My roommate and her boyfriend are starting to annoy me?

[Anonymous]

Let me first start off by saying that my roommate and I get along really well when it comes to everything else, so much so that we're planning on rooming together again next year. The only (big) problem I have, is her wanting her boyfriend to come up every other weekend, and potentially every weekend this semester. So far, he came up 4 times last semseter, and once this semester (literally the first weekend we got back from winter break she had him up, even though they had spent all of break together). Here's the other thing; they're in a long distance realtionship, 9 hours away from each other, and have been together for 3 years. So, to some extent, I understand why she wants to see him so often. However, I'm not okay with the fact that she wants him to start coming up so often, potentially every weekend. We live in a small, college dorm room, so three people's a lot. Not to mention the fact that she has me leave and sleep in someone elses room the first night he's here, and then has me stay in someone elses room until 2:00am the next night, so they can have 'alone time'. It's really frustrating; I'm so incredibly tired of having to sleep on an air mattress in someone elses room, and not be able to go into my room until early in the morning. What makes me really mad though, is that she's kind of started joking about the whole thing; 'That's right *laughs*, bye ____' or 'It'll be like a giant sleepover in _______'s room!'. My friends say that I'm overreacting about it, but they've also not been sexiled nearly as many times as I have. I'm just annoyed that she's joking about it, as well as the fact that he may start coming up more often, and that she barely asks me if I'm okay with him coming up anymore. I don't want to start an argument, because I do know that she doesn't get to see him often which is hard on her, but I'm done having to sleep on someones elses floor two weekends a month. How can I handle this, with

[Cmasterson]

I feel like you posted this a bit ago, anyway you should tell her that you're happy that she is happy in her relationship however she can't expect you to always be the generous one and give up the place where you sleep in order for them to have their alone time. Also why is he always coming up and he not going to him? Tell her how you really feel but don't attack her.

[Asker]

Freshman aren't allowed to have a car on Campus at my College; and her car can't make it 200 miles without breaking down, so her having a car up here isn't an option. Hence why he is always coming here.

[Meezy96K]

i think that is a bit stupid you shouldn't be kicked out of your room she must respect you and if she wants to meet him well this earth is big enough

[Intraluminal]

Make your nweds and wants known including your frustration. Express understanding oof what she's going through. See what compromises work.