I HATE my mom, so much I dont know what to do?

[Anonymous]

my mom is a very very mean person. she never has anything nice to say to me and ahe honestly just lowers my self esteem so much but more then anything she makes me wanna punch a wall... which im not gonna do because that would hurt. my birthday was a few days ago and my friends asked what i did for my birthday, and i didn't even know what to say so i justade something up because i didn't do anything she didn't even get me a freaking cake! and we can deffinitly afford things we do have money. she just didn't get anything because she hates me. she thinks im so bad just because i get C's! at least im not shooting up herion! she hasn't taken me to get clothes in a year because she hates shopping unless its for herself. i asked her to take me to the mall today and she went only because she wanted things for herself, i wanted to go to spend my birthday money from my aunt not her she didn't have to spend shit on me i just needed the ride but she left without me without warning at because i wasn't up at 9 o'clock. thats all i asked for, for my birthday! im tired of her having nothing nice to say about me ever and calling me a retard. i really hate her and i dont know what to do when she makes me made i actually wanna strangle her but so i dont go to jail, what can i do instead? oh and by the way im 15 so i can't drive and i can't get a job because she refuses to drive me anywhere but my friends house

[Anonymous]

Wow her not getting you anything for your bday is not a big deal. I didn't get anything and I don't care. You really shouldn't hate her. You'd be said if she died. You're probably at the stage in your life when you hat her. Think about it. You didn't hate her when you were born. You didn't hater when you were 2 or 3 or 4. And my mom does the same thing to me. If I'm not up she leaves me without warning.

[Opinion Owner]

If I may ask are you white. ? Cause if you were black and I'm being completely honest don't get me wrong but if a black mother heard you say that she would beat that ass. I'm just asking sorry if you get offended.

[Mcell]

You're acting like a spoiled brat. You didn't get a birthday cake boo hoo your 15 grow up a birthday is just another day. Once you're old enough to drive you'll realize how annoying it is to be constantly carting people around. And I'm sorry but Cs are not good grades- if you want your mothers praise earn it. Realize that she's a person too and has her own life and isn't your personal chauffeur.