Why can I not dislike after being treated poorly?

[Anonymous]

So I am autistic and even as poor as I was treated in the relationship I still do friendly gestures. How is it I’m not capable of disliking after being treated like shit

[lightbulb27]

can't say if this is related to autistic, I'm not familiar with that, but anyone can fall into a behavior of staying in an abusive relationship which is related to having low self esteem.

That can occur for all sorts of reasons, being put down or abused growing up... it feels normal to be abused, and one keeps seeking out.

I'd also question your "world view" as a solution to rebuilding your self image, value, and standing up for yourself out of love. When you are coming from a place of security and love rooted in yourself, in my opinion, the way to do that is rooted in Christ, then you have strength to deal with other people whom are abusive in a loving way. As well, you have to be careful not to give too much of yourself because people will abuse you. It's a matter of standing up for yourself value.

All of this comes down to emotions, what energy you are drawing from, and how you view yourself. Having the strength to say "no", to walk away, is a good strength to have.

Some people may treat autistic (or other people... really anyone) as if they are lesser than, because they may not seem as intelligent or capable. That is immaturity.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's possible that you have a hard time disliking people because you have a strong sense of empathy. This means that you can easily put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand their point of view. As a result, you may be more likely to forgive people for their mistakes, even if they've hurt you. This is a positive trait, but it can also be difficult when someone has treated you poorly. It's important to remember that you don't owe anyone your forgiveness, and that you have the right to set boundaries with people who treat you badly. If you're struggling to let go of a relationship that was toxic, it may be helpful to talk to a therapist. They can help you process your feelings and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think my stalker is disgusting and worthless but I don’t hate her. Just like I don’t poop, I just flush it down the toilet.

[AngryCarl2]

Eh, give it time. Maybe you still have feelings for the bitch.

[Anonymous]

Because. you're a compassionate human being.