If you could only have ONE of these two in life WHICH WOULD IT BE: kids or pets?

[DizzyDesii]

Im not a fan of pets, so easy one for me 🤷‍♀️ Kids for this baby crazy lady. But what about you? What do you choose
#FeelFreeToList #BabyFever #PetLovers

Hard choice, but i chose kids

Hard choice but i chose pets

Easy choice, i chose kids

Easy choice, i chose pets

I dont want either

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+1 y

The polls are EXACTLY what i expected 🤣

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+1 y

Ok nooow the polls are making sense cause yesterday they had me like GOOD LAWD HELP US ALLLL 😂🤷‍♀️🤣 what can i say, im biased on this one

[hellacray]

Babies for me pets are great, but they're basically a sunk cost.

Babies on the other hand grow up and can help out around the house. And who knows if your baby turns into some kinda genius and make millions.

Well as the parent, if you played your cards right no doubt you will see some of that moolah.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao 👍🤣👍

[LEADFOOTboi]

i choose kids... i decided in my last relationship that i don't need a dog... she had a dog/cat allergy... living with a wonderful woman and maybe a kid or two... much better option

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes are you heaven sent 🤤

[LEADFOOTboi]

weird thing was... she insisted that she wanted a dog... argument insued XD

[DizzyDesii]

I think she knew how bad u wanted it and wanted to see u happy

[LEADFOOTboi]

no... i said i don't want it that bad... i'd rather have her not miserable in her own house later

[DizzyDesii]

Thats sweet. My ex didn't give a dang. He still wanted the dog

[LEADFOOTboi]

well, you gotta be considerate of... the other persons wants and... physical ALLERGYS, they say they can use some over the counter stuff to combat this... but id rather not have her on these pills more than ya need to... they may have horrible and lasting side effects over time

[DizzyDesii]

Thats very considerate of you :)

[LEADFOOTboi]

Desi... i'm touched... you chose my opinion as an MHO? thankyou

[DizzyDesii]

It was good :)

[Cynicaldreamer]

No question: pets. Specifically dogs. I can tolerate pets WAY more than kids! Less stress, less drama, they're loyal and will always love you.

Want to go on a vacation? They can be boarded, or a neighbor can watch them. Kids? Not as easy.

Not to mention kids are a financial burden! Do the math: it is much easier and cheaper to raise a pet from birth to adulthood, than a child.

[DizzyDesii]

Prob true but i want something that came from my roots and something that can talk back when i talk to it (or at least speak my language). And i dont like to be licked or rubbed against unless im having sex 🤷‍♀️

[aicarg]

With my line of work if I wished to constantly remain busy and more career focused, I'd say pets. Weighing out the two, in the long haul I know I'd crave being able to emotionally connect and share affection with a mini me and know I can potentially aid in moulding an amazing human being. So probably, kids.

[DizzyDesii]

AWW beautiful to read

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Easy choice, I choose pets. I'm a huge animal lover, but not really big on kids. I don't actively hate or dislike them or anything, but they wear me out and can be annoying (sorry, but it's true, and even more so with rowdy and poorly behaved kids). They're fine for about an hour, but then I'm ready to go home and have some peace and quiet.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i understand

[mineorypurs]

Post pandemic, if we live, I would want both. But since I can only have one I gotta choose pets. Reason is simple: As human nature drives the need for both of these, if I only have kids, it's not ok to treat them like pets and it would happen. Example: Hey son, go fetch me that. Hey daughter, entertain me. Hey kids, sit, stand, come here, go there, do this, do that, now roll over and show all my friends how well I've trained you. But you can have pets and treat like your kids and they love that.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao everyones been treated like a pet in the real world. Especially at work

[Mahir_G]

Puppers and doggos make you happy and elevate your soul.
Kids on the other hand...😑 Not so much. Hahaha.

Always wanted a dog. It would be great if could get a hand on one before i get a child.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea opposite for me

[Mahir_G]

Hehe. Hope that's not a turn down tho 😢😂😂❤️😌. Respect your choice man.

[DizzyDesii]

Ultimate dealbreaker

[Anonymous]

My kids are my absolute best friends!!! You won't find me poor, alone, or in any nursing home. As much as I love pets, making this a hard choice, I would not trade my buddies for anything! Also, kids live so much longer and can do anything with you. I can't stand watching my furbabies die when they get old, and I can't take them on all of my adventures or share all of my food.

[DizzyDesii]

Aww this was a good point tho

[Lliam]

I'd rather have a cat. Dogs are almost as high maintenance as kids.

[DizzyDesii]

I can't stand how touchy cats are. They rub all up on ya

[OlderAndWiser]

Reminds me of a woman from my earlier years.

[Lliam]

@OlderAndWiser. What? She kept rubbing all over ya? 🤣

[aWes0MeNeSs]

As much as I love both, I agree that dogs are very high maintenance, which is why I didn't get another after my last passed. With a time consuming job like mine, it wouldn't be fair to the dog. Cats, on the other hand, are very independent!

[Prettygurl12]

I have a dog, a cat, 3 fish, and 2 snails. We're getting a second dog when we move out of this apartment. Also I want a horse again.

I don't want kids. I want allllllll the pets 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Loll

[cheapshotbob]

easy choice for me i can't have kids so baby dogs

[DizzyDesii]

Okayy

[Dav1ss]

I don't like most animals anyway and I do want kids so give them to me now 😂

[Lemia]

Here's some kitties and puppies for you @Dav1ss 🐱🐱🐱🐱🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

[Aakash_Hangargi]

🤽‍♀️🤽‍♂️🤾‍♂️🤾‍♀️🤹‍♂️🤹‍♀️👫👲

[justcurious2019]

@Dav1ss easy there friend 😂😂

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm 65. What would I do with kids? Cats are MUCH easier!

[DizzyDesii]

Half of my HS classmates had oldparents 50+ 🤷‍♀️

[OlderAndWiser]

The parents were probably in their 40's but they looked old to you! :) :) :)

[DizzyDesii]

No my mom is in her 40s. there's are legit 60s and up. A lot of my classmates are from the countryside and people here have kids when they turn 40-70

[whitehide]

Pets, no doubt. I get along with animals really easily. This is Didda, by the way 💕

[DizzyDesii]

I thought i was looking at a lemur 😂 had to turn it to see beethoven

[whitehide]

I don't think it would be a good idea to keep a lemur as a pet 😂
Beethoven?

[DizzyDesii]

Ever seen zaboomafoo lol? And Looks like the beethoven cujo type dog

[whitehide]

What's zaboomafoo?
But no, she's a border collie, not a rabid saint bernard 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Oh lmao 😂 shows you how much of a dog fan i am 😬

[whitehide]

You seem pretty fixed on kids 😂
That is truly the stuff of nightmares 😮

[DizzyDesii]

I've been baby crazy since age 3. It would be a blessing on earth to birth happy healthy children and raise them for as long as i happily live

[whitehide]

Well then you have to make sure not to raise your kids to be assholes 😂

[DizzyDesii]

They won't be. They won't even be allowed to say ass til theyre in college

[rubyrose83]

After having both, I'd definitely just stick to pets 😂 💯

[DizzyDesii]

Damn what did uour kid do lol

[rubyrose83]

Babies are great but they turn into children, which are not so great. The first 5 years is as good as it gets with kids. They're overrated

[DizzyDesii]

I won't lie, when i say i want a baby, age 3-7 are the only ages truly going through my head because its the influential and adorable stages 😂 other than that ima hate changing diapers or dealing with bratty teenager attitudes. But i still want em

[rubyrose83]

Good luck lol 🙂

[SydneySentinel]

Before I had my own child, I would have said pets. But being a mom is one of the most incredible things ever.

[DizzyDesii]

Glad you love it

[mimi051998]

I'm not a fan of pets, so easy choice I chose kids. I love babies and I treat my baby's niece and nephew as my own. I was always told not to get baby fever 🤣🤣.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i said the same above

[LEADFOOTboi]

I don't know if baby fever is avoidable... i think its amazing and adorable

[DizzyDesii]

@LEADFOOTboi extremely

[LEADFOOTboi]

my previous relationship told me she wanted a baby... i was moved by this... she didn't like kids

[DizzyDesii]

@LEADFOOTboi maybe you changed her for the best

[LEADFOOTboi]

i doubt it...

[Phoenix98]

Well I love my animals and I've never been without one my entire life, I want a family and a legacy and that is far more important to me, especially in the long run.

[DizzyDesii]

As least you respected both lol

[Phoenix98]

Mhmm ^^

[Lemia]

most Couple who are unable to have kids chose to taken on a pet.

[DizzyDesii]

Or they chose to adopt

[Lemia]

True but Your question was Kids or Pet not have kids morturnal or apoted someone else

[DizzyDesii]

If i couldnt have kids (and couldnt adopt) i still would not want a pet. Not everyone is an animal lover

[MannMitAntworten]

I’m a rule breaker, I’d still end up with both. After all, it takes to to make munchkins and that leaves the other with the choice to pick the remaining option. Win win :p

[DizzyDesii]

Loll

[MannMitAntworten]

Two* blasted typos!

[AlienParasite]

Not a pet person. On the other side, I love taking care of kids, talking with kids and having their company. So C.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol thats so me

[David92506]

I've lived with several Zen Masters and they were both cats.

So now I would like to try children.

[DizzyDesii]

Hahaha fair enough

[David92506]

I learned a lot from pets because I took the time, energy and effort to have a relationship with them. I can only imagine how much more rewarding it would be with a child.

[Meropatrick]

Pets my baby

[DizzyDesii]

Oh its polly

[lookin64]

Children of course nothing like experiencing the love of a child.
And by the way a baby goat is referred to as a "kid" wonder if there is a comparison there somewhere lol

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wow

[SjE78]

since i have kids already I have to say i'd vote for that... but hard choice though as i love my kids and the animals i've had over the years

[DizzyDesii]

I understand :)

[SjE78]

although while at times the animals were less trouble... they were pretty much equal instigators in many of the infighting between the kids lol my last dog used to wind up my older two and hide their things and ensure that he had a nice comfy seat to watch it all unfold... sometimes he'd place their stuff in the other's room

could almost hear the damned dog attempt to keep in his laughter bloody windup merchant lol

[Finchie40]

After you see what my kids did to my house last night when I was sleeping. You will take pets lol

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂😂😂 what did they do

[Finchie40]

Had a friggin party , dishes stacked to the ceiling , wrappers everywhere , they must of been up all night cuz they are still in bed and I am left cleaning all this shit , I can tell and make them do it. But it will be half assed so I am doing it and going to make them do some when they get their asses up lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yea save it for them lmao

[DnSC_]

Since I love kids, I'll go with kids with this one instead of pets. I miss my babies from my classroom😞

[DizzyDesii]

What babies? Hamsters?

[DnSC_]

Babies as in the pre-k students I worked with at my internship lol.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh lmao

[LEADFOOTboi]

wow, she must really like kids... to miss groups of 2-4 year olds... that's amazing

[DnSC_]

@LEADFOOTboi Trust me some days were ruff lol but I still loved working with them none the less

[LEADFOOTboi]

that's special, not a whole lot of people... can handle that kind of ruckus... keep doin what you doin

[potatoiswhoiam]

I really love pets, but if I have to choose, I'd choose kids in a heartbeat.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats sweet

[goaded]

The difference is between people who have kids, and those who don't.

I've always thought of pets as buying a living being, just to watch them die. I want my kids to still be around when I die.

[Hans222]

Voted kids.
I want neither but rather kids than :D

[DizzyDesii]

Loll

[LoU_Hades]

Kids. Even if I love pets, they have never been a substitute for kids in my perception.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[mooky06]

Hard choice 😐 but i want mini me’s running around 😬

[DizzyDesii]

Same

[AgataO2]

It is hard but I would choose pets because life is too cruel for kids

[DizzyDesii]

Have you not seen the sad animal commercials with the In the Arms of an Angel song

[HOAAH]

I already have three kids!! Also, baby fever is real! That's why i just had my third😂😁😃😅😆.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i want it 🙌

[HOAAH]

I can tell you totally have baby fever, oooh nooo!!!

[LEADFOOTboi]

oh lawwwwd, have mercy

[DizzyDesii]

@LEADFOOTboi lmao

And yes girl i do 😭

[LEADFOOTboi]

i feel sorry for whoever you is... puppydog eyeing right now... cuz they gonna get it

[DizzyDesii]

@LEADFOOTboi lmao for once im not eyeing anyone. Hard to find someone on same page lmao

[LEADFOOTboi]

whaaaat? i hear womens have no trouble picking out guys

[DizzyDesii]

@LEADFOOTboi apparently my picks in the past pretended to be what i wanted so yea im more careful now

[LEADFOOTboi]

i'm sorry that kinda stuff happens to anyone... it seems like the real pandemic... sick minds

[Kezzz]

Without doubt but a heavy heart, I'd have to go with having kids cause they gonna succeed me. At least, they can have pets unlike me if they chose so when asked this.

[DizzyDesii]

Haha true

[Kezzz]

😊😌

[TallAnon]

Easy, kids. I want a dog, but I have my priorities straight. A new generation is the future of our world, way more important than my self indulgence of wanting a pet.

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you 👏

[sphiegirl]

Pets, now send me a private message please cuz I can't due to the lack of xp

[LEADFOOTboi]

why should i send you a PM? what's in it for me?

[CHARismatic110]

I voted wrong, but yeah no brainers. I'd choose kids every time.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol watch how many choose pets 🙄

[CHARismatic110]

You already know that pets will win

[DizzyDesii]

Pet sematary all over again

[CHARismatic110]

Exactly

[Shuri]

Pets. I'm a teacher, so I'll get my kid kick at work.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao

[MadBoy]

Considering I know for a fact I am DEFINITELY not ready to raise a kid on my own, I vote pets.

[DizzyDesii]

Mmkay

[NateSmiley]

Its socially acceptable for a new born parrot to tell people to fuck off.

[BoxySama]

😂😂😂😎

[DizzyDesii]

👀👀👀

[NateSmiley]

Unless you can teach a newborn to say it then I'll change my mind.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont want my kids cussing

[NateSmiley]

That's fair

[beebella]

I would want both, but if I had to choose one, it'd be kids.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats good :)

[msc545]

Pets are much more polite and usually smarter as well

[DizzyDesii]

Ummmmmm

[msc545]

Perhaps you would like to correspond with Angus, my cat?

[DizzyDesii]

Cats are smart but i know few that are polite. Im not a pet lover by the way. Dont hate em. Just dont love em

[msc545]

Angus plans to ask you to dinner and change your mind...

[alice55]

Easy choice, i chose pets. I love my cat too much she's so adorable *-*

[loveslongnails]

Easiest choice I've had today... pets, forget kids. Not that I don't like them, but I make a great uncle and a shitty parent.

[TacosRAwesome]

Neutral about both but I went with kids as pets don't replace kids.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[Trooper205]

I Love Pets, but I want Children! I'll take Descendants!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes!!

[Titanic1912]

Hard choice but I chose kids. I really want to become a father someday.

[DizzyDesii]

Awww 😍

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Not a responsible person so as of now neither😂 first of all i am only a baby😜

[DizzyDesii]

you're old lol

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You are also in the league and women age faster than Men😂😜

[DizzyDesii]

I know im old which is why i wanted kids at 21+. didn't get to happen tho

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Don't worry by the end of April yo will get the good newz but you have to keep doing the deed 🤣 oldmans blessings with you🙌

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao stop being a fortune teller 😂 i ain't tryna have sex with nobody in less than 6 monthhs of knowing em/loving em

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I thought both of you were ready damn words have been said you have been blessed it's bound to happen 😆 you had to be careful what you wish for😁

[DizzyDesii]

I am
Ready but im just wondering am
I virgin mary or something cause i wouldn't sex someone that soon of hardly knowing them

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You already have a boyfriend right?

[DizzyDesii]

Been single over a year

[Aakash_Hangargi]

🤐😮Now you have to find a guy quickly 😜

[JaceZX10]

Kids are not for everyone it takes a village of people to raise one! I ask anyone that is thinking about having a child to really think about it! Use protecting !!!

[Lunatic1]

As much as I want an heir to my legacy, I would have to say pets. The world has more than enough people for the time being.

[DizzyDesii]

In sure its nearly as many animals when we’re nor eating em

[Lunatic1]

Not quite, but people are making it worse for the animals.

[lucas262]

Mmmmn 1 is cheap, lives you to their core, never bacl talk unless he's a sassy tail.

I vote in favor of corgos

[honestGUY45]

I have 2 of each and looking to get rid of them all.

[DizzyDesii]

Dang

[navyP]

I have 3 daughters and if I had to do it over again I'd choose to have 3 dogs instead

[DizzyDesii]

Yikes

[Prettygurl12]

Lmao

[johnieohm]

i am a guy with baby fever so take your explination

[DizzyDesii]

Yes 🙌

[johnieohm]

why yes, what do you mean?

[DizzyDesii]

I thought u said u agreed with my explanation. My bad

[johnieohm]

i do, i am a guy that has baby fever. and to help the population not decrease unless a tragic accident when i die then my minimum is 2 but my maximum is 2

[farhaan7]

It's like responsibility I wanna have both but u know I want to make myself independent frst

[DizzyDesii]

I understand

[prashant9643]

kids bind parents. They are your product. You are manufacturing them when you are loving your better half.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[NorthwestRider]

My furbabies. My fiancée and myself treat them as our kids

[the_sinner]

Kids.
As a human it'd be easy for me to take care of one than taking care of animals.

[DizzyDesii]

Right :)

[Ellie-V]

I already have pets so I’d be content with them

[DizzyDesii]

Are you considering adoption

[Ellie-V]

I am. I have 3 shops and I’m currently in the process of selling two of them so that I have more time to focus on my future family. I make a very comfortable living with my other business. It’s time to shift gears. I’m ready.

[DizzyDesii]

So proud for you 🙏🙌

[Ellie-V]

Thank you... I’m really scared. This is gonna shake up my whole life. I’m hoping it won’t take years and years.

[DizzyDesii]

We bout in the same boat. Im tryna give it the rest of this year but im gonna seriously look into invitro come next year if still single

[Ellie-V]

Do what you gotta do. Not everything will come to us in the we want.

[johny0000]

Kids are most beautiful ❤️ thing could happen once life

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[blkgold33]

I'll pick team pet lol. Get a nice loyal dog.

[DizzyDesii]

Ok cujo

[blkgold33]

😂 cujo and me going be best friends lol