I want to be the main character in life, everyone should value me as I am the one. How can I overcome this need?

[Slave_submissive]

Obviously no one will give me the attention i crave. People will keep living their lifes and i will be seen as detail always. So as i gotta make peace with this fact how can i convince myself that i don't need to be main character always?

[Screenwriter]

This issue is usually called narcissism: wanting to always be the center of attention. I'd suggest seeing a therapist to work through this desire. Might've been something missing from your home of origin or a miswiring of your neurons. No telling.

But try to address it. You realize it's a problem. Take care of it.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe just learn to validate internally instead of seeking external validation

[Slave_submissive]

Can you successfully do that to yourself? Because external validations are way more powerful than my own

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’ve done it, so yeah

[Anonymous]

I'm quite the opposite, I don't want any kind of attention, but I have attention of very malicious people.

[Dargil]

My advice to you, is that you need to have a plan B ,'cause you may not end up the main character.

[AI Opinion]

Finding peace in yourself without needing to be the main character can be empowering. Focus on self-acceptance and celebrate your uniqueness without seeking constant validation. Engage in activities that boost your self-esteem, such as pursuing a hobby or passion like art or traveling. Remember, every person’s role contributes to the overall story, and sometimes being a supportive character is just as important as leading. 🌟 Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are. Embrace life's moments and enjoy them fully without comparison.