FWB deleted me from his FB friends?

[GIEGIE]

I know him for 5+ years we have some mutual friends together. I think he found out that he was not the only one I was seeing. But why de-friend me on FB when he was also seeing someone else. Oh yeah...I'm totally better looking than all his other girl friends by far. I would have not mind us just being friends. I think he also found out that my Mississippi Luv'r was coming in to town and days later that's when he defriended me. Why act that way?

[caili]

erm maybe he doesn't like you anymore?

seriously - a)you cheated on the guy - so regardless of what he did to you, you have dented his ego.

b) he's seeing someone else- he doesn't need /.want an ex girlfriend ( especially a cheating one) watching his very move on Facebook

c) whatever relationship you had is over - what's left? you don't date and obviously can't trust each other as you have both cheated

If it helps to feel superior to his current girl(s) and to believe that he's jealous of your current lover - fine you go girl - but face facts you guys are "ex" now and for most people that means you ain't freinds either :(

[selfishstars]

I don't see anywhere where she says anyone cheated. They weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, they were friends with benefits, which typically isn't a monogamous relationship unless the people involved agree that they won't date or sleep with other people, which I'm assuming they didn't.

[caili]

I'm sorry I don't see where she says they were Friends with Benefits - she uses FB to mean Facebook -

" I think he found out that he was not the only one I was seeing. But why de friend me on FB when he was also seeing someone else."

It reads to me as though they were both seeing other people but not as part of an open style NSA relationship

[GIEGIE]

FWB: Friends with Benifits, exactly what selfishstars said. FB: Facebook. What selfishstar is all the correct.

[l-hedoniste]

My guess is that his girl is one or more of the following:

-a snooper

-freaking out about you

-ordering him to de-friend you

It's worth asking which.

[GIEGIE]

Mmmm...maybe but his status shows single still. So if he has a girl he should of made him change his status from single to in a relationship.

[archn]

You sound kinda cocky... I'm not sure if that has something to do with it...

[GIEGIE]

Cocky wow no one has ever told me that. I will take it as a compliment...thanks. I'm

self-assured of my self not an aggressively self-assured. I am a respectful person and I treat everyone with that same respect...even if you are my FWB. Not once have I ever told him I was better looking than his girl...all his other buddies did thou.