I lost feelings for my crush and now he's crushing on me?

[Anonymous]

For a whole schoolyear I liked a guy but I don't think he liked me. I put all the effort into our friendship and he had 'the power'. In the vacation we didn't talk nor hang out so I decided to erase him from my mind. Then we saw eachother at school again and now the tables are turned. He's the one putting effort into things and I'm the one with the power. I don't think I like him anymore though, I've tried so hard to forget him and I actually succeeded. Now I've got the idea he likes me and everyone tells me so. Yet I don't feel happy, not without and not with him. What do I do? I will always have feelings for him, but deep in my heart. And at the moment I'm just confused.

[smartie95]

Forget him! You said it yourself, you got over him! Why bother falling in love with him again when there's going to be many other men out there? You're young and if you truly aren't in love or crushing on him anymore it's a waste of your time! Concentrate on other things and just enjoy! :) You'll see how in no time you start meeting new people and the right one will come!

[MonsterMash]

Girls want what they can't have. You probably would have stopped liking him last year if he had showed too much (any?) interest.

[Asker]

Amen