Did she Low key reject me?

[Anonymous]

A friend of mine said "Okay so I think I should just give up on boys full stop ☹️😕" I said "What happened with the someone?
And no you don't have to tell me. Sorry if I sound a bit demanding to know everything and etc :)
She replied back by "😊 I can tell haha, It isn't something that's happened, it's what hasn't happened. I don't know if I've told you this, but I've never had a 'proper' relationship. I'm 19 this year and I try with people and they just don't want to be with me. I'm starting to think I'm gonna be a loner all my life to be honest and that's not even an exaggeration, that's a fact. 😕, If I ever talk to someone, that's as far as it goes. I've had one 'date' once, and it went awfully. My fault, as well. 🙁, Wasn't until I was 17 though.

The screenshot will help to show what happened, she ended up saying "thank you Nahid" 😌
I would've thought she would said more then that but I'm not bothered with that ☺💕

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Thank you everyone for replying to my question

[Anonymous]

funny how she says she can't find a guy who seems to care yet here you are right in her face. This is actually really common. Usually there is a girl, who thinks she deserves this superficial guy whether it be with looks or money when there is one guy who would go through hell and back just to be with her. after reading these texts she seems a bit ungrateful of her own company. how is she Looking for a guy who cares when one is right in her face? she is only focusing on the guys that do not find interest in her, and canceling you out as an option because you did not fit whatever standard she has. In my opinion, you should find a girl that ACTUALLY appreciates you and how much you care because this girl right here, does not deserve your love. Usually when you move on, the girl realizes the mistake she has made letting the guy that actually cares about her slip away. you are a great guy, and there aren't many like you left. You should find your self worth, as she should.

[Asker]

Thanks for taking the time to write all that, anything else you want to add?

[Asker]

Me and her are good friends. We aren't going to suddenly stop talking, we don't talk that much either and I care about her.

[Opinion Owner]

I never said stop talking to her, just dont think of her in that way as she doesn't see you in that way. Find a girl who sees you in a mutual light, thats all

[Asker]

That is difficult because I had a rough time last year with someone else. That girl took me on a emotional rollercoaster last year, i tried my best with her.

by the way it is difficult to find someone. Almost impossible

[Opinion Owner]

oh so its much more tricky I guess. you can always give the honest truth to say at least you tried. Even though that was the perfect time to tell her, its not to late BUT it honestly seems like she doesn't see you in that light although nothing is for certain until you come clean. Be prepared if she rejects you but at least you got closure.

[Asker]

I'll see how things go with Lauren, she's probably the only girl in England who can put up wit me 😂

I should stop talking about her in the reference of the more you talk about someone, the more you sound in love with them 😅🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

Can you explain what you meant by "at least you got closure" and in the first paragraph in the top "find your self worth"

What you meant by them?

[Opinion Owner]

at least you got Closure as in, if you do ask her at least you find out the truth. would you rather know that she likes you? also finding your worth. If someone does not like you, you make them see you in that light. Its up to them. she may not just appreciate you in that manner. Looking everywhere but right in front of her. MAYBE, she thinks that YOU dont like her in that manner too? Maybe she is telling you something? it can literally be any possibility. tell me how it works out. good luck

[Asker]

Okay cheers

[Opinion Owner]

any update?

[Asker]

No no

[Opinion Owner]

alright lol

[Opinion Owner]

how did it go?

[Asker]

Why do you want to know?

[Asker]

A serious question

[Opinion Owner]

because I am hoping the best came out of this

[Asker]

We are still friends and still know each other

[JamesBoradil03]

sorry man you've been friendzoned. can i get a rip in the chat?

[menina]

Yes, it seems to me that she rejected you. She only sees you as a friend.
If she didn't, she would say that she would like to be your wife. Instead of saying that it will be another girl.

[Asker]

i think she is the only girl in the world who would say that sentence:') 😂

If she wants me as a friend then that is okay because i got her back, yes i Live four hours away and i don't know how to drive a car but hopefully i learn to drive soon 😊
i am not going to leave her because i enjoy talking with her :)

Are you surprised by what i said to her?😅
I hope I wasn't difficult to her when I said all of this 🙈😕😔

[menina]

No, I'm not surprised by what you told her. You like her, so it's normal for you to say these things.

[menina]

Thanks for the MHO. :)

[Asker]

No worries:)
You're welcome

[Kitten967]

Sounds like she only sees you as a friend so yeah I'd say she rejected you. Tbh though if you like her you should tell her. You had the opportunity

[Asker]

Is there anything I should tell her about her this?

[Asker]

Hello?

[Kitten967]

Just tell her how you feel, or ask her if you could be more than friendship

[Kitten967]

Friends* my phone auto corrected

[Asker]

Ok then

[chickentiikaa]

yep you did. she wouldn't have said your wife will be lucky to call you her husband. no girl that fancies a guy would say that

[Asker]

And you know this how?

[chickentiikaa]

@asker uhh because i have a vagina

[Anonymous]

Hold her head and fuck her throat without any mercy nonstop

[EvilAngel114]

Can we get the cliff notes version?

[Asker]

What?

[skinnyguy]

You are friendzoned, beta guy.

[Asker]

Ok and yeah we are friends

[skinnyguy]

Sorry, but you should have been more assertive. I made such a mistake once. You should cease contacts with her if you want to get her.

[Asker]

Explain?

[skinnyguy]

If you cease contacts with her there's a chance she'll understand her mistake and start liking you that way.

[Bobbyhill1]

asker this is the same thing I was explaining to you. When you go and find a girl who actually cares for you she realizes overtime how she rejected that one guy who was actually there for her. you need to move on which sounds hard.

[Asker]

So it was who replied anonymously

[Bobbyhill1]

yeeep

[Asker]

Anything else either you two want to add?

[Anonymous]

Nahid