What's so great about having a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Here's some back round information about me.

I'm 19. Never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl for that matter.

Right now I don't really want a girlfriend. I just want to focus on school because if I did have a girlfriend I would feel bad that I wouldn't really be paying her much attention because school's important to me. I also don't party or do any drugs for religious reasons and personal reasons. Girl's have liked me in the past but I didn't like them so that was that and vice versa.

Now for the actual question, Why do all my friends always ask me You got a girlfriend yet?

If I want a girlfriend I will get one and I am totally capable of getting one myself. Why do they keep asking me?

Updates

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sorry about the title lol

It should be great about having a girlfriend

[toulouse]

Right now I don't really want a girlfriend. I just want to focus on school because if I did have a girlfriend I would feel bad that I wouldn't really be paying her much attention because school's important to me. I also don't party or do any drugs for religious reasons and personal reasons. Girl's have liked me in the past but I didn't like them so that was that and vice versa.

I'M EXACTLY THE SAME WAY...EXCEPT I'M A GIRL SO T WOULD BE BOYFRIEND...oh sorry for the caps lol anyways yeas I'm like that- & I don't think there is anything great about a boyfriend or boyfriend ...but , sometimes there is a really great boy or girl who happen to be dating material./.

but generally I mean if you wanted a girlfriend , you could have one just not spend tons of time with her I mean how much time are you supposed to spend anyways?...just agree on a little amount-- how much time do you think you are supposed to spend- for real I'm curious.

[Asker]

I don't know

its depends who you ask

I think communicating everyday is cool and then hanging out like twice or once a week?

[toulouse]

Well you thin you can't keep up with that?

because if I'm really bust I could communicate once or twice & hang out once a month - I'd be fine with that....

what do you think ?- not for me lol just in general*

[Asker]

No I mean if you don't communicate at least once a day its like just a friendship or less than that It also depends on the couples schedule as well. Hanging out too much isn't good cause my wallet can't handle that lol I wouldn't want her to pay for me or pay for her self you know?

I think hanging out/dating one a month is not right. Like you two ar going out. there should be more meeting up cause if a girl said to me I wanna hang out every month the next month I would be like hello stranger/gf?lol

[toulouse]

Lol well first of all I don't go on dates so if I was seeing a guy then money would not be an issue if w met everyday - I study with guys if I like them &we talk after*

&uhh I do talk to guys everyday that I'm ont dating - there is a guy that I like& we talk everday & he likes talking to me & e make sure we dobut we are not giong out & ummm well its the quality not the quantity but anywaysi thought you said you were too busy to c her too much

u mean if a girl offered once -month you would not do it?

[Asker]

It sound like ur mad at me but ok

and yea you ask me for my opinion in general

and if a girl said once a month I would push for some more

[toulouse]

No ! lol why does it sound like I'm mad at you lol

no not at all... Sorry. I am not sure why you think so, but I def am not.

So you do not worry about having to neglect her per se but you worry about having to not have a quality relationship?

[justsomeperson]

I was like you for a while, cept for the religious part...but I met a nice girl an went out

you start doing stupid things, you spend alotta money, and you don't have as much time for other things.

overall, it's worth it. if you find the right person... be open to new things, and don't pay attention to people askin you about it... sounds like they just buggin you

[Littletad]

For some of us, our life just seems more complete when were paired with someone else. Or at least, everything else just seems so much better. A simple dinner seems ten times better than having one alone. And the list goes on.

[meskone]

Having a girlfriend in general isn't that great, falling in love is amazing. You always have someone to talk to, someone to get feelings out with, someone to give you back massages when you're sore (^-^) someone to please you sexually and will fulfill your desires, someone whose hand you can hold and go anywhere with, someone you can kiss and makeout and create moments you'll remember for your entire life.

You don't know what you're missing out on.

[toulouse]

"Having a girlfriend in general isn't that great, falling in love is amazing."

EXACTLY - bingo - this is the best answer - ever lol well put*

[Houssam]

ignore them... I'm almost 17 and have the same story :D although I do party lol and go out all the time.. But I am catching but pretty well dude.. I have graduated valedictorian of my class , got my name in the honour list and I AM HAPPY XD

[thealpha]

ha ha they are just bugging u...

dont pay attentn to them...

[socalgamehater2006]

I don't know because I've never had one, I would like to have one but I can't get one

[socalgamehater2006]

what do you mean that girls have liked you in the past? how were you able to tell if they liked you?

[Anonymous]

I agree with ur philosophy but your friends do not believe Because a guy of such a age should have one.