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Do you think animals are better than humans? If they say yes it means they have no social skills or understand how the world works and they blame others for their misery. And usually people don't lie about this, cus they can never know what is the right answer.
What are the things that you recently like to talk about the most? If they say "I don't know" they don't have a soul. If they name one thing they are usually artists. If they name a few things they are most likely to be nerds. If they name lot of things that's where things start being unpredictable and interesting.
In early stage of getting to know someone I think that the most important question if they're worthy of the time.
I dunno, I think there's a lot you can infer. If it's something airy, like love, I'd expect them to be more emotional and compassionate. If it's some expletive, I'd expect them to be bold, and fun.
What is your basis for morality, and why?
Dunno if that counts as one or two, but the why is more important than the what. That would probably be more useful with a ton of follow-up questions and scenarios, but I feel like it gives a lot of insight to how someone thinks.
I would say: If you want to know important information about someone, don't ask questions about it. That is likely to make them feel uncomfortable, and they are likely either not to answer you, or lie and give you a false answer. Just engage in casual conversation with them, and then tell them personal information about yourself. After a while they are very likely to reveal personal information about themselves.
The question is āwhat two questions would you ask to get the most information about who a person truly is?ā
If a person has no idea what makes them happy in life or what they value the most, very likely he or she has not real purpose, no real ambitions. Thatās all I have to know. š
Like I said, those are the only things I would ask to get the most information about who a person TRULY is. If I was interested in knowing about their financial state, then I would ask that.
Your view is kinda sad to me. As an adult if Iām not happy and passionate about the things I do, I just donāt bother. You can make money and pay your bills doing things that make you happy and that youāre passionate about. Thatās just the way I think and feel about it.
Well, I have to admit, sometimes I do second guess whether I actually want to show up to my job on a particular day. But I just push ahead and barrel through and keep going. Because I know that's what needs to be done to be successful. And yes, it's sad, but there are TONS of people in the world with blue-collar jobs who live this very existence every single day of their lives. I think for people like me the thing we have to look forward to is going home after work to a wife who loves us and a family that depends on us. I don't have either of those yet, which is why I kind of feel lost and empty at the moment, but I trust that one day I will, and I am looking forward to that day.
Your point is clear and understandable and I can see why my questions donāt seem to relate much with you as well. I think it all depends on the way you want to perceive life and the things you do. Im not married and I also work everyday, but I do find the joy and purpose on the things I do by choice. Iām thinking that perhaps you might need to find the purpose in what you do at work. āŗļø
Thanks. I know the purpose of what I do at work. It's just not that important in the grand scheme of things. But what you said IS good advice psychologically; people in menial jobs should use their imagination to think up ways that what they do is important.
Yes! For some people they find purpose in working everyday because they have a family to feed, others because they really love what they do, and some because they believe that their work makes a difference in the world. At the end of the day, people do things that fulfills them or their purpose. š
I'm going to assume this is strictly on a platonic level based on how you worded the question and the fact that it's on the family and friends section...
1. Do you have any spiritual beliefs? Why or why not? If so what are they? I know it seems like 3 questions... but realistically this topic will have follow up questions to expound on the answer before.
2. What are your 5 best and 5 worst characteristics.
Thereās nothing wrong with this. Character is how you act when you think no one is watching.
What kind of answers do you think youāre going to get when you ask? You think the people that are walking dumpster fires are gonna say, āhey, Iām a walking dumpster fire!ā
No ofc they arenāt so sure ask questions all you want but judge on actual behavior.
I would start a conversation and make the topic about them then just silently listen. People tend to reveal more Information if you just listen and don't interrupt.
I want to know about their outlook , but you canāt just ask this bc people will always try to give the ācorrectā answers or may even believe they have a certain view but it wonāt reflect their actual behavior... Whereas a person might think its cute if they had bullied as a kid or that it cool to make fun of affection... this gives me a lot of info as to where they stand on violence aggression compassion humility and Social responsibility.. gives an indication as to also if they are going to act like a cunt in a relationship.
Two questions though, youāre really making it hard š
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