I hate doing favors?

[Anonymous]

I never ask anyone for any favors and I mean never. So, I despise when people ask me for one. People constantly ask me for favors and I end up feeling bad for them. I don't take advantage or expect anything in return even if you offer me anything I'll say no. It somehow makes people think that we can be best buddies. Ugh no! I have no desire for you to be in my circle. We will never be friends. I actually deeply enjoy my solitude. I have a cynical mindset as well.

My question is how to say no without making people get all sensitive and vindictive?

[Invoker]

You obviously have some level of care for people, but if you value your solitude as much as you say you do, you can turn the cold shoulder and just say you aren't the one to listen or act on another persons intent or behalf.

[Anonymous]

How do you ever expect to get a boyfriend then? I know I certainly wouldn't date you

[Asker]

Lol thanks 😏

[LucyColes]

Just say sorry, but i can't do that