Boyfriend wants to hang out with former FWB?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend recently asked me if it was okay with me if he were to hang out with his former friends with benefits. We have had this conversation before and I told him that he knows already where I stand on the subject. He continued on telling me this huge sob-story about her life and couldn't understand why girls judge others girls so much about relationships. I told him that the only reason I was judging is because I am just not comfortable with this girl being around my boyfriend o much and that if he were to go out with her, I would be very upset.

My question is, am I right to feel upset? I told him that I am not comfortable with this, however, I would not "ban" him from seeing people . I'm just not too sure what to do about this situation right now.Help/!

Updates

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it may important to add that she recently started dating someone...

[TheDarkNoodle]

You have a right to feel upset...Buuuut really you have to trust him for your relationship to work and for him to trust you. If he does something wrong punish him then but don't stifle him or appear to cling, even if he doesn't cheat he will probably go off you if you "ban" him from people.

Hope all goes well, try not to worry to much :)

[wondermist]

I think you have the right to feel upset. It's unnerving to have someone who was so intimate with them before to always be hovering around your significant other.

I would wonder why he wants to be with her so much and if she really doesn't have other people to support her...

[lovefaithful]

I think if he is just seeing her as a friend, that's fine

plus you say she is seeing someone else... she may just want the friendship to continue

[Anonymous]

I think you have the right. Its not as though they were even friends before. Their relationship was purely sexual. I would stick to what you said. Don't trust girls with your boyfriend, they are skanks :/