Though everyone is different, your brain becomes fully mature at 25 years old. I remember when I was 14, I was quite stupid and naïve and of course I thought I knew everything lol. In hindsight, I realized later on that I knew nothing at that time. Of course, this is just a generalization and people are forced to grow up when they go through trauma.
I know that your brain is fully matures at 25. What I'm saying is most adults on here say stupid stuff like "you don't know what you're talking about" when I'm talking about how I disagree with abortion being completely banned. I wanted to let them know my point of view as to not want to raise a child knowing I am a child. Also saying that I didn't want to anonymously give the child away without it ever knowing it's mother. I'm not saying I know all, I'm not saying that I'm an adult. I wanted people to understand that they don't know my plight. That when I say something... I know something about that, and that my opinion matters. One person went ahead to say to me that I was worth less than dog poop in a parking lot. So, I have something to prove. That my life is worth something.
The people who say that to you are the ones who don't know anything and just think they're right without taking facts in. Your opinion that abortion shouldn't be banned, is backed by scientific research and that's what should matter. Those who disregard that are ignorant themselves. Don't take their words to heart. And you should report the person who told you that you're worthless. Your life is 100% worth something, so just take the opinions of right wing nut jobs with a grain of salt. That's what I do lol. To these people, i'm 30 and yet I also know nothing, because they're the only ones who know everything lmfao.
Yeah... I've been working on myself though... therapy, and shit of that sort has calmed me down a lot. People don't even know half of my story, let alone a eighth of my story from this post. And they need to know that my opinion does matter. I want them to understand that you can hurt a child with simple actions and words. I am letting barriers down just to allow people on here and tell me how wrong I am. I want them to not hurt someone fragile likewise to myself when it first happened. I want people who went through the same thing as I to find strength through this so that they know that they aren't alone.
I am sorry you have been through so much. Most people will find it easier to attack the source rather than deal with the facts or strength of an argument.
Was your rapist prosecuted? Personally I think adoption is better than abortion. My aunt was adopted; her mother was underage at the time. She has been a blessing for my family and she does have a relationship with her birth mother.
No... I didn't mention this, but I've told little to no one ab this. And the only reason it's on gag is because a select few people know my name, and nobody knows the persons name either. I also didn't want to carry through with it due to the fact that I didn't want the child to know it's mother, and I didn't want the child to live with the demons from its other parent. So, I gave the child to the Lord, desiring for it to live a better life in heaven.
It's not easy going to court And it's definitely not easy getting a conviction I think one study said 5% get convicted so a lot of people decide not to go.
You're right... so my opinion doesn't matter! 🤯 Thank you for enlightening me and giving your amazing opinion on my MyTake. I should bow down and kiss your feet since you're sooooo intelligent.
Because, every time I try to share something from my experience, or share something I know, people like to say "How would you know? You're only 14." So this time, I had to tell them that I'm not just some dumb teen who doesn't know anything.
I just realised that they must've reported my comments. All of my comments are gone. Lol, they're scared of a debate. I have my reasons, and they want to act like I'm incapable of thinking. It's annoying how this continuously happens to me.
If you read the rest of the mytake you'd understand that I was placing a portion of my life into an argument that I was in two days ago on gag. Now, I still know I'm a child (Like I said in the mytake.) but I needed to get people to understand where I'm coming from. (And you're an adult who is trying to take a shortcut around life and not read before you comment.)
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Though everyone is different, your brain becomes fully mature at 25 years old. I remember when I was 14, I was quite stupid and naïve and of course I thought I knew everything lol. In hindsight, I realized later on that I knew nothing at that time. Of course, this is just a generalization and people are forced to grow up when they go through trauma.
I know that your brain is fully matures at 25. What I'm saying is most adults on here say stupid stuff like "you don't know what you're talking about" when I'm talking about how I disagree with abortion being completely banned. I wanted to let them know my point of view as to not want to raise a child knowing I am a child. Also saying that I didn't want to anonymously give the child away without it ever knowing it's mother. I'm not saying I know all, I'm not saying that I'm an adult. I wanted people to understand that they don't know my plight. That when I say something... I know something about that, and that my opinion matters.
One person went ahead to say to me that I was worth less than dog poop in a parking lot. So, I have something to prove. That my life is worth something.
The people who say that to you are the ones who don't know anything and just think they're right without taking facts in. Your opinion that abortion shouldn't be banned, is backed by scientific research and that's what should matter. Those who disregard that are ignorant themselves. Don't take their words to heart. And you should report the person who told you that you're worthless. Your life is 100% worth something, so just take the opinions of right wing nut jobs with a grain of salt. That's what I do lol. To these people, i'm 30 and yet I also know nothing, because they're the only ones who know everything lmfao.
Yeah... I've been working on myself though... therapy, and shit of that sort has calmed me down a lot. People don't even know half of my story, let alone a eighth of my story from this post. And they need to know that my opinion does matter. I want them to understand that you can hurt a child with simple actions and words. I am letting barriers down just to allow people on here and tell me how wrong I am. I want them to not hurt someone fragile likewise to myself when it first happened. I want people who went through the same thing as I to find strength through this so that they know that they aren't alone.
Adults love to talk down to kids
I went through it when I started my business at your age
I don't do that to the kids I know because I've been on the other foot
I am sorry you have been through so much. Most people will find it easier to attack the source rather than deal with the facts or strength of an argument.
Thank you. My goal wasn't to make people feel sorry for me, I just wanted people to see the idiocracy of assuming you know someone's plight.
Was your rapist prosecuted? Personally I think adoption is better than abortion. My aunt was adopted; her mother was underage at the time. She has been a blessing for my family and she does have a relationship with her birth mother.
No... I didn't mention this, but I've told little to no one ab this. And the only reason it's on gag is because a select few people know my name, and nobody knows the persons name either.
I also didn't want to carry through with it due to the fact that I didn't want the child to know it's mother, and I didn't want the child to live with the demons from its other parent.
So, I gave the child to the Lord, desiring for it to live a better life in heaven.
So the pedophile gets off scott free; to go and destroy more innocent lives?
I like to insight revenge myself... If you're wondering what happened to the person.
The best revenge is living a happy life while they rot away in a deep dark cell.
Lol, my revenge is slightly different. They're alive, but they won't hurt anybody else ever again.
It's not easy going to court And it's definitely not easy getting a conviction I think one study said 5% get convicted so a lot of people decide not to go.
Because gaining knowledge and wisdom takes years and experiences takes time
You're right... so my opinion doesn't matter! 🤯 Thank you for enlightening me and giving your amazing opinion on my MyTake. I should bow down and kiss your feet since you're sooooo intelligent.
Why do you think that?
Think what?
@StudyingAuthor you said people don’t think you know anything because you’re 14. I said, “Why do you think that”?
Because, every time I try to share something from my experience, or share something I know, people like to say "How would you know? You're only 14." So this time, I had to tell them that I'm not just some dumb teen who doesn't know anything.
Good for you, stand up for yourself
Thanks.
I just realised that they must've reported my comments. All of my comments are gone. Lol, they're scared of a debate. I have my reasons, and they want to act like I'm incapable of thinking. It's annoying how this continuously happens to me.
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not yet.
You know nothing of significance at your age.
Because you're 14?
If you read the rest of the mytake you'd understand that I was placing a portion of my life into an argument that I was in two days ago on gag. Now, I still know I'm a child (Like I said in the mytake.) but I needed to get people to understand where I'm coming from. (And you're an adult who is trying to take a shortcut around life and not read before you comment.)