How should I calm my little brother down after a parent's alcoholic fit?

[Anonymous]

Occasionally, my mother will become wasted off her ass, and of course, act very strange. Tonight in particular was awfully alarming. She stumbled to my little brother (13 with high functioning Aspergers) and began to wrestle my grandma's cat we're watching for the week. The cat was scared shitless, growling and hissing and clawing while my mom continuously tried to force the cat to eat. As I and my little brother tried to separate the two, and con my mom into going to bed she'd begun to slur out the idea that she didn't care about herself, and that her getting her was just fine. Saying that "Only her children matter." When we kept pressing for her to go to bed, she'd then say she was coping with her back, which had been permanently damaged several years ago. This of course, stressed my little brother, and she shooed me out of the room once he started to bawl. She'd then speak to him incoherently while my brother continued to plead. She eventually went to bed, but my brother has school in the morning, and I don't want him to be stressed out. Any pointers for making him feel better after something like that?

[Anonymous]

Yeah a man can in fact I witnessed one. A year ago after school I met up at a friend's house with three friends and we were discussing boys and penis sizes and guys who are good on bed when her little skinny 14 year old brother walked in the the front door and went straight to his bedroom, then his sister revealed she had seen him jerking off one time walking past his window and that he has the biggest dick she'd ever seen, of course we didn't believe her but then she said she'd prove it and we all went to her little bros room laughing and giggling, he was lying on his bed watching tv so two girls held him down on the bed while his sister and me pulled down his trousers. His sister was right he had a big dick and we all had a good laugh about it. Then one of the girls decided to grab a hold of it to see how big we could get and she coaxed him into a hard state despite, we all had a go at wanking and sucking him off which he was upset about and we couldn't get him to cum despite our best efforts to, then one girl decided to ride him to make him cum and after two minutes of that and all of us girls around him playing with his balls and shoving our tits in his face he blew his load. I suppose in retrospect it was wrong what we did.

[Ladyslipper]

This is not good.. tell a counselor or someone about your mother's behavior. Just try to tell your little brother everything will be okay

[madhatters4]

try to explain it as your mother being temporarily sick. i think that is a good way to help make it seem like a simple temporary issue rather than what to expect is the norm

the real issue is to some how find a way to confront your mother, when she is sober. explain how much her actions scare your brother and the damage that can have. if she is able to address the issue and remedy it then her change in behavior will go a long way to help your brother recover... perhaps consult with family you trust to figure out how you guys can approach your mom

[Owl95]

Tell him that this was an accident and mom was drunk. She didn't mean anything.