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I find it extremely stupid that I have to include a picture in your myTake. I wonder who the idiot is who came up with that dump idea.
Disclaimers!
Yes, this is a poorly written myTake.
There isn't much point to this myTake as it's simply for my amusement and entertainment.
This is a form of attention seeking because I am insecure and I only feel validated by receiving attention. (DaKila: You sad, sad human-being UnknownXYZ...)
I happily welcome any heavy criticisms about me since I am far from being a perfect human.
Anyway, here is my pathetic take on friendships...
Here is some music to enjoy while you read this... It might influence the mood a little...
Throughout my life, my feeling have been spat on, trod on and even ripped apart by people I thought who were my "friends". It's a really scary thing. It made me believe people use the term when they really should use the term "acquaintance".
"Good friends" are hard to come by; those who don't betray, those who are there when you are feeling happy or sad and those who really appreciate you for who you are as well as accepting your flaws. What's interesting about me calling someone a "friend" is that I treat you like a "good friend". But don't get me wrong as there are some friends I talk and spend time with more than others but every person I call a friend means that I always welcome anything they want to share with me with open arms.
I feel nowadays, me considering people "friends" is almost like me placing myself in a vulnerable position. Given that I do care generally about how my friends perceive me, I will be very prone to being hurt if they do someone that would damage the bond between me and them. What's even more scary is that you don't know who these people are until they actually do it.
I can’t really blame some people though because to a lot of people, friends are nothing more than a “stepping stone” to being in a greater social life. Like those who are only your friend because they feel you have something to offer them that puts them on a “higher social ladder” (whatever that means). Now, so many times when someone who offers something of higher social value to them, they now deem you unworthy of being their friend leaving you in the dust as you would be holding them back socially. It’s kind of sad that people who I thought were my friends really weren’t my friends because of who I was but because of what I could offer to them. You never know if a person is like that until it happens to you in a sucker punch kind of way.
In conclusion, I can see why people don't make friends with others because it's an unnecessary investment that can blow up in their faces but, for me, I believe the troubles are worth it because befriending those in this world who are truly wonderful people is more valuable than gold.
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I wish I had more friends. I'm so lonely sometimes even though I have a great boyfriend and famiky
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I feel you. Appreciate what you have. Maybe you should try and open up more people with who you share a little bond with and you can build friendships from there. As I mentioned in the Take, a lot of people throw around the label of "friend" and don't really care. I would rather have 1 true friend than a lot of fake friends.
Well said.
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Why, thank you.