Should I forgive her?

[Anonymous]

Long story short:

Do you think I should go back and forgive her+start hanging out with her or should I just keep moving on?

Obs! The title autocorrected a Word wrong so I screenshotted the text I wrote and put it here I hope you can read it.

[ACoate3]

First what is bitchi blik? Ok after reading I think what you should do is if she keeps being nice with that boy, choose to be friends with another girl or guy who wants the best for you. In my opinion that's just wrong to support a guy like that who did that to a friend. She sounds like a jerk, and you shouldn't have to put with that

[myTake Owner]

Okay thankyou for your opinion!

[myTake Owner]

Oh and bitchi blick is a mean blick you give someone.

[ACoate3]

Do you mean look?

[myTake Owner]

Yes. I thought you could say blick in English lol

[Malnot99]

In all honesty I think you should try to move past it, what that guy did is unforgivable but it wasn't her that did that to you.
You gave her a warning about it and she didn't listen, that's on her. But you shouldn't brake off a friendship over her ignorance.

[myTake Owner]

So even tho she knows she hurt me and she keep doing it I should forgive her. Well she doesn't understand that she has done anything wrong should I still forgive her or just keep moving on?

[Malnot99]

Well let her know how you feel but also (me as a Christian, sorry I don't mean to be pushy and I rarely give advice through my religion) you should not hold grudges. In some of the times I've actually picked up the Bible I like to go to find passages that relate to me. One of my interpretations is to turn the other cheek. In other words to forgive even the harshest, and try to use it to make yourself a better person.

The people that hurt use were put there for a reason, whether you believe it to be God or chance or whatever else, they are there for a reason. I believe that if you accept what happened and move on you can (if she was a great friend who you valued in your life) forgive her and want her back in your life.

[myTake Owner]

She knows, it says in the text she knew it all before she did it, and she did it and she's suprice I'm leaving with more friends now. I just think its funny that she wants me back cause she will fail school, lmao😂.

I'm not Christian and I have already moved on because I know I deserve more than fake people like her in my life when I'm just loyal. But do you really Think its a Good Idéa to forgive everyone? I mean it's one thing to move on but not be mad (what I'm doing) than have to be friends with everyone no matter what they did. So if a friend of you hurt you on purpose and then blame you for it you still have to be friends with them? Or what do you think?

[Anonymous]

I'm not really good with this stuff but if she was your friend and you should try to get to the bottom of why she was doing what she was doing it all really depends also if she doesn't really give a heartfelt reason for it she probably just doesn't care but do what you think is right and what's safe for you

[myTake Owner]

It seams like she doesn't care but want to use me but I can never be sure.
By the way, thanks for your opinion!