How to ask a guy to hang out without it sounding like a date?

[Anonymous]

well I like this guy (as a friend only) and I would love to hang out with him outside of school. But he's the type of guy who flirts a lot with girls (player) so he might think I'm asking him out on a date or something 😂

[AaronTupaz]

How about you don't play games and give him the wrong impression just tell him why you want to hang out? And assure him it's just as a friend.

[Asker]

what do you mean play games 🤔

[AaronTupaz]

I'm guessing you're afraid if you told him to just hang out with you merely as a friend you might lose him. Otherwise, I see no reason why you would ask advice on this.

[Asker]

no I'm just scared he might think I like him and that would just be awkward af XD

[AaronTupaz]

Well if you tell him directly and explain your situation, then there's no reason what so ever he'll think you like him XD

[Asker]

Kay ty I guess 😂

[realperson02]

how about not asking him since you have already judged him as a player?

[Asker]

he says so himself tho "I like playing around with girls"

[realperson02]

well then suggest any place or activity where you two aren't alone.

[Asker]

Okay ty

[Superchick1234]

I suggest that you ask him if he'd like to go out in a group, with your friends around.

[Asker]

I don't have many other friends except him. I usually ask him what he's doing after school and just follow along until he has to go home. But now when it's summer break I have to ask him to hang out instead of just following him (sounds so creepy)

[Superchick1234]

Well maybe give him your number.

[Asker]

I have his number since way back but I don't know if he has mine 🤔

[Superchick1234]

Then just text him.

[lajanz]

9/10 he wants to fuck you and dont care about friendship

[Asker]

I don't think that's the case. We're just friends and that's all. But asking a guy if he wanna hang out feels strange xD

[lajanz]

From my experience a true guy girl friendship is very very rare and often the guy is just friendzoned by the girl.
But to answer your question just ask him and tell him you intention

[Asker]

he's 10x more popular than me and that's why he gets a lot of girls. So I don't think know he has any interest in me anyway. I'm just scared it might seem as I like him if I ask him to hang out sometime

[WeirdoWerdo]

I'm not a flirty guy but I wouldn't anything a date untill they state it as a date them self.

[Asker]

ye but some people are different. Thank you anyway

[PDRR1]

just say you want to hang if he flirts with you don't flirt back or make him feel like he's your brother

[dannymexico90]

Say hey BRO let's hang out

[KhoryESM]

Lol, just explain it in detail

[Asker]

How? saying "let's hang out as friends" sounds so awkward XD

[KhoryESM]

Awkward but it'll work I mean I say " hey let's hang out" all the time

[Asker]

Okay thank you