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Girls, would you let a close guy friend sit on your lap if there were no more chairs left, explain? (Page 2)
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Absolutely not.
There's no guy friend of mine that would ask to sit on my lap, I weigh 102lbs a guy sitting on my lap would look like a joke.
If there were a situation with one chair and the two of us if anything I'd sit on their lap.
Yes I do that all the time with my best guy friends
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Is it common in the Netherlands for guys to sit on girls laps?
I don’t think it’s common. I usually just tell them hey you can sit on my lap and they’ll laugh and sit down🤷🏼♀️ I act the same way with my female friends. And yes the guys also randomly sit on my lap without asking it. I usually don’t wrap my arms around them but sometimes i do
I see also your answers are helping me a lot by the way I am doing a project for social interactions so I need as much of your opinions as possible
I hope you don't mind me asking questions and you are really pretty by the way :)
what situations or places will your guy friends sit on your lap usually and when will you offer?
do your male friends or female friends sit on your lap more often?
Also which guy friends sits on you the most what is his name?
Do you have any specific situations and experiences in mind and how did it come about?
Will the guy friends that sit on your lap sit on the lap of other female friends also?
Haha no problem and thanks!
Usually it’ll be during the break at school, or when we are at home.
I think my female friends sit on my lap more often
I honestly have no idea which one of them does it the most
No
No, I don’t think they have other close female friends
wait so why do you allow your guy friends to sit on your lap?
Why will it occur during break at school at home? Will there be seats left or no ussually
When your guy friends do sit on your lap what are the reasons usually same reasons as your girl-friends? And will you usually ask them to sit or no?
Will your guy friends sit on your lap in a group setting?
If they sat on your lap without asking what would you do? Are your friends allowed to sit on you without asking?
Are your friends no matter what gender allowed to sit on your lap if need be or if there are no chairs left?
Also aren't your guy friends heavy how do you handle their weight?
I have very strong legs haha
ok I see haha
wait so why do you allow your guy friends to sit on your lap?
Why will it occur during break at school at home? Will there be seats left or no ussually
When your guy friends do sit on your lap what are the reasons usually same reasons as your girl-friends? And will you usually ask them to sit or no?
Will your guy friends sit on your lap in a group setting?
If they sat on your lap without asking what would you do? Are your friends allowed to sit on you without asking?
Are your friends no matter what gender allowed to sit on your lap if need be or if there are no chairs left?
Yes I’m okay with people sitting on my lap. At school it is usually because all the seats are taken and at home it is because it’s cosy. Yes they do it in a group setting. Yes they can sit without asking idc.
so if its at home and you said for coziness how does it help get cozy. I don't really understand that? If a friend sat on your lap at home who would be cozy?
also so just to clarify if you were in a social setting and a guy friend sat on your lap what would you do? Would you find it weird or not and why (home or school)?
Are you the the of person that would offer to a friend right away if you saw them standing or no?
Janna I just need some help from you with these questions because I'm doing a social interactions project I know its a lot haha but bare with me :)
I don’t know we just have a touchy deelt type of friendship (non-sexual)
I already answered that question, i’m fine with people on my lap I don’t care what others think about it
I don’t offer, they just do it
so you are very touchy feely with your guy friends too?
Why don't you care what people think? Would you judge the guy friend for wanting to sit on your lap or for sitting there?
Are your guy friends allowed to sit on your lap whenever there are no chairs or in situations of need?
My question is why do you let guy friends sit on your lap? Should they be allowed to sit on your lap just like your female friends do?
Why are they allowed to sit on you without your permission?
does all of this apply to your guy and girl-friends?
is that just the relationship you want with your friends like I don't understand why are your friends especially your guy friends allowed to sit on your lap without your permission?
You are asking a lot of double questions...
I don’t care what people think because that is in my nature
I think people should stop acting weird about guys and girls touchant eachother as friends
Yes of course I'd let my close guy friend sit on my lap as he is my best friend.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Well I I saw him standing I'd offer him my seat but if he said no.. you sit down I would then offer him my lap and yeah I'd wrap my arms around his waist if he was okay with it.
He could sit on my lap with out asking if he wanted to.
And if my close girl wanted to sit on my lap she could if she wanted to and it would be no different then having my guy friend sit on my lap.
@sarah302 ^
what would you say to him if you were offering your lap?
what if he asked to sit on your lap what would you tell him then?
Also why would you wrap your arms around his waist what does that do or show?
also why can he sit on your lap without asking you?
"And if my close girl wanted to sit on my lap she could if she wanted to" does this apply to your close guy friend to explain
(also I like your answers but long answers will help me so please try to say a lot in your answers
with the realtionship I have with my guy best friend he knows what he can and can't do with out me even telling him so he basically doesn't need to ask me anything.
I would wrap my arms around his waist to make sure he doesn't fall off and since we have been friends for almost 15 years we hug each other when we see each other so it wouldn't be to awkward.
And I don't have many female friends Hince why I replied "And if my close girl wanted to sit on my lap she could if she wanted to and it would be no different then having my guy friend sit on my lap."
I'd offer him my seat instead cos I doubt I can actually support all his weight. It'd also be a little awkward considering my close guy friend is much taller. But generally, I don't think there's much of a problem in doing that.
I wouldn't offer him to seat on my lap just because there are no more chairs. That's just weird to me. On the other hand, I think it would be really funny but I would probably feel awkward after 5 minutes.
I answered a question similar to this a few days ago. Yes, I'd allow them to sit on my lap. Yes I'd offer first. No I wouldn't think he was weird or gay for doing so.
would you really offer first and why would you offer first and not let them stand or sit on someone else's lap?
Yes I would, because they're MY friend and it's just a lap. It's not a huge deal
No.
A) My friends are dirty minded lol.
B) All the guys I know are bigger and heavier than me so they'd probably break my legs😂
if it was a girl-friend what it be different?
It depends.
why?
If they're like 7 inches taller than me and weigh way more than I do there's no way I can hold their weight😂
Nah, wouldn’t mind. I have few guy friends, but my closest girl friends do it ALL the time.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
why do you girl-friends do it all the time and in what situations? Do you usually offer your lapor do they sit on you without asking first and if so what do you tell them? Do you wrap your arms around your girl-friends waist when they sit on your lap and why?
Are the girls that do this with you larger or smaller than you and do you sit on them as well?
I am doing a social interactions project so thank you for answering the more you comment is better so thank you :)
1) yeah I’d offer, don’t know what id say though, depends on the person
2) sure he could, as long as we were good friends
3) my friends just kind of sit on my lap randomly, open seats or not. And yep they wrap their arms around me too. I don’t mind though. I've known all of them for a while.
4) All of my friends are larger than me, and no, I don’t sit on their lap
Thats supposed to be a 3 not a 3) lol
oh I said do you wrap your arms around their waist when they sit on your lap and why?
Whey you say it depends on the offer what do you mean? what are some stuff you would say?
why do they sit on your lap even though they are all bigger how come you don't sit on theirs?
No I’m awkward sometimes
I don’t know what I’d say.
Aaand I’m uncomfortable with my weight so I’d rather not sit on other people
so if a guy friend asked to sit on your lap what would you say?
If they were close to me id just be like “yeah... uh... sure?”
also if you were in another situation and a close guy friend sat on your lap without asking you what would you do? Would you find it awkward or weird or no? Would you tell him to get off? explain?
I’d find it awkward, but I wouldn’t care too much. I wouldn’t really say anything other than laughing uncomfortably
but you let close girl-friends do the same (and it isn't awkward then? So how is it awkward if a close guyfriend does it?
If my friendship with him is that strong then I would rather get up offer him the chair and sit on his lap.
Same 😅😂
Well I don't mind letting him sit on my lap and I don't think that he's gay because he did that
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
How and why is it funny and cute to you?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I don't see a difference between a guy or a girl sitting on my lap, how many times guys or girls sat on laps. Just take it like a fun move
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I'd let him sit on my lap would not think its weird
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I'd let him sit on my lap🤷♂️, or share the chair with me
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Nah, I don't like anyone sitting on my lap, not even women. Close friends or not, but I like my empty lap. lol
No, he's not gay. He needs a seat. But why would he be sitting on my lap? It'd be the other way around. I'm lighter than him.
I'd surely not let him sit on my lap nor offer, if he ask I'd still refuse, but I'd offer he sit down on my sit and maybe me in his lap😄
Depends on whose the guy. But probably not because there is no one right now
I've never heard anything like this before to be honest. I wouldn't, because it isn't appropriate.
Gosh the things young people worry about.
It doesn't mean anything if he sits on your lap.
Sure, if he wasn't too heavy😀 why would he be gay for this, are you a dude?
no I'm not haha
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
This is hard to answer, because all my guy friends are gay😀 The rest I keep at distance, because i had bad experience with them thinking I want more😁 So I guess I'd offer to all, but would only hug the gays haha I guess the same goes for girl friends, because they can't take it the wrong way. Guys are weird sometimes... i think they'd always try something.
what would you say when you would offer? Have your gay friends sat on your lap before?
Just sit on me😀
And yes, a straight guy has sat on me once.😀
when your gay friends have sat on your lap would you hug them?
Probably not.. i am not a big hugger.:D
Only if he wants to then yh probably
No I wouldn't offer first cos I don't think about it but he just can ask me and I would let him
Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
No it wouldn't be different and it depends if the other perosn wants that or not, like idm
No why shall I do that? I'll go up and let him sit and I'll sit on his lap 😂😂or I might stand up
I'd probably let him sit on the chair and I'd sit on his lap.
I wouldn't mind it and I wouldn't think he's gay.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I'd offer yes. I don't know how I'd ask and I don't know if I'd put my hands around him, but he can't sit without asking, that's rude. And it wouldn't be different with a girl, just because there's no sense there to be any difference
Only if I'm interested in fucking him.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
would it be funny and cute if it was a girlfriend sitting on your lap instead?
Yeah again its all about whether or not I'd be willing to fuck that friend. And wrapping my arms probably haha depends how awkward they act about it. I'd probably sooner offer them my chair and sit on them cuz I'm tiny and my friends all are wayy taller and heavier than I am.
so if you were interested in fucking him and you were in a situation where you could not switch/get out of your chair what would you do?
What if he didn't act awkward about it?
I would let him I mean it's not much of a big deal
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I'd find it weird since it's usually the other way around :)
I guess so. Kids will be kids, right. Lol
what do you mean kids will be kids?
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
You're 15, right? Lots of kids your age do that stuff. I wouldn't do that. I'm a little too old for that stuff, but being younger you can get away with sitting on laps stuff. So no, to the other questions.
Yeah if he's not too fat and doesn't like me.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I let people sit on my lap all of the time.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
why do you let people sit on your lap all the time?
He could sit on my lap without asking. It wouldn't change if he was a girl. I let people sit on my lap because I don't really care.
I do it all the time. No problem with it!
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
How and why is it funny and cute to you?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?