Guys, if you love your girlfriend, why would you trash talk her?

[hesaysim2sexy]

to another girl you consider someone who's "perfect" for you?

[Seraphine]

I think crrazaylove just about summed it up perfectly.

I've had this happen to me before -- I was in love with a boy, and he was in love with me. We both knew it somehow, but we never got around to confessing to eachother.

Somehow, he got mad at me. Jealous, because I have friends that are boys and I used to talk to them a lot. He wanted me, but at the same time he was trying to forget me because he felt that I wasn't reciprocating.

Hey girl, boys are confusing. Who knows why they do the sh*t they do.

But sometimes it has an inner meaning -- boys aren't emotional and aren't honest about their feelings if they're p*ssed off, or, again, quoting crrazaylove, "Feeling like sh*t."

I think you shouldn't give up on him. Not yet. Try to make up and see his reactions.

If he truly loves you, he'll forgive you. If not...well, then, you're a gorgeous girl and I'm sure you'll find someone better.

[hesaysim2sexy]

He ain't my bf. he wished tho even if he has a gf. me and him are bffs like he calls it but not to me. he was just a normal friend. all he does is whine about her and other people. anyways he wanted me so bad then one day he stopped and just wrote me an email saying hey I feel like I'm cheating on my girlfriend so I gotta stop talking to u. it made me feel like I'm the one pursuing him wtf.

[Seraphine]

No, you shouldn't feel that way, because you WEREN'T the one who was chasing him, and he knows it. Maybe in desperate attempt to keep their relationship in check, he decided not to talk to you anymore. You could have popped up in their conversation once or twice, maybe the chick and him discussed you and she said something that made him consider not talking to you anymore. (i.e. threatening to break up, etc.)

[hesaysim2sexy]

He has no loyalty. anyways I am cutting ties with him. I don't need the drama. tnx anyways because you are right

[Seraphine]

Well alright then. I hope all works out for you. And no problem, I was glad to have been of help. :)

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea its a waste of my precious time just talking about him. why am I even bringin him up lol tnx

[Anonymous]

not a guy,but that just shows he had no repsect for

you or ya's prblems,He shbould not be out putting out ya's buisness like that.

Speacialy to another female llike that.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea I really think its rude and 2 faced. I felt sorry for his girlfriend when I met her last sat... because if things don't go well between him and me too, I bet he'll do the same sh|t with me. ;P he not only trashtalk about her but my man as well. he said, I'm too good for my man.

[crrazaylove]

I've seen this alot. A lot of times a guy will put down a girl they love is because of jealousy. He feels like sh*t he's gonna make her feel like sh*t.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Jealousy? he said she's going stale whatever thta means

[crrazaylove]

She isn't no fun anymore, the spark went out.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea but he's been with her for forever yet he won't break up with her

[crrazaylove]

He is to scared to let her go, he wants her but he dont.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Just last weekend, she gave me attitude. I didn't do nothing to her well except her boyfriend talks about me a lot to her. not ma fault

[crrazaylove]

Then don't trip about it lol. Maybe he's tryting to get her to break up with him.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Lol. I guess. her bf's like my bestie and he even told her one day he's going to leave her for me. I told him that's rude.

[crrazaylove]

Well just sit back and wait til it happens.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Well I don't want them both and my life anymore. I don't need too much drama

[crrazaylove]

Then ask the dude what he wants, if he wants you then he needs to leave her. If he wants her then he needs to stop saying he wants you. And if he don't know what he wants I'd let it be and I wouldn't deal with it anymore. Don't ya just hate love triangles? Lol

[hesaysim2sexy]

I h8 h8 it. lol. I'm always involve in it

[crrazaylove]

Lol me too girl. And its always that I like a dude and my friends are always trying to get with him. It p*sses me off haha.

[hesaysim2sexy]

They're fun but annoying..sometimes heartbreaking

[crrazaylove]

Right on chickk :)

[dinkleberg]

I don't think it has anything to do with pecker size... but people seem to trash talk about their lover if some fights go un-resolved the person vents by talking bad about their boyfriend/girlfriend negatively, even if they don't mean it.

[hesaysim2sexy]

He told me so many times I am way better than her and he wants me to be his.. that's so low

[dinkleberg]

It may be true but if he still has negative feelings about stuff that happened in your relationship then he will vent about it some way

[hesaysim2sexy]

I KNOW..cant trust him

[dinkleberg]

Im sorry it ended up like this

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yeah I feel bad that I had to stop talking to him... things arents just the same... anymore.

[jevaunit1]

a man that talks serious trash about the woman in his life has a small penis...plan and simple...

[hesaysim2sexy]

LMAO. it was small but thick.

[jevaunit1]

Like every thing in life balance is key, think about it ;)

[Anonymous]

Someone who does that doesn't love their girlfriend

[hesaysim2sexy]

He said he does. I doubt it too. theyve been together for too long and he said he was gonn adump her anytime soon

[RED-LIGHT]

No one's "perfect" for anyone but it depends on why he's trash talking, if it's because my girl is sleazy & scandolous then yeah I would probably would loose respect for her on many levels, but I'd still have to say the talking trash is unecessary

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea but why still be with her if she's worth your trash talk?

[chiefnavarro]

maybe

[hesaysim2sexy]

Maybe? what gives

[chiefnavarro]

Like if I found out she f*** ed other guys while weren't an official couple. or lied to me about her past. I would still love her just respect her less. sh*t talking is a lot easier the breaking up. but I would break up

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea but this dude just made me loss all my respect for he talks about everybody else. even my man.