminist, you think that women are inferiors to men, that's a fact

[Asker]

No, that's not a fact at all. People choose not to be feminists everyday and they are living a happy life regardless.

[Asker]

And these people who choose not to be feminists have life's that they love with men they love and cater too, just as some feminists do. Choosing not to be a feminist doesn't make them a bad person. It's the women who bash on others for not being feminist that are the horrible people in today's society.

[Thor696]

Hey, by your def I'm a "feminist" but more and more... that is NOT the definition that feminists assign to themselves. There are radical feminists out there who believe all penetrative sex is rape simply due to the "power transfer" that is implied in it.

The current crop of college feminists have become quite ridiculous.

[FrenchEmma]

@Thor696 Yes there are extreme feminists, I'm talking about feminists.

[Thor696]

Yeah... there's often confusion about that. It's like the dif between Islam and "Radical Islam" and unfortunately - nobody really knows which one we're talking about whenever someone mentions the term.

Can you give me the name of a reasonable feminist writer / thinker? I only know about the Andrea Dworkin types. I suppose Camille Paglia might be what one would consider a "moderate" feminist.

Unfortunately, like Islam - we only hear the radicals because those are the ones screaming the loudest.

[FrenchEmma]

@Thor696 Yes I can ! Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is a really smart woman, please take a look at "we should all be feminists" TEDxEuston

[Thor696]

I'll check it out, thanks! :D

[FrenchEmma]

@Thor696 Your welcome ! Please send me a private message to tell me what you thought about it when you'll had seen it !

[BoopBoopBeep]

Feminism hasn't been about equality of genders since the second wave. Do you support mandatory registration for the draft for women? Do you support abolition of alimony? Do you support equal sentencing for male/female criminals? Do you support building mental health facilities for men only and male shelters for DV abuse victims? 3 out of 4 homeless are men, do you support more homeless women? How about the fact that men are far more likely to die violently.

We still shooting for equality of sexes?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@asker Do you have any single sisters?

[Ihav2fart]

"I would rather sit at home with my husband, rubbing his back, watching a movie with him and sucking his dick"

What kind of mythical creature are you! ?
😲

[nalaa]

I think a lot of women feel that way, but most of us have the better sense to impose that is how it has to be for every woman, everywhere all the time.
Most people understand that that is very private choice and doesn't need parading around in public, so we don't

[ginnyweasley]

I am a feminist and I believe that you can do whatever the hell you want as long as he is not forcing you to do anything. Personally if I decide to make my man happy, I will do it because I want to not because I have to.

[LorcaNovena]

If people want to live their lives in a particular way then that's their business and nobody else's. People should spend less time interfering in the affair of others and more time focusing on their own lives.

[KRIEL55]

goddamn woman your nothing but your mans BITCH! (or is he lowkey your pimp and forcing you to act this way? you need to report that) i usually wouldn't use this kind of language but this post just made my blood boil! im not some hardcore feminist and i understand things like cooking and cleaning the house, that is more of the woman's job. but you sound waaaay too submissive and like the biggest push over EVER. i don't know what caused you to be this way but you sound like you need therapy you care way too much about pleasing someone. get a life. your own life! i really hope your just trolling.

[KRIEL55]

HA why are you so mad. because i pointed out something obvious? IM the pathetic one? i'm not the one who treats the guys im with like my pimps. i have a voice, i make my own decisions, i take care of the person im with but i dont act like their servant, and i expect good things in return because things should be equal. you're over here talking about "feminists are destroying all women's image" no honey, your the type of female that makes men see us as objects. you make men think we live for their needs. make them think we're their slaves. if you honestly think that women are made for nothing more then to praise men, you are EXTREMELY self conscious and as i mentioned earlier, PLEASE get some therapy you NEED it.

[Asker]

I'm not the one who needs it. I have problems because I enjoy doing things to please my husband? How friggen ignorant are you?

[KRIEL55]

WHEN did i say its wrong to please your husband? i mentioned about twice that i take care of whoever im with too, but you basically SERVE him. not just do good things for him. you let him make all the decisions and have him tell you what to do. he's not your parent, your both grown Make your own decisions

[Asker]

I am making my own decisions. I ENJOY doing this for him and if you had read this at all then you would have known that! If you are not going to read something to understand rather than judge then don't bother. Honestly.

[KRIEL55]

actually, i have read the WHOLE thing. and i stand by everything i said. You said "I feel it is my job to agree with my husband and let him make decisions because at the end of the day, even if I believe his decisions are wrong, it makes him happy to know that I will stand beside him through his decisions" WHAT is wrong with you? who trained you to be someone's yes man? even women in the 1800s rebelled more! how do you think prostitution started? women didn't want to be someone's property and wanted to make their own money to actually live their own life and make their own decisions. We no longer have to have such demeaning jobs just to have some independence, yet there's some ridiculous women like you who are CHOOSING to be controlled. WHAT is the matter with you! he is NOT God for you to be doing the absolute most for him and not be expecting anything in return. and don't even get me started about how you said that because of the way we, women, don't do anything for men, they think

[KRIEL55]

that we'll all fuck them over and be heartless. this is 2015, yes, yet STILL men are the ones that are known as dogs! they're still the ones who need to prove something to US because everyone knows women are usually more considerate and loving than them. HE should be the one proving things to you, not the other way around. smh i feel sorry for your kids, if you have a daughter.. oh man.

[Asker]

Lol you are the pure definition of man hating, one sidedness. I bet you expect your boyfriends (if you're even able to get one with such an attitude) to do everything for you but then scream independence when he tries to take any claim on you. So I'm stupid because I choose to live this life style? I'm stupid because I enjoy it? You feminists sit their and preach equality and non judgement but sit there and judge people who don't follow your damned lifestyle. That is what's pathetic. There is nothing wrong with me. But you claiming to want equality cause "we came so far and now we can make our own choices" but then judge my CHOICE just goes to show exactly how twisted and corrupt the act of feminism is.

[Asker]

Wow. I didn't even read your second comment on here. LMFAO man hater alert! Bye now. Can't argue with stupid.

[KRIEL55]

ha if i'm ever able to get one with such attitude? i have 3 guys waiting on me to respond on whether i want to be with them or not right now. but unlike i bet you did, i don't settle for just someone who wants to marry me. i take my time deciding because i know my worth, and i got proposed to twice but both times said no because i am too young. im only 18! and those guys still keep in touch with me seeing if i'll change my mind. lmfao i can go onnnn about all these guys in my life but that's not what im trying to discuss here. and i dont expect anyone to do anything for me, all the guys i've been with liked to do things for me and i let them but i did things for them in return. i dont care about how you live your life, its not my life. but it seriously sounds like the only reason you got wifed up is because your a push over and your man already knew it while you dated so he figured, where else will i get such an obedient female who will serve me. might as well just stay with her

[KRIEL55]

but its whatever to me, by the end of the day, just like i said, its not my life. but this is just the most ridiculous thing i've EVER read. and i seriously still hope your just a troll.

[KRIEL55]

man hater? ahahahahha i looooove men! just like i looooove dick! your crazy af if you think i hate men. i dont hate men, i just hate stupid little bitches like you who worship them, get it right (;

[Asker]

Lol you just said men are dogs. But like I said, not going to argue with stupid. And oh you have men swarming you? Must be because you loveeeeee dick. Words from your mouth. Not mine. You're just making yourself look so much worse. Please, keep digging lmfao!

[KRIEL55]

lmfao i love how much you assume. i said that men are stereotypically known as dogs, and i've only had sex with 2 guys. after dating them for a good amount of time and they both proposed to me later in our relationship. ones again, get things right! aha this is getting sad.

[KRIEL55]

just believe it or not (i know this is news to you), by doing your own thing, having your own ideas, and your own life, you can actually get some REAL respect! not a man who just lets you treat him like he's God and most likely doesn't even actually respect you, just loves you for all the things you do for him and for the way your somehow brainwashed into believing that since your a woman, its your job to serve him. i mean its not a bad deal! aha i've been with a few guys who practically worshipped me, it was nice but eventually i decided to leave them and find someone who actually has a personality and can actually stand up for themselves.

[GirlScout]

I'm sorry but you sound like a wash out of a human, you just blindly support your husband even if he is wrong? That's stupid. Plain stupid.

Good for you that you only want to stay home, cook and suck cock. It's great you know what you want from life, lots of people want more though. They want to be able to enjoy the same freedoms as everyone else. There are misandrists but are you really surprised? How long have we been subject to misogyny? It's an equal and opposite reaction.

[Anonymous]

No one really cares about how you live your life, we have our own lives to worry about. It's you that seem to have an issue. I'd never be interested in a girl like you, but if you're happy with your man, that's what matters.