Friendship... WTF Why the flying ****

[DixieforLife]

Friendship

That one word that makes me both want to smile and punch a wall

Do you remember back in kindergarten when everyone was friends with each other?

Those were the good old days, Back when no one cared how expensive your shoes were because all they wanted to do was play and have fun. Now when you get to Middle School and High School thats all that its about. Everyone has their group, Their homies, Their people. Some are luckier and are "cool". But some are considered nerds or geeks. In the end the ones that never cared how other people saw them are the ones that ended up sucksiding in life.

Then there's me the one who will yell PENNIS at the top of her lungs near the principal just to make her friend feel better. I am me and i don't change not for a guy or even for a friend. I used to have a friend that was my everything, that was the yin to my yang.

Then I started to date this guy only he only really wanted to truly hang with me one on one, one day a week after school. But when i said i was going to hang out with him. She got all weird and mad at me. (I was like WTF your my bestie, I thought that you would be supportive)then him and i broke up. Then me and my friend got better. Then i started to like this other guy. Then she got all mad at me just cuz I wanted to around other people occasionally.

So then i said " We don't connect, I don't think that we should be friends and more" (nice way to put I'm done go away) So i wanted to make a fresh start with a different friend and now I don't get that. Now that i was friends with this other person, my ex bestie decided that her and my new friend are now good friends. When before me they never even talked. So she totally ruined my new start.

So the moral of this is to be a good friend is to support your friend through something new and if they say I don't really want to be friends and anymore respect that. Don't try to deny something that is happening.

(Thanks for reading this was my first myTake)

[JRH1991]

sounds just like me and my friend Dylan. I met him in the winter when I was 20 and he was 14 and we hit it off at the end of summer, became inseparable for about 2 and a half years until he dated this abusive girl that hated my guts for no reason other than Just being around himand that ruined our close friend ship, Like she'd death stare me through his house.

though it hasn't been a purely happy friend ship because He can be very suicidal and I've lost sleep because of him and I'am still afraid of getting that call one day. I've almost lost him twice in 4 years, The last time he overdosed doctors said he should be dead yet he lived. It sucks someone you were so close with grows apart but thats life, I still get lonely because he would rather do other stuff most of the time but I take what I can get even if I dont get as much time with him as I used to.

[HookingSwan]

"friends" come and go

You may get lucky someday and be able to find a real friend

I didn't think it was possible or, at least i thought it took a lot of effort to make it work.

I still dk where this will go. But I am happy I have made a real friend. And, curiously, it was here on GAG.

[Denise123]

How did your ex beastie (yes beast) react? was she jelous of u having a boyfriend and her not? I think you did the right thing, I hope she leaves you alone. Just make sure you and her are not like SUPER mad at each other when it's all over, as someone who is a year old, you have to trust me, no matter how rude she is, you have to be at least in the nice zone with each other. (not trying to sound mean here)
@dixieforlife

[DixieforLife]

She was really jealous, she told me that so many times. And every time i am somewhat kindish she takes it as i want to be forever again and I don't, because she did it with the guy before and I forgave her and I'm kinda over al the drama

[Denise123]

@dixieforlife
does she have something going on in her personal life? do you think that, since you guys are 15 or 16, that it could just be horemons? Give her one last chance, and apologize (even if you didn't do anything which i think you didn't) that will probably take the gruge that she has against you away and you can be friends again. i don't think she should be thinking that you guys should be friends on the double, but she probably feels bad, try to talk to her, and spend 1 on 1 time together, and forget being mad at her that won't help no matter how mad you are, then after some 1 on 1 time, slowing introduce your friends and the guy your dating to her last. you guys should have an even stronger relationship after that! give her one more chance trust me, talk it out for about 30 minutes (half and hour) tell her things about you that she might not know to bring your relationship closer, and she will open up to you and share stuff like that.
tell me how it went (if you decide to)

[Denise123]

what, she did, "it" with your boy? Now way are you sure?

[DixieforLife]

So i have had 2 boyfriends ever and by it I meant that she did the jealous thing with him too so that let to me breaking up with him for the sake of friendship. And i did do the talking out thing multiple times we have been off and on since middle school. Till finally one day is straight out just said we don't connect and I don't feel that we should be friends. She agreed but then a week later she comes up to me like we are friends again. Im just like wtf. Now she wants to make up and she has said that she will change but I've fallen for that one many times with her and I'm done. I don't want to be friends but she for some reason keeps trying

[Denise123]

give her one more chance, don't roll your eyes or sigh, talk for about 30 minutes, trust me!!!

[DixieforLife]

I have this other friend who told me to do the same thing and i did bout a week ago

[Denise123]

so what are you going to do, talk to her or not? i have seen a lot of friendships happen like this and it usually works out you have to trust me, and take into consideration that im at least 1 year older than you

[Denise123]

were you guys close before this break up?
@dixieforlife

[DixieforLife]

We were about 2 years back but since then we hav been off and on

[Denise123]

give her one more chance, and say your sorry even if you didn't do anything, trust me on this

[awesometjgreen]

Great mytake!