Best friend is boy crazy and I hate it!

[Anonymous]

I been best friends with my friend since the 7th grade. Yes we all ways had our ups and downs but we all ways remained friends. Through out High School, whenever a guy would ask me out, my friend would be like it is a joke he will stand you up (cause he would be a jock or something) so I would say no to the guy. I bit my tongue for her first two boyfriends in High School. Years later and two more boyfriends later, she has become so boy crazy that it has gotten to the point where I wanna kill her. What ever guy is nice to her, she right away has a crush on him. The last guy had to lie he had a girlfriend because she would not leave him be. Now this other one named D (safety reasons) knew my friend was easy and began to take advantage of her. He would be nice to her and ask her for rides to the gym, then ditch her at the gym. He would never her call her to chill (claims he was all ways busy) but all he had to do was say a few nice things to her and she would melt. She did so much for him to learn the cold hard truth that he was only using her. I was right from day one with this guy. She bitches all the time that she can't find love yet clings to every guy who is nice to her. When her friends introduce her to a real nice guy who is just okay looking (my friend is no model and neither am I) she would tell us ew later on. She only chases hot guys and she has driven me to the point where I wanna say shut the f*** up to her. All I hear about now is D and how she will never find love. Please HELP

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P.S Not a sexuality question

[faraday]

Heh, that's exactly how I am, the best thing you can do is just to tell her "F***ing pull yourself together, get over this sh*t, you will find love, but if you don't stop bitchin' that love is gonna suck" sometimes people need a little bit of invidious commentary to get them going

[Asker]

I told her this today like around 7pm and she hugged me crying that she is so ugly and stuff. I never had a boyfriend and I got asked out once in a blue moon but I don't cry because I am not a super model or perfect. I deal with what I look like.

[faraday]

Hmmm, well I dunno, a lot of the time people are just trying to make people feel bad for them, in that case, just tell her you can't be friends with her, and signs of that are constant mind games like "I'm okay, a bit sad, but you don't want to hear it" and stuff like that, but if she's genuinely unhappy, chances are she would be phlegmatic about it and keep it to herself, if she's genuinely unhappy, just let her cry it off for a couple of days, and if it doesn't help, move on

[Asker]

Trust me she does this all to be the center of attention. When her last boyfriend dumped her, she had to run to my guy friends house on guy night (I am one of the guys pretty much cause I am a tomboy lol) and cried all night to them when it was two weeks later

[faraday]

Then she isn't a friend, she's using you to make herself feel better about herself, back the f*** out of that friendship

[Asker]

thank you for the help

[amy69]

dump your friend...thats not a real friend!

[Asker]

I do ditch her a lot for my other friends lately. She all ways tries to act so hot when she is a huge nerd and sh*t. Like all day today I heard about D and that I was wrong he was not using her. Even our friend said he was.

[amy69]

then dump the bitch ! best answer right there...problem solved

[Asker]

lol I am so going to do it.

[amy69]

good!