My Sister's Husband Checked her boobs harshly, Was it okay? (Page 2)
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Yes its normal he was worried about the baby. Should tell them to use formula and breastmilk.
Yeah... But My Concered was about his Rude and harsh behaviour with her !
nr right for him, I mean its j biological screwy stuff if u can do something to help do it, but if shit happens, shit happens, not her control.
@chubbycrow Yeah, If a Woman is not producing enough Milk then it Could be because of Many reasons but My brother-in-law just grabbed her boobs like She was hiding her milk in them, It was Harsh and Weird behaviour of him Specially in front of her Wife's brother.
yeah sorry. and where are you from again, just curious because I know in some cultures and countries male violence and heavy obedience is seen as okay and is normalized.
You Guessed Right ! In My Country what My Sister's husband did is considered very Normal... and a Brother don't have any right to intervene into this Sort of Matter ! I Can't ask My brother-in-law that don't grab or squeeze her boobs So harshly ! Its really out of My limit !
yeah those laws are horrid. I'd say try and move or something or get away from him if he continues
Your brother in law is an absolute tool. How he’s managed to pro create is beyond me.
After rereading it again I’d say that he was right or correct her, but not in an busier manner.
*abusive
What do you mean?
I would also feel embarrassed. But you need to realize that this is a normal thing. And the child's father was right, but he didn't have to swear at his wife.
I'm not married So I don't know how there personal relationship Works ! For me it was like bulling and Abusive behaviour !
It is absolutely not ok or cool to do this. None of it was right. This would actually effect how well she was able to breastfeed bc of an increase in stress. Lame move
@happy7777 Yeah it was a very harsh behaviour of My brother-in-law, he just grabbed her one boobs and almost crushed her boob badly to check if milk is coming out of her nipples, When No milk came out he started Scolding her, It was very painful and insulting for My Sister specially her husband did right infront of her brother ! If he can do this infront me then i don't know what he do to her in alone !
Exactly! Terrible move on his part
Your brother-in-law is an under-educated lout. Under no circumstances should he let a baby's behaviour to cause his own behaviour to go off the rails. He is not fit to be a father or, apparently, a husband. What a putz!
I don't know whether it is okay or not.
But it was kinda rude to do that in front of you. But who knows? Since she was your sister, he might have thought that it was okay to do it in front of you
@tstrbrainer Huh? Maybe !
I don't know about pressing breasts for checking milk.
So I don't know if pressing it roughly was necessary or not.
But I don't know how it is her fault if she is not having milk
@tstrbrainer Yeah, But If the baby was Continously Crying and My Sister didn't know that She has ran out of Milk then, I am not Sure What Could have been done? I found it's kinda harsh What he do but I'm Also not Sure if there was Any other way to know if she has milk or not without Squeezeing her boobs ! But i'm fully Sure he deliberately Squeezed her boobs very hard to cause her Pain as he was Annoyed at that time !
Yeah it was very rude, after all, it was his child, right?
The best to do is look for alternatives or get medical help to replenish her milk.
He certainly could have more discreet and gentle about the whole incident. He may have been concerned fro the welfare of the child, but he really should not have committed battery to find out if she was "wet". Two wrongs don't make a right!
Someone needs to smack some respect and sense into that man. checking if she had milk is nothing wrong but being harsh and rude is not acceptable.
Sounds to me like your brother-in-law's an asshole. She's doing the best she can, she can't help that she doesn't have milk
That wasn't okay at all, touching someone's more sensitive parts without permission is a terrible action.
You should probably tell him that the milk comes out through nipple stimulation
Huh? You got a New Concept and Research ! ✨
Nah, lactation is just a fetish of mine
Yes, Your sister is probably doing it wrong and the hind milk is not being released because your sister is stopping too early. The baby needs to keep suckling to get past this.
What do you mean By that My Sister is stopping it too early? What do you think about My brother-in-law's behaviour, he squeezed her boob were roughly to check her milk and to punish her in Anger, I saw My Sister felt much Pain and She was looking Scared and embarrsed !
He shouldn't abuse her for no reason but it sounds like she messed up. The baby is hungry because the mother is feeding the baby the thin foremilk to the child and then stopping. The baby needs to keep sucking to break through to the hind milk which is thick and creamy (like heavy cream from a dairy cow.) Her husbands sound like he is proficient in this arena and he justifiably became angry at her gross lactatorial incompetence. Squeezing her breast might help to release the hind milk more readily
You have Good knowledge on this Subject, What do you do?
I am in the technology sector but I dated a woman who lactated for a long time and I read up on it as well
Hmm... Wow !! Sounds Good ! Can you PM me?
I would but I am undercover on here. I am trying to flush out some people involved in a organ laundering ring
Wow. What the hell? What an asshole. It's not her fault if she didn't have any milk.
@jamie05rhs I think her baby was hungry and sucked her all milk and was still Crying but it was not My Sister's fault if She ran out of Milk but My brother-in-law squeezed her boobs so roughly like He was checking if she was hiding any milk there !
He's a jerk.
If he's doing this with you in the room, what is he doing to her in private?
@meldrum Exactly, this is the question which instantly came in My mind ! My Sister's has been married to him for last 2 years and he Sounded me like a Abusive husband !
To squeeze her boob yes it’s ok to squeeze it that hard no definitely not ok. the way he was acting now That should be something that is talked about.
@baseball21 I was in My Brother-in-laws home and he was drunk too So i didn't say anything to him ! But Why you think Swueezeing her boob was okay but hard sqeezeing was not ok?
I mean if he is squeezeing them normally then that’s ok I squeeze my girls all the time but if it was hard and rough and she didn’t like it that’s not ok. And yeah If he was drunk then. That’s not ok and he definitely needed talked to at that point.
Yeah coz she's stupid. Should the child die of hunger or what?
I had gone to My Sister's home first time Since she got married So she was excited talking to me and Probably she didn't realize that she has No milk left and her baby was Sucking only her nipples that's why baby was crying ! But My brother-in-law almost Crushed her one boob in Anger ! She must have felt much Pain and this was a Harsh behaviour !
So what? So if he isn't there one day and she doesn't realize the baby will die of hunger. He did the right thing, also say thank you he didn't slap her. Any father will do that. by the way she should be looking after the baby first. It's her first priority. Also she's really dumb to not realize her breast is dry.
How much pain did she cry? Is it Blue?
I think you are the only one crying. Anyway if you have a problem, go tel your brother in law how you feel. Also Go kiss your sisters breast and congratulate her on her poor Parenting.
This is not a way to treat people and yea his brother in law fixed the situation in a wrong way
Anger is never a solution
@HusamRocks so he should have been "ohky" with his baby crying and the "mother " not even knowing she's out of milk being glad to see he little gay brother?
I am not Gay and I wouls Still Say Crushing her boobs to punish her in Anger was Wrong ! He Could have make her understand in Some other polite Ways !
So go tell him or are you scared Gayboy?
Its Not about Scared him ! Why I would be Scared of him? Will he shot me dead?
she's not in control of how much milk she produces its not like she can push out milk
@JayisI and she doesn't realize the baby is crying coz there's no milk. The husband must come check that. Wow by the way it's easy AF to check milk. And if the baby is crying after starting to drink titty then obviously there's a problem. So did you speak to her husband?
For checking her boobs "Harshly ", because you and your sister are so dumb.
Dang you toxic. It's not like people can force out breast milk out of their breasts get some milk from other breastfeeding parents some people can't even breast feed. And their boobs are sore so no. It ain't bad parenting it's called it just can't happen. I'm sure she would if she could. Have you ever been a parent or had a hard time breast feeding because if not then you have no right to judge.
Did u have a harsh childhood or something? I think u need to show some attitude
u don't call people stupid unless u r stupid and ur opinion is just stupid as u
this guy here was looking for some productive opinions and he felt bad for his sister so thumbs up
Tell me if ur brother ever felt caring for u, I guess not
Very strange and a bit derogatory behavior.
What does derogatory means for?
Touching harshly wife's boobs in anger in presence of her brother, or even any person.
If you found it wrong, it’s wrong.. as simple as that.. give your sister some advise to be bold and strong... and face these situations boldly..
@gangster123 My Sister is a timid and Meek Woman but her husband is Aggresive and Adamant ! ✨✨
Is an adult.. Who is a father... Yet acts like a angry child? That's messed up. Some women go for the weirdest men.